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2023.06.05 15:48 Definite_No Prospective FBI Applicant
A)
Newbie here, good morning.
I'm concluding my third year as Investment Banking Analyst at JP Morgan on Wall Street, making $240k in salary, and working cut-throat 85+ hour weeks. I've been considering a pivot to FBI (or CIA) as an exit opportunity, but salary/grade is a serious concern of mine. In the corporate world, 3 years of fully registered & licenced bulge bracket IB experience jumps you ahead to 6 YOE for industry roles. When FBI says, "salary is commensurate to experience and location," will they be factoring this in, or at least my current salary? Thanks!
B)
Additionally, would FBI appreciate audacious determination in my resume blurb, or is this too much?
"In my current role, I regularly employ a number of expert skills I believe will be invaluable for FBI Special Agent duty. Equipped with a single i7 processor, I regularly create Excel workbooks comprising 100+ tabs, each spreadsheet containing sophisticated formulas and immaculate formatting, while avoiding use of computer mouse (only keys), all in less than a workday's time. I also have extensive technical experience manipulating numbers in manners qualified financial examiners continuously fail to penetrate. My writing skills are sublime, I type at 175 Wpm, I'm a PowerPoint monkey, and I've spoken publicly in front of numerous corporate executives and billionaire investors. Like select others on Wall Street, my confidence level is like that of an athlete, and my skill-set like those of a nerd. I also take great care to maintain my figure, and consider myself organized, punctual and very put together.
During my first 5 years in the Bureau, I am projecting the successful launch of a fully developed automation product that streamlines both money laundering and financial fraud investigation flagging systems to a minimum of 70% accuracy, while simultaneously checking all my boxes for Agent probation time. Along with newfounded AI technologies, and assistance of government intelligence and software engineering staff, I hope to also create additional proprietary tools for extracting crucial web-based information relating to national security issues that would've otherwise been inconceivable to obtain.
I would greatly appreciate your serious review of my resume, and welcome the opportunity to meet with you in person or over phone call to discuss my qualifications in more detail."
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2023.06.05 15:46 kiwi38rd 1st time US passport application due to urgent travel
Hi folks, I thought I'd share my experience scheduling an appointment with NPIC. Travel date is 6/18 and called just now. Managed to snag an appointment for me and my wife for Fri, 6/16.
At 7:58 I dialed in and pressed 1 (English) then 1 (urgent travel). And the idiot in me then pressed another 1 (travel more than 2 weeks) instead of 2 (travel within 2 weeks). It was too late when I realized I went into the wrong part of the menu. After hanging up, I could not get in again - it was either busy tone straight away or system saying we are busy. Interestingly, the 'we're busy' message could come up even after successfully pressing 1-1-2, which is annoying. So, after calling the 877 number literally 65 times in rapid succession for the next 30 min (at one point with two phones also though that was probably unnecessary LOL), I finally got put on the wait list at about 8:30. The wait turned out to be only about 30 min long - and it was largely accurate.
A few things I learned:
- Call center agent can book the same appointment for multiple people in the same traveling party instead of just yourself
- They will ask for your zip code, but if you don't say you are willing to travel out of state (which I forgot to say), they will look only at the closest agency for appointment availability
- When I was in the wrong menu the first time, the automated message says expedited application is now down to 5-7 weeks - so there's some improvement for those that applied through post offices
- Credit cards can be used for payments at in-person appointments
- Keep calling until you get through as everyone said!
Does anyone know if the NYC passport agency will print (hopefully the big book version) same day? Think we are a bit down to the wire at this point, but hopefully fine.
In terms of supporting documents: 1) citizenship proof + photocopy, 2) driver's license + photocopy, 3) 1 photo. Anything else I'm missing?
Good luck to everyone!
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2023.06.05 15:40 ukiyo3k My hacks are failing.
Approved for a new credit card. They won't accept my virtual address. I even used USPS form 1583 and did it legit, but they know it's registered as a post office annex. I can't verify my phone through Skype or Numberbarn. It doesn't work either. I have a domicile in US, but I hate to bother my old man, and it's not his business anyway. I should be able to go through the mail agent, but verifications are becoming hack proof if you're going solo. I need a US phone number with SIM that works from China.
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2023.06.05 15:39 LoosedOfLimits Number for disconnecting service
Does anyone have a phone number for ending my Xfinity service? Thanks!
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2023.06.05 15:38 DaydreamingofLove Why risk everything?
My WS had a PA with someone who they have no actual interest in. Not your typical affair where emotions get involved or even being months long.
Both AP and WS claim that it meant nothing to them and it just happened in the heat of the moment. After they finished they carried on as if nothing happened at all. Never any outside texting or calls. They didn’t even have each others phone numbers.
WS even spoke badly about AP and how they were having sexual relationships with multiple other coworkers at the same time. AP isn’t conventionally attractive and didn’t hold WS attention outside of sex. The sex itself was bad, and dry and rushed. So my question is why?
Just for easy sex? Is that really all it could be? How can someone throw away their entire life just because someone was willing to have sef with them? Even if there was no actual interest at all?
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2023.06.05 15:37 Javvik Proper method for K-12 public school to install network cable?
| What is the proper method for a K-12 public school district to install network cable in a commercial concrete block building? I've worked for small school districts for a number of years as the IT admin. I'm self-taught, no certificates or degree aside from my high school diploma, but I've worked with AWS, active directory, Microsoft Azure AD, Novell eDir, currently setting up a new phone system to be installed this summer. Over time I've come to the conclusion that the head custodians have been cutting corners every which way for years, before I ever started this work. And the district administrators just go along with it. Apparently the word "grandfather" is a magic word that is used to excuse just about anything illegal that a school district wants to do without involving a building or electrical permit and inspectors. I had no idea what was the right way so I followed their lead. I have installed network cable in the past myself, and.. you just throw it up there, drape it on whatever and just do it. Though I tried to at least thread my network cables through the ceiling trusses where possible, to get it off the tiles. Recently I have discovered this is all totally wrong, it's actually supposed to follow the NEC, districts should be filing work permits, and work should be inspected for NEC compliance, etc. ... Meanwhile I currently have a district administrator gaslighting me on this, claiming to me in April that the "100 additional CAT6 cables we are installing this summer can be grandfathered as maintenance of the existing network wiring" and yelling at me "you don't know what the rules are, it's just your opinion how we should be doing this work". This was all off the record in his office with the door closed, so I have no documented evidence alas. The use of "grandfathered" crossed with new cabling is a bizarre twist that the district admin seems to think is absolutely certain is correct, and don't I dare challenge him on it or else. ... At this point I know all the existing network cabling was never done correctly in the first place, with bundles of network cable suspended from electrical conduit in one part of a building, wired about 30 years ago. https://preview.redd.it/9mgj4fxh674b1.png?width=943&format=png&auto=webp&s=88b07a5bf17019cf036ef6409e95781b035084fb ..... Also this must be that new plenum-rated NM cable for commercial buildings that the head custodian had installed two years ago, apparently by some hack without a permit. https://preview.redd.it/1toqputz174b1.png?width=1267&format=png&auto=webp&s=e92e0aeeecba85e1bbbd34ea7318315a0bfb749b https://preview.redd.it/kcgr6sy7374b1.png?width=1271&format=png&auto=webp&s=f6dcf8b3d18adfbd078a00f8c59005f038ec9980 https://preview.redd.it/m6n1s5ib274b1.png?width=1255&format=png&auto=webp&s=97637e4192f81df305a57cd8ab3b3c1488921aee https://preview.redd.it/w1xhfjon274b1.png?width=1273&format=png&auto=webp&s=0843b2af9a85fe09ef1a61a9ee97be85fe84981d I know what commercial building air plenum spaces are, I've read up on it. I know this is all totally illegal. And the NEC does not allow NM in commercial buildings unless it's inside metal conduit to protect it from damage. And this is dumb illegal as the cost of using proper flexible spiral armored 12-2 would probably have been only $1000 more than doing it wrong like this. This will have to eventually be ripped out and redone because it's a fire hazard that no inspector would have ever approved. But I'm the only one who knows about it at this point aside from the head custodian and his hack installer... sigh. ..... So what is the actual proper way to install new, additional network cables? This is in Wisconsin, and I've confirmed that for this one district in question, the state-level DSPS is the AHJ, it's not in a municipality. Does the school district need to create full architectural drawings of the network drop locations to potentially be submitted to the AHJ? Or can the district just file for a work permit and wing the installation unless a plan review is requested? Does an electrical plan to add one new network drop in a classroom have to be submitted as part of an overall building plan, including irrelevant details like an exterior site grade elevation page, or is it separate from a building plan review? Is an architect required to be involved to create the electrical plan on full size Arch-E drawings, showing each J-hook or cable tray location? Or can I just whip up some diagrams in Microsoft Publisher, dropping dots on a simplified floorplan showing where drops will be located in each classroom, and that's good enough for an electrical plan review? ... Wisconsin is also weird in that wiring "under 100 volts" doesn't need an electricians license to install WI Stat 101.862(4)(d), which covers all networking, security system, cable TV, and audio/intercom cabling. https://docs.legis.wisconsin.gov/2011/statutes/statutes/101/iv/862/4/d Yet apparently any new work still needs to comply with the NEC, even if it's installed by someone who is not trained in building or electric codes? It's a very strange exception in the law. ,.. I am exceptionally frustrated by all this. Even if I want to do things correctly, I feel powerless to actually change anything. I do not want to publicly harm this school district's relationship with the local community over the actions of a few bad apples, but I also worry at some point this continued illegality is going to lead to a building fire and we may potentially all lose our jobs over this ongoing corner-cutting bullshit. But I absolutely expect retaliation and reasons will be found for why I need to be fired, even if I try to just quietly push the district administrator and head custodian to stop doing things illegally as has been done for years now. I'll be lucky to ever work in a K-12 IT job again, if I stir up shit with this district admin and head custodian. At this point it appears the main thing to do is to just keep quiet, document document document, as shown here, with photo, video, and email kept in offsite backups at home, in case I do get fired. And work on my IT job certifications and resume in case I need to find a job somewhere else, for eventually trying to get them to change their ways. submitted by Javvik to WorkplaceSafety [link] [comments] |
2023.06.05 15:37 Sad_Ad_2615 1-Year experience with Malibu, Things to know if looking to purchase a new Malibu/Axis boat
The 1-year mark of the beginning of my problems with my first new Malibu boat has recently passed to no resolution of my problems. Therefore, I figured it's time to share my experience with anyone who may be considering a Malibu/Axis product.
In April 2022, I purchased a new Axis t250 off the showroom floor at Lake Norman Marina and it was great for the first few weeks, but on Memorial Day weekend of 2022 after a rider had fallen, the boat would no longer start. After about a week of the boat being at the dealership, they decided it wasn't just the starter and for some reason the transmission needed to be changed. About 2 weeks later I got the boat back, went out 3 times, and the transmission actually blew. They changed it again, and on my 3rd time out again the transmission blew. They changed it yet again and on my first day out the engine temp was skyrocketing and fluid spilling out, turned out a hose had not been secured properly and was spilling into the engine bay, but on the 4th time out, the transmission blew once again.
At this point, the entire month of June had passed, I had multiple issues with their maintenance practices and communication and had not received any offer of compensation for tows, no paperwork for warrant work performed, no contact from Malibu, or even an apology from the dealership. The boat had under 40hrs on it, and I had spent probably 15hrs on the water waiting for tows and being towed in. But the dealership and malibu decided to change the entire engine. 3 weeks in and I decide to call Malibu's engine department and ask how long, an engine change takes. (As an aircraft mechanic myself, changing giant turbine engines on Airbus fleets can be done in under 32 hours). The engine tech informed me it was a 5hr job and they also did not know why my transmission was changed in the first place since I had never received a transmission overheat message. However, I received my boat back about a week later and hoped that was the end, I could finally use my boat. About a week in, some wires to the screen came loose and I lost all my gauges on the opposite end of my home lake and at this point I was fed up. I told the dealership to take the boat back and I never wanted to see it again. I had been paying for a boat for 3 months and only had access to it for under 1 month.
This is when Malibu finally decided to get involved and Robert C. contacted me and admitted that the boat was a lemon. I informed him how I was displeased with the company, product, and the dealership and had never received a single piece of warranty paperwork, not even for the engine so that I could have the serial numbers switched on my insurance. He sounded surprised but ultimately didn't do anything regarding that issue but did offer to build me a new 2023 model year boat to replace my lemon if I just road that one out for the season because "Malibu wanted to earn my trust back as a customer". I expressed my concerns with product quality, the fact I'd be paying for a boat I hate for months, and new loan rates but after Robert adamantly assured me over 10 times that I would 100% be able to keep my same loan, and that my new boat would be put through a more in depth inspection process he called their "dock inspection" I decided to take the deal because pursuing the Magnussen Moss Warranty Act in court could have just yielded the same end result after much more time. Also, for 2 months straight I continued to ask Lake Norman Marina for warranty work paperwork in order to document my experience and the only thing I ever received was a screenshot of the hours of manpower assigned to my boat on one day.
In October of 2022 I submitted my new build and was told the new one would be completed in early spring/March. However, just after Christmas I received a call from the dealership that my boat was ready, and I need to submit for a new loan. I raised hell, right after Christmas when my credit cards were near capacity, 3 months early on completion, after a ton of reassurances that there was no way I would need a new loan at these higher rates, and after I have continued to make payments on the existing crap boat, I was told to get a new loan. I reached out to Robert because he was so adamant about the fact I would not have to, and he proceeded to make a bunch of excuses for the dealership and say it's out of his hands. Where I then responded, why would you make promises you can't keep, about something you have no control over? This was the most important stipulation of the deal to me. That is when I first realized Malibu cannot be trusted. They ran my credit and as I expected my 4.5% interest would now be 9-10%, but luckily, I contacted my loan officer and detailed the entire situation to him. There was no way I was going to pay more money for a boat from a company that had shitted me. I told him, you either keep this loan and continue to make the money off of me you already are, or I am getting a boat from another company with another bank, and you make none. He agreed with my position and after a couple days managed to convince his higher ups to do a collateral swap on my current loan. No thanks to the dealership or Malibu.
Here we are in 2023, new year, new me, new boat, lets fucking see. I take delivery of my new 2023 Axis t235, and she looks beautiful. I take her right to the shop to get some tint thrown on. That evening I take the boat to the marina and hop in to see if they put any fuel in. 88% full, ok well they did the 10hr break in so that could be why. The next morning, I have it fueled up by the marina, still 88%. Some, "dock inspection" and more so how did the dealership not notice this during the break in period? But whatever I am ready to surf and will wait until my first service to have it addressed. Granted, I surf 3-4 times a week and fill it before every outing for weight. Then I recieved notice of the recall on the steering cable block and called my dealer but they had not recieved any tooling to complete it yet. But he told me it wasnt like the boat was gonna blow up, just dont go full power and I should be fine, at most I'd need a tow and I was used to that after the previous year. The boats running great, all sorts of squeaks and dry pump noises I had mentioned on the previous boat to the dealer, and told were normal, didn't exist on this one. Amazing. But one saturday after a rider had fell, and 2 jet skis were coming straight at im I start tapping my horn and it gets stuck wide open. We shut the boat off and on several times but as soon as the battery is set to on the horn sounds, so we decided to get under the dash, mid-lake, and disconnect the button. While this is happening I just so happen to get an e-mail from axis to submit a review on my boat and experience. Which I answered honestly; boat runs good, salesman good, not too impressed with company, dealership bad. Within minutes Logan K. sales manager, and son of the dealership owner e-mails me, 6pm on a Saturday, and says, "I cannot believe you bashed us yet again. Actually, I can." and proceeds to tell me they will no longer work on my boat, also that he has CC'd his entire service department to let them know. I respond telling him how all I did was answer the questions honestly based on my experience, and that him unprofessionally e-mailing me with a refusal to work my boat because of that, with the several existing issues is not in line with Malibu's statement of wanting to earn my trust back. He stands by his statement and says that they will not work the boat, and that I need to reach out to one of 2 other dealers farther away to have them correct the problems. The following Wednesday I go to surf and my marina manager tells me Lake Norman Marina was here earlier that day and had pulled my boat out to do some recall. I immediately e-mail Logan, informing him that I would like to know where we stand because if Lake Norman Marina is no longer working my boat, then they should not be touching my property, and regardless I should be informed before they have it pulled out for any work. He claims it was an oversight and will not apologize for the mechanic, even though ya' know, he CC'd his entire service department. From where I am standing, I have no idea if this tech came out to sabotage my boat or God knows what. Now since that initial interaction that previous Saturday, I called Malibu and left voicemails on 3 different phone numbers Mon-Fri of the next week. 15 voicemails and not a single response. So, the next week I go to my local Supra dealership, who is amazing by the way, shout out to Southtown Watersports!
The guys at SW are familiar with my story because every time I have come for boards, jackets, or lead bags etc. I have given them the latest and greatest in my ridiculous experience. They told me dealers have a direct line to the manufacturer and I should go ahead and reach out to the next closest dealer, give them my story and see what happens. Thats what I decided to do, Captain's Choice is 2 hours from me and when I spoke with them, they were just mind blown by my experience. Told me in 20 years he hadn't heard a story like mine. But they were very helpful and said they were going to look up parts and work on my boat and get them ordered so I could get it all fixed without wasting time. Big upgrade there. about an hour later I get an e-mail from Mr. Logan again. "Malibu sent us the parts to fix your horn but I told Robert you said we were not allowed on your property so let me know how you would like to proceed." This ding-dong sends me this, twisting my words, in the same e-mail chain where he is the one refusing to service my boat and I stated that if you are going to refuse service then you shouldn't be on my property. I replied telling him that I had reached out to the other dealer as he forced me to but that I would rather them come fix it, than have to trailer my boat 2 hours each way for something small. The following morning, he replies that he thinks I should just move forward with the other marina, and he would send them the parts. What? After 10 or so days he emailed me about fixing it with absolutely no intention to fix the boat? fuck off. I sent him a strongly worded response signed, "Sincerely, Eat Shit." and forwarded the interaction to Robert, detailing that in the same chain Logan proves he is a liar and twisted my words. I didn't expect a response at this point, but 3 min later Robert finally replied asking to speak on the phone later that day. When I talked to Robert, he once again made a bunch of excuses defending the dealerships behavior while stating he was not taking sides...makes sense. Told me they could do what they wanted and that me trailering by boat 2 hours each way to Captains Choice was a reasonable thing, knowing that the previous boat literally broke every week for 2 months. He informed me that ignoring my 15 voicemails was his call, in order to not escalate the situation, REALLY makes sense. Also, states that he told the mechanic to access my boat for the recall, which is not what ol' ding-dong had said. All trust in the company and especially Robert is lost at this point, so the conversation is useless.
About 2 weeks later I finally have the appointment to get the issues at my boat fixed 2 hours away. A spot in the flooring had bubbled at this point so it was that the horn, the fuel gauge, and possibly the recall. I leave at 530am with my boat to make sure I am at Captains Choice by 8am. Everyone was great there and were just as mind blown as myself that traveling that far for maintenance was considered reasonable by Robert and Malibu as far as "earning my trust as a customer." I was there for about 4 hours, napping in my truck when they took me back to my boat and said they stuck a needle in the bubble and smoothed it flat as directed by malibu, but it could bubble again, and they would then replace the piece. They reconnected the horn and it worked but in case it got stuck again they would send me a new horn unit to my house, seeing as ol ding-dong logan never sent them the parts. I have yet to receive the parts. They said the recall had been completed but was never put into the system which is no suprise seeing as Lake Norman Marina obviously does not believe in paperwork. Then theres the fuel gauge, he showed me that the float will not reach 100% ever, that it was poor design and nothing they could do. I mean, if thats the case I figure the rep for Malibu, Robert should have heard this complaint by every person who purchased a t235 at this point and not sent me 2 hours away for nothing. Anyways, they buttoned her up, and I headed home. Captain's Choice was great and a much better experience than I had previously had at the other dealership but, in total, I spent 9 hours that day and a full tank in my truck to return home with a boat in pretty much the same condition I left with. A needle poke to the floor and recconnected horn that both may fault again, a paperwork update of work performed by someone else, and being told that my 2nd brand new $140,000 boat in a year does not work right straight from the factory.
When I returned home I e-mailed Robert and told him that Malibu can either take this boat back, I keep my experience to myself, and we part ways. Or I will sell it on my own and relay my experience. As expected, no reply, so here we are. During this time I have also made small comments to other Malibu owners posts and been contacted by multiple people sharing their stories with me about the companies poor treatment of customers, and as one 20yr Malibu owner told me, it seems to only have gotten really bad since about 2020. I know some people have had wonderful experiences but this is the honest recollection of my 1yr experience with this company and I think its best for anyone looking to purchase a new boat to know what they may be getting themselves into with this company.
Also, if any other t235 owners read this let me know if your fuel gauge only reads 88% full.
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2023.06.05 15:34 ViProCon Replace CloudKey with CloudKey Gen 2?
HI all, I inherited a network from a previous IT person. I have access to the Unifi portal, and It's got a CloudKey (Gen 1). Via the portal, it says I am running an outdated version of the Unifi Network app, so remote management is not supported.
I go onsite, run my iPhone's Unifi app, it sees the CloudKey,but immediately prompts that it must be updated to be able to do anything. So I click Update Now...I get a "it'll be a few minutes" note. I click Got It. Then it sits there without any indication of anything happening. I've tried this a number of times, never works.
Being that the CloudKey gen 1 is obsolete, I'm inclined to toss it and buy a CloudKey Gen 2. Can I just attach that and it'll manage the network, assuming I link it to the existing UI portal account? Or am I likely to run into further roadblocks when trying to, at some point, manage the actual network devices like the WAPs etc. Thanks!
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2023.06.05 15:34 Never-On-Reddit This is why many women don't feel safe using rideshare services. After a serious safety incident where my Lyft driver refused to pick me up unless I gave him my personal phone number and email (leaving me alone in a high crime area at night) Lyft ignored me saying I wasn't safe and refused to refund
I prebooked a driver on Lyft, because I was in an unsafe part of the city, staying with a friend who had to dodge stray bullets while walking the dog at 2pm just two weeks ago. I get my suitcases downstairs, driver is nearby, so I go outside, closing the door behind me. (I don't have a key and my friend is asleep) Suddenly the driver starts texting me repeatedly asking for my personal phone number and email, saying he needs it because there is "an update". This is obviously completely wrong, there is no reason for the driver to get this info. A criminal scam at best, a dangerous safety situation at worst since he knows from my picture that I'm a woman.
I refuse. He refuses to come my way and keeps asking. Obviously at this point I have to cancel the ride. $5 charge!!
I contact their safety team to report this. They ask if I'm safe. I say NO, actually I'm not safe. It's night time, I'm standing in a high crime area, alone, and now this creep knows exactly where I am standing, without a ride, having just canceled on him...
They respond with : "Great, I'm glad you're safe!" ????
And then refuse to refund me.... Best they can do is unpair me so I won't get this driver again. WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK.
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2023.06.05 15:28 llanojen If they lie about small things, they'll lie about big things
They'll say things like:
I didn't tell you because I knew you would get upset
I'm not trying to date anyone else
I'm not trying to cause a fight
I have a right to exercise my own judgement around things I choose to tell you
I'm friends with all my exes (or on good terms)
We used to date, but she's married now
They'll do things like:
Tilt their phone away from you at all times when sitting together
Double down on lock screen security like a PIN and face recognition, together
If they keep a journal, they may openly leave out a mundane every day one, but an email or word doc one that is hidden
Have dinner or visits with exes in cities across the country and not mention it
Do this more than once, even when you have communicated that it's understandable to have contact with exes you're friends with from time to time, but dinner dates in other cities merit at least letting your partner know you are seeing said person (being completely upfront about it)
Go on group outings with friends in other cities when traveling for work, and not mention it
Gamble or go to casinos and not mention it
Have that ONE (or more) super close opposite sex BFF they'd known years before you became a couple, even if that person is also married or in a LTR, yet they communicate about things neither of them tell their respective partners, only each other
They will also:
Gaslight you when you communicate that type of close emotional relationship with an opposite sex friend, PARTICULARLY an ex, makes you uncomfortable. They may say "You just don't like her!"
Lie by omission, frequently and with ease
Not answer phone calls in the evenings when you are together
Keep phone on mute most of the time
If they travel for work, use dating apps in cities they frequent often
Block your phone number on dating apps so you would not be able to find them
Delete/hide apps/incognito mode when they are with you or not traveling
Never post photos or mention you on social media, ever, even if they have done so in previous relationships and may even leave those photos on their profile - but no mention of you, ever
Here's a big one: if they travel for work often, they will use the opportunity to communicate with opposite sex friends and exes they otherwise avoid talking to when you are together
They NEVER talk to exes or female friends in your presence, only same sex
Once you have communicated, hopefully early on in a relationship, that you notice some of these behaviors but you also want to be open minded and not controlling (while perhaps admitting that you may feel insecure to an extent or mildly jealous, which is reasonable and natural for many people)...the last thing they do is:
Get better at hiding it.
Source: ex gf of almost two years to pilot (49M) who travels around the country 2 weeks at a time and could never learn to communicate honestly about female friends, no matter how many conversations we had on the issue. To the very end, refused to acknowledge my feelings around ANY of these things, and I was finally done. I actually believe he never physically cheated, I don't even think he wanted to. He just could not be honest with me about the level of emotional intimacy he shared with other women, especially his exes. Spending time with them in other cities without my knowledge, even in groups - bye.
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2023.06.05 15:25 oceangal2018 Deleting all messages from someone - will they reappear?
I have messages in my phone from someone. I am thinking of deleting the whole conversation and his number. Will the messages reappear if he messages me again?
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2023.06.05 15:25 lottielobotomy Mother had full on narc rage over my boundaries
Last week my partner and I decided to get married on our own, my mother wasn't invited, no one was invited, but yep you guessed it, she's made this whole thing entirely about herself.
She's a massive oversharer on Facebook, even when I've explicitly told her the information was private and not for her to be spreading. I've told her, sharing my news isn't her place and it's crossing boundaries.
She asked for some professional photos from our wedding photographer to show my grandmother....which she then posted all over social media without my permission, I hadn't posted them anywhere as some of them in my opinion were extremely personal and private. So she'd lied to me.
I called her out on this behaviour and she started screaming, crying and cursing at me saying "I guess I'm the worst mother ever!" And "Don't talk to me like a child, I'm your f***ing mother! I can do what I want!" I calmly told her she'd done this to me too many time and I was upset by it.
Of course her reaction is childish and over the top, but am I right in being upset at her over this?
She's now blocked me on all social media, my phone number and email... I know she's icing me out to get a reaction but I literally feel nothing....
other than regretting my own stupidity of sending her those photos...
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2023.06.05 15:22 TooktoomanyZugZugs How am I doing? I don't know if I need a gut check, I just feel like I could be doing more
General: 28 years old - General Contractor - $95k/year + some random bonuses here and there nothing crazy
- Goals - Ring, House, that whole deal within the next couple years
- Sidegoal - Make some money on the side doing something I like
Assets: - 401k (Target Date) - $47,000
- TSP - $28,000
- Roth IRA (Total Stock and International) - $7,000
- Investment (Total Stock and International) - $1,700
- Ally Savings (I want to save for a ring and house, and this is not enough money lol) - $15,500
- I've been using this as an Emergency / Near Future Slush Fund, but I've been thinking about separating the two just to create that line in the sand of money I'm not touching.
- Checking - $1,800
Liabilities: - Credit Card (Current Balance - Always Paid off) - $(1,650)
- Student Loans (All 4% or less) - $(21,000)
- Insurance Payment sitting in Savings for Stolen Vehicle Repairs - $(4,500)
Monthly Liabilities: - Rent - $(1,500)
- Parking - $(90)
- Car Insurance - $(100)
- Phone - $(90)
- Subscriptions - $(25) ish I forget what's active a lot of the times to be honest
- Groceries, Restaurants, and Bars - ?
- Absolutely destroys my budget, I couldn't put a hard number on it right now to be honest.
- I'm not out at bars every night or eating at super fancy restaurants or anything, but it just adds up so quick. We can go meet a friend for a few beers and dinner, and the bill is always $150+. I can go to the grocery and pay $120, come home, and not have food for 3 days.
- I remember a day not long ago that I could live off $60 for the week, and now $60 can't get me through a day.
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2023.06.05 15:22 Never-On-Reddit After a serious safety incident where my Lyft driver refused to pick me up unless I (F) gave him my personal phone number and email (leaving me standing on the street in a dangerous area at 5am) Lyft is refusing to refund my $5 cancellation.
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2023.06.05 15:21 Never-On-Reddit After a serious safety incident where my Lyft driver refused to pick me up unless I (F) gave him my personal phone number and email (leaving me standing on the street in a dangerous area at 5am) Lyft is refusing to refund my $5 cancellation.
2023.06.05 15:19 seasonofmovingboxes What's the point of matching, chatting non stop, having a phone call and then complete silence?
32F Matched with a guy [33M] on Friday. He messaged me, I didn't reply because I didn't care and was busy all day w/ work travel. So he sent a follow up message that night (that's fine). I replied. We chatted til I fell asleep.
Saturday, I messaged him, we proceed to have a back and forth completely normal, super fun and good conversation--you know, how dating interactions use to start in the real world when I was young. That night he's like "I don't do voice notes. But I do phone calls.". I'm hesitant to have a phone call with a stranger, but I'm like what the hell, and we proceed to have an hour long phone convo that's super fun, but also real and honest. I tell him I have to go to bed.
Since then...radio silence. Obviously it's possible I said something that turned him off, though I can't think of what it was..But he seemed completely into it, all of it. So for him to drop off the map and not even send a text now that he has my phone number, seems weird. He hasn't unmatched me yet, so I'll probably just do that later this week. But what gives--is this common?
My friend says this happens to her all the time, and calls it the "dopamine kick"--where a guy isn't interested, and just incessantly messages you to stroke their own ego for a day or two. I don't know that I've experienced it--I either have lack luster, barely existent conversations that are like pulling teeth and never amount to anything, OR I have good convos that usually turn into good dates.
Is this way more common than I knew it to be?
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2023.06.05 15:18 4ginternet Account has yet to update to my ported in number
I tried logging into my account and it wants to send a 2factor code to the phone number visible gave me when I signed up and not the phone number I ported in with. Was with visible live chat for a bit and they were able to suspend 2factor authentication but when I log into my account it shows my phone number as the one visible gave me and not my ported in number.
When I check my phone settings it has the correct number and I've been able make and receive phone calls and texts without issue. I've had the service for about a week and a half and I assume it should have updated by now. Any help is appreciated.
The service in my area has been phenomenal and am very happy that I switched.
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2023.06.05 15:17 Beneficial_Map Anything to be done about real estate agent spammers?
I own a property in a high demand area and I get constantly harassed by random real estate agents about my property. They know your contact details, name and even which exact property you own. Since I never shared any of it I am fairly certain the developer sells that info to the agencies.
I already have my phone number on the do not call registry but that doesn’t seem to stop anyone. Is there anything that can be done about this besides changing my phone number? Is there any grounds to report them if you are on the DNCR? They call, whatsapp and email me constantly.
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