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2023.06.05 15:29 NoHxnor New to the group

Hello everyone , I bought a 15 wrangler sport about a couple months ago at 75k miles. Upon driving this past couple months , I’ve noticed it’s developed what seems to be called “ limp mode “. At some points I haven’t been able to reach over 3.5 rpm’s or when I’m maintaining speed at around 40 mph my rpm’s will drop to about 1.5 rpm’s.
I changed the crankshaft position censor but it didn’t make too much of a difference driving wise. I do not know if it’s there’s water in my fuel causing this ? Or if I’m not knowledgeable enough to know any other common problems anyone else might have with their vehicles.
Anyone with ideas or questions to help me out with would great help to me. Sometimes she also does a loud clicking noise sitting in park when on a hill or some incline. ( don’t know if I should park with the E-brake to lessen the tension on the transmission. Jeep is also a automatic. Thank you all. Sorry if this is complicated lol.
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2023.06.05 15:28 braininventory1 A Step-by-Step Guide to Implementing Customized Accounting Software

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2023.06.05 15:28 cupcakekittenz Advice on introducing your cats to someone else’s cat and human child?

I currently have three female cats - two of them are 5 and one of them is about to turn 2. I got them all as kittens so they are my babies. It took a while for my two 5 year olds to warm up to the youngest cat but now they don’t mind and tolerate her. They’re a bit skittish with new people, especially my youngest, but they do eventually warm up especially when people that come over know their name and call them over they gain trust quickly. They have been around children a couple of times and they usually get a bit finicky. My youngest was only a few months old the last time she was around kids and she did well, but I can imagine as an adult cat now who is skittish with new people she will not cope well. And the other two were a little swatty and stayed away when kids came over.
Anyways, I am talking to a guy who has an almost 3 year old. He has another female cat as well who is about 7 years old. Not sure his cat has ever cohabited with another cat. She does NOT like his son at all. She meows and swats at him every time he comes near even if he is paying her no mind. He is loud and has a lot of energy given that he is a toddler.
I know this is really far in advance, but I’m just getting out of a long term relationship about 9 months ago and don’t want to waste time if I think it may not work. I’m almost 28 as well and don’t want to waste time but I also don’t want to throw away something good just because I’m anxious. If things get serious with this new guy and we eventually talk about moving in together, I am so worried my cats will not adjust to his kid or his other cat and will just be miserable and I’ve had an insane amount of anxiety over it the last couple of days. I also get worried his cat and/or kid will hurt my cats.
Does anyone have any advice or experience with a similar situation?
Thank you for reading this far 😊
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2023.06.05 15:28 olu_igokra Cosmos oracle and distant grasp psychic mage hand

So, I love oracles. I constantly try to create new and creative or weird oracle characters. So, I was creating a gnome cosmos oracle, thinking about which archetipes could be good in this build, and I noticed something: as a distant grasp psychic, your mage hand could carry up to 2 bulk when you get to level 3. And the moderate curse from cosmos oracle says that "You weigh only half as much, and your Bulk, should someone need to carry you, is also half as much". Then, I went to see how much bulk a creature has, and here comes the good news: a small creature has only 3 bulk. So, at moderate curse, your bulk would become 1,5. So, a distant grasp psychic mage hand (or your own, should you take the psychic multiclass archetype), which could carry up to 2 bulk as early as level 3, could carry you!
Does that mean that if my gnome oracle, with distant graps psychic dedication, is at the moderate curse, they can simply "fly", as long as they use their mage hand to do so?
Edit: links.
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2023.06.05 15:27 opensrcdev IP Address of Ubuntu Studio 22.04 LTS doesn't show in Hyper-V Manager

IP Address of Ubuntu Studio 22.04 LTS doesn't show in Hyper-V Manager
On Windows 11, I created a new Hyper-V virtual machine and installed Ubuntu Studio 22.04 LTS in it, from the ISO. The VM is connected to an "external" virtual switch, so it's directly connected to my network. When the guest VM comes online, the IP address of the guest doesn't show in the Networking details of the Hyper-V Manager graphical interface, as shown below.
I've tried everything that I can find recommended online, such as:
  • Installing the linux-virtual apt package
  • Installing the linux-cloud-tools-???? package
  • Installing the linux-tools-virtual package
  • Running update-initramfs -u command
NOTHING works at all. However, I have an Ubuntu Server 22.04 LTS VM that does properly report its IP address. I deployed that VM from the generic/ubuntu2204 Vagrant box on Vagrant Cloud.
Considering that Ubuntu Server and Ubuntu Studio are built from the same base, I can't imagine why I'm having such an impossible time getting this simple function to work. If the IP address isn't reported by the guest VM operating system, then tools like Vagrant can't properly report the status of the VM's SSH daemon, or similar functions.
Question: How can I get this Ubuntu Studio 22.04 LTS guest VM to report its IP address back to Hyper-V properly?
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2023.06.05 15:27 Senior_Juice5380 TBBT rules explained?

As a non-American whose country only was allowed all American movies and TV since 1990, I learned pretty late, that characters (or real people?) are supposed to be divided into boxes such as nerds, jocks, geeks ... Does anyone have specific guidelines on how this works? Please feel free to correct:
1) Nerd = smart, non athletic, into books, Star Wars, Star Trek, super heroes, comic books, sthg called 'Dungeons and Dragons, fantasy genre,
2) Geek = like nerd but also video games
3) Jock = cannot be smart, cannot watch SW,WT, D&D, cannot read comics, cannot like fantasy. Physically strong, works out, is into some sport or multiple sports, actively plays for some sport team
4) popular woman = it means she doesn't have any close friends, just lots of lovers and one night stands
5) attractive woman = cannot read books, is not allowed to understand or like any science or any comics, or super hero movies, or fantasy genre, or science fiction
6) Liking science, philosophy or sci-fi = it's ok to use it as a reason to physically asssault you
7) Liking tabloids, celebrity drama = it's NOT ok to us it as a reason to physicall assault you
8) a man crying = it's funny, humiliating or both
9) saying something r*cist to a person from India = it's ok if you end it with "that was r*cist".
10) intelligent person, book-smart person = cannot work out and have physically fit body
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2023.06.05 15:27 ConsiderationBig8502 5'2", Going to small client lunch in NYC in tech industry. Do either pants shown below fall at the ankle correctly? The black pants are least professional by most comfy. Does the blazer fit right? My torso tends to be on the shorter side. Also unsure of shoes, belts?! Hahah I'll take any help!

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2023.06.05 15:27 Teasodas Advice for a lost student?

Hey guys, I am at a bit of a loss at the moment and thought I would ask for a bit of advice from you all. Sorry in advance, I think this might be a long post.
I am a first year at university, not doing anything in particular. Right now I am doing a course that I thought I would like, but after trying it out it’s boring especially because it is really tedious and has mediocre prospects (maxing out at maybe 100-110k after years).
I was looking to switch into another degree that looks good for the future and will pay better in a field that I have a mild amount of interest in, but it is very academic and the courses I will need to take are not my strong suit and seem very tedious as well.
I am now considering doing a shorter degree that will basically get me into the same career. It seems less tedious and I have a similarly mild interest in it though, it is quite competitive and lots of people in this degree seem to have a strong vested interest/experience playing around with software (compsci). The only things I have done are automate some tasks and attempt to build a website when I was younger.
I didn’t do any particularly difficult subjects in highschool, and while I revised maybe a month or two before exams, I couldn’t bring myself to do any insane study. I am not an especially gifted student, nor do I have a great work ethic and I have never gotten outstanding grades. The topics and subjects that I used to find interesting quickly became mind numbing as I went through highschool and I just did it because I had to. I ended up with a 90’s ATAR (99.5 adjusted for subjects), again, my subjects weren’t demanding compared to my peers who took mostly STEM classes.
Now after graduating, I have no strong interest in any field really, but if I had to pick I would move into some kind of tech degree just so I can be over with it and start making leeway on my career sooner rather than later. I would much rather be uninterested and making some money than uninterested and unsuccessful. I think if I can settle down on a degree without looking at other options I could maybe focus a bit and be feel less discouraged. I have always been okay with tech and could probably do fine, though then I would have to pick a specialisation and I don’t know what to pick.
Everything feels very daunting at the moment, not just school/career wise, but even just waking up and going outside (I am usually a relatively social person). Honestly, I am just going through the motions of life for now and I can’t want to be done with school and work forever.
I cringe at the thought of staying where I am right now and racking up HECS debt mucking around doing a degree I know I will switch out of. I have exams coming up that I cannot for the life of me bring myself to revise because they will be useless when I change courses and are difficult because I let myself not study for the past who knows how long.
I don’t want to take a gap year because I hate the thought of everyone else progressing while I stay put, and I know I would be significantly happier if I could choose a degree without second thoughts. I feel like every second I don’t decide I am falling further behind. Plus, I don’t have much in savings and would probably get kicked out if i dropped university as I am not in good terms with the fam.
TLDR: I am a student having trouble committing to a degree and would like advice on if a compsci degree is a good idea for someone generally unmotivated, but thinks it’s kind of fun to make little bots/automated tasks and wants to make decent money in the future.
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2023.06.05 15:26 Glass_Dust3645 Does a good SAT score Improve chances into getting accepted in a Top Canadian school as an International Student? and if it does how much does it improve?

Hello I'm a Grade 11 Filipino who's planning to study in Canada in collage and I really want to get accepted in one of Canada's top 10 universities(specifically University of Toronto) and I wanted to know if a Good Sat score can Improve my chances and if so how much?
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2023.06.05 15:26 Ok-Check-1404 English Language Q5

I know it’s too late to change what I wrote but I really wanted to know everyone’s opinion 😭 for question 5 I described the picture and started off by talking about “my wildlife park” and the conservation efforts then I moved onto the entrance and a few enclosure. Then I wrote a massive paragraph about the lions enclosure and the cubs. Then I got a bit deep and wrote about elephants and changed the tone. I described how to food wasn’t the sort of nutrition they needed and the enclosure was much too small, the elephant calf didn’t have enough room and so forth describing all the woes of elephants in the zoo. Then I did a paragraph writing one sentence on different animals and the struggles they were facing from being in the zoo. I described the path as battered and wild, no longer kept neat. Then I did like a little conclusion about the effects of this zoo and finished with a rhetorical question “sometimes it makes me wonder … is the idea of this wildlife park really ethical anymore?” Will I get marked down? It feels too story-like when it was meant to be a description. I didn’t write a story by any means but I feel like I made it a bit too deep to the point it’s not a description anymore. Do you guys think this will be ok?
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2023.06.05 15:26 viagordon Price guide for my limited edition te37

Price guide for my limited edition te37
These staggered te37 LE have fallen into my possession. They don’t fit any cars I own so I’d love to sell them or possibly swap for something however I have no idea how rare these actually are, as I did not pay anything for them really.
They’re 7.5 +48 fronts, 9 +65 rears, from my searches this is a common s2000 setup. They’re in decent shape, stickers peeling a bit and the diamond cut lip is a little oxidised.
All I could find online was that these and the gold “top secret” collab rims are the only te37s to date to have a polished lip. Plus there seems to be about 5 photos of these rims to exist online at all. I imagine to the right buyer they’re worth a bit but honestly I don’t know whether it’s enough to hold onto them waiting for the right buyer. I live in Australia, unless it’s big big money I’d rather not ship them but I’d love to gauge whether these are worth significantly more than the regular te37sl or saga for example, which sell for 3.5-4k in Aus
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2023.06.05 15:26 Ok-Advantage-0 Marri wood value?

Marri wood value?
Hey guys, not sure if this is the right subbredit to post in (if not I apologise), a couple years ago I made this table top in a workshop class, as you can see the edges aren’t cleaned up and neither is the under side. It’s Marri wood and I remember it was pricey to order in but have forgotten how much I paid. Does anyone have a rough estimate on what this is worth. It’s a meter long and 2 feet wide. I’m in AUD so leave the currency below if you drop a value.
Thanks guys!
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2023.06.05 15:26 EarthInternational9 Stalkers make another brag about cryptocurrency wallet account. They hacked email yesterday? Dormant for 14/15 years, but still open? They PRETEND to make decisions for my kids, but ONLY if it's to do something mean to me. That's what they did on FB to embarrass me. Skilled in parental alienation.

They brag that they switched kids, killing mine, just so lookalike kids in my household wouldn't protect me anyway. These kids have contracts with human traffickers? Selected using information from box of extra school photos? They refuse to give $ to legal guardian advocate, ME because of identity fraud, so WE'RE out of luck? The blurb on website about account RECOVERY process was just PRETEND. Wallet exchange just wanted to make they sure controlled wallet before "allowing" Security Exchange Commission to make regulations on cryptocurrency. That's why she wanted to work for FBI before letting me get technology job there out of state? FBI PROTECTED FRAUD? Simple to see my posts on reddit that my son called "crazy conspiracy" was RIGHT? But he's dead replaced by kid that hates me for complaining online?
They have been proving that they know exactly how to HURT mothers.
They killed many good mothers because they seek disruption of healthy families that allow humanity to continue.
Did you know they might have highjacked email because my son discussed with teacher that he was MOLESTED (but not by me)? They wanted to control that information to twist it on me! Shame placed on mother, not actual child molester again!
This team must have hurt so very many mothers to fill their brothels with mothers and children that no one would care to report missing? They got my oldest brother to hate me so he wouldn't protect me no matter how many times my dead father appears with message. My dad wasn't respected much by his siblings? Of course not. As far as I know, my dad moved to new city/state rather be forced to sin.
They've used technology to take over identities. Like old Twitter account they got my son to pay attention to, ONLY when I wasn't posting anymore? Facebook account for Rajaram to see, but only when I wasn't posting anymore? They have attitude of destruction of end of days and can't do or think about anything else. They attacked me since 1975 even before I had done anything bad in my life. FAMILY MEMBERS. If these are my descendants, I am glad that they DIE when I die. Nothing can save them if they carry my DNA, but hadn't been born from three sons I gave birth to. Cloned kids created chaos, but they die anyway!
Congratulations, you now have NEW WORLD ORDER ruled by drug dealers who will selectively decide how you live (just like they did me)? Even if money is pretend money or accounts photoshopped, as long as they can follow you, they control you!
People ignored me like I was Holy Spirit, so it's all YOUR FAULT.
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2023.06.05 15:26 ihateusernamesKY Daycare Question- should I change daycares?

My 2.5 yo started daycare in January. This daycare is 2 minutes away from me, their very communicative throughout the day, and they feed breakfast, lunch, and snacks. They also allow part time, while most places force full time. I’m not impressed with the curriculum, but my son feels safe there and it took him a long time to adjust.
My in laws watch the boys once a week (per their request) and my parents watch him another day. On my parents days, others usually come to visit and see the kids while I work.
Naturally, he got sick quite a bit in the beginning- January through march were hell. Since April, though, we’ve been relatively in the clear. Some of these sicknesses impacted my family.
On Friday we were at my parents place, and my grandparents visited, along with a couple others. I also took my 9m old to the doc on Wednesday for an ear infection.
Well, on Saturday, we’re all sick with a stomach bug and so is everyone that was over at my parents house Friday. My grandparents in particular everyone was worried about, understandably.
Now my siblings are telling me I need to find a new daycare because they’ve “never” seen a kid bring over that many illnesses. I think my siblings are being a bit dramatic. If I had known the boys were sick Friday, I would have kept them home. Also, my 9mo could have brought something home from the office just as much as my toddler could have brought something home.
Changing daycares is no guarantee of a clean bill of health, anyway. This one works so well for us right now.
So my question is, should I try to change daycares? Am I being too stubborn in this matter? Part of me wants to just not bring my kid around anymore if that’s how they’re all going to be, but maybe that’s me being passive aggressive. My sister’s kids have been sick and gotten me sick. Plenty of times. Everyone got Covid after Christmas and it definitely wasn’t my kids because my kids weren’t in daycare and weren’t leaving the house. I feel attacked here and it’s not okay.
Also, I have a lot of anxiety over people giving me advice and me not taking it. I grew up in a weird fundamental religion. That always told you if you don’t take the advice of your elders, you’re going to screw your life up. So I have this thought in the back of my head that if people are telling me I need to change daycare’s maybe that’s what I need to do. But I also don’t know if they are just being extra.
Thanks everyone.
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2023.06.05 15:25 DreadlordBedrock 5e Larloch stat advice

So, I recently completed my 6 page long Stat Block for a CR 30 Vecna (including Lair Actions and Regional Effects). During my research to ensure he packed every punch I could cram in I came across a lot of discussion about Vecna vs Acererak, Vecna vs Szass Tam, Vecna vs Larloch, Vecna vs Velsharoon ect ect.
But one thing kept coming up, and that was that Vecna, for a god of secrets, was 'noisy'. This was a huge inspiration for my stat block because long (5 page long) story short this is a younger version of Vecna who was saved right after he lost his Hand and Eye by his future self (Vecna the God), but was discussed by how his future self had been foiled so many times and was now trapped by the constraints of godhood that after learning all he could from his future self he killed him and stole much of his power by taking his future self's Hand and Eye. This has allowed a non-god Vecna to slip into the shadows once more in the time it takes for him to catch up to the point his future self went back in time.
But this also got me thinking about that 'noisy' issue, and something I never see brought up in INT Caster VS debates. Wisdom.
I genuinely think that for a stat block Vecna and Larloch would have to both have a 30 (+10) INT Score with a +28 Arcana check. But I think that while Vecna would have maybe a +8 WIS, Larloch would have a +9 or +10, reflecting his subtler approach to his goals. I think that would reflect what Ed Greenwood has said about Larloch vs other liches better than ranking one as 'more powerful' than the other. While they're all undoubtable supra-intelects, I think the tie breaker has to be wisdom instead of arbitrary power.
So when I do make his stat block, do you think that would be a fair assessment to go off of?
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2023.06.05 15:25 Ok-Advantage-0 Value, Marri wood

Value, Marri wood
Hey guys, not sure if this is the right subbredit to post in (if not I apologise), a couple years ago I made this table top in a workshop class, as you can see the edges aren’t cleaned up and neither is the under side. It’s Marri wood and I remember it was pricey to order in but have forgotten how much I paid. Does anyone have a rough estimate on what this is worth. It’s a meter long and 2 feet wide. I’m in AUD so leave the currency below if you drop a value.
Thanks guys!
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2023.06.05 15:25 nOKVhnsjkV8kdjfnvbor In my long-term relationship, I CONSTANTLY flip between feeling "in love" and "wondering why my partner dislikes me so much." How do I stop?

When my boyfriend does something loving, then I feel super duper in love, connected, in awe of him, like we will be together forever, etc.
But as soon as our relationship goes stale or a bit distant (due to normal things like stress and simply being preoccupied with other things in life), then I immediately panic internally and assume something is wrong. Instead of assuming the best, I assume the worst: "He grew tired of me. He must think I'm unattractive. He doesn't care about this relationship." and even sometimes going as far as: "He must have found someone new."
It's been three years, and I'm still struggling with this toxic cycle constantly (this is my first real relationship). And it's all manufactured by me. My mom tells me "You need to start focusing on your own life outside of the relationship. Stop making your boyfriend your #1 priority in life. You need to take care of yourself first." Which is good advice, but like... how??!? These feelings are so intense that I don't know how to stop focusing so much energy on my relationship. I still think about him constantly. How do I just... let go, shut off the thoughts, stop worrying how he feels about me 24/7? How do I calm myself during the normal ebbs and flows of a long-term relationship and not panic when things between us aren't all flirty and lovey-dovey?
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2023.06.05 15:25 infinite_bean Daughter’s first day of daycare left me uncomfortable and in tears. What would you do in my situation?

Sorry if this is long, but for some background, our daughter (1.5 y/o) has been under my mother in laws care since she was 3mo. My MIL has to be out of the country to care for a ill family member for 3 months and I do not have family in the state I live in to take over her care. We found a daycare that had openings on a short notice, which was about two months in advance. We tried many other places but they didn’t have any space for her age range. When we found the daycare, we took a tour and received information about the daycare, daily activities, and they answered all my questions.
Fast forward to getting my daughters stuff together for the first day, my partner and I went back and forth about whether or not they provided lunch (they told us this during the tour). So we called on 3 separate occasions and got different answers. When I dropped off my daughters medical paperwork, I asked for a handbook because we never received one and they gave me an old one from 2019 (pre-pandemic) and said they didn’t change much which is hard to believe. They then said they would give me an updated one on her first day. There was also confusion about the date her first day, which is a whole longer story.
This morning I carried her from the car to the front and they didn’t even ask me who she as until I mentioned it was her first day. The staff holding the door said I need to drop her off in the hallway. I told the staff I had other things in the car to bring in for her (box of diapers, wipes, breakfast, lunch, snacks, etc). When I brought in the final bag they had already taken my daughter back to her classroom and the person holding the door open kind of rushed me out. I didn’t get to say goodbye on her first day. Or take her picture, give her a hug, anything. I immediately sat in my car and cried. I had no way in the moment to communicate how frustrated I was so I left for work and called my partner for support.
Thankfully my boss is incredible and gave me the morning to figure things out. I called the daycare and asked to schedule a time to meet with her teacher and I will be heading there shortly. I’m considering taking her out because my experience was beyond unacceptable. I don’t feel like I can trust them. I’m pretty sure this type of situation qualifies for FMLA if needed, which I’m okay with, but I was hoping to get her the socialization she needs.
What would you do on my situation?
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2023.06.05 15:24 os0099 Ativan and alternatives?

I take a .5 mg of Ativan as needed for anxiety, if I really took it as needed I’d be taking it daily as I’m constantly extremely anxious but only take it once or twice a week when it reaches critical levels as I’m scared of both addiction and getting used to the dose and needing more. Deep breathing helps sometimes but not much. I’m suffering greatly but also scared of making things worse for myself in the long run. Anyone have any suggestions? What’s out there that isn’t addictive yet provides daily relief, when I do take it it does help quite a bit? I’m not in therapy as my incredibly controlling and abusive spouse won’t let me so that isn’t an option
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2023.06.05 15:24 harrapino How much do you pay for driving lessons?

I'm particularly interested in the north of England but if there is enough data i'll make you a pretty graph for everyone to compare :)
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2023.06.05 15:24 Ok-Advantage-0 Mardi wood value?

Mardi wood value?
Hey guys, not sure if this is the right subbredit to post in (if not I apologise), a couple years ago I made this table top in a workshop class, as you can see the edges aren’t cleaned up and neither is the under side. It’s Marri wood and I remember it was pricey to order in but have forgotten how much I paid. Does anyone have a rough estimate on what this is worth. It’s a meter long and 2 feet wide. I’m in AUD so leave the currency below if you drop a value.
Thanks guys!
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