Time to say goodbye lyrics english
So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye...
2011.03.11 23:22 RodneyCharms So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye...
For those who have decided to delete their account and want some type of closure...
2017.10.10 19:41 WeedTuesday_InClass Goodbye, Reddit.
Say Goodbye to Reddit, either forever or just for some time. Post your heartfelt goodbyes to the Reddit world.
2013.02.14 18:51 Danganronpa
Danganronpa is a Japanese visual novel franchise created by Kazutaka Kodaka and published by Spike Chunsoft since 2010.
2023.05.28 14:22 Hot_Cantaloupe_6798 Who will film with Rachel, Sandoval, and Schwartz first.
Can we discuss how Scheana is for sure going to be the first to film with the trash? She only cares about herself and her own thirst and camera time. She even said on a podcast recently her and Raquel will need to have a conversation about everything at some point. We’re not even through the reunion and this loser is already backing down.
She 100% will film with them and I hope that we can all get on the same page and collectively admit she’s the fucking worst once that happens (for those of you that somehow still haven’t seen enough from her).
Also let’s talk about what it says about Ariana that the people she loves and surrounds herself with the most (Sandoval and Scheana) are narcissists and terrible human beings. Where I am from…. You ARE who you hang out with, just sayin….
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She 100% will film with them and I hope that we can all get on the same page and collectively admit she’s the fucking worst once that happens (for those of you that somehow still haven’t seen enough from her).
Also let’s talk about what it says about Ariana that the people she loves and surrounds herself with the most (Sandoval and Scheana) are narcissists and terrible human beings. Where I am from…. You ARE who you hang out with, just sayin….
2023.05.28 14:22 takethatjump2 43 [F4M] #NYC - Looking for a younger (but not too young) man
I’m looking for an emotionally and physically stimulating connection. That does not mean just sex. To me it means spending time, getting to know someone over dinnedrinks, walks, cuddling, quality time.
I’m single, good looking (if I say so myself), in a pretty good shape, and looking for the same. I have to be honest, part of the reason why I am looking for a younger man is because most men around my age looks rough, lol, so I am trying my luck here.
I mostly get along with the quiet/ shy and reserved type but please be kind, normal, able to have a conversation, and local.
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I’m single, good looking (if I say so myself), in a pretty good shape, and looking for the same. I have to be honest, part of the reason why I am looking for a younger man is because most men around my age looks rough, lol, so I am trying my luck here.
I mostly get along with the quiet/ shy and reserved type but please be kind, normal, able to have a conversation, and local.
2023.05.28 14:22 dwredbaker My ruling desire!
My ruling desire!
(James Smith, "Christ Exalted, Saints Comforted, and Sinners Directed" 1855
My ruling desire is to be wholly given up to the Lord and to His work, and to show forth His praises from day to day. But when I aim at this most--I am baffled, opposed, and always hindered! I see what is wrong, but cannot avoid it. I see what is right, but cannot attain unto it. I know what I wish, but I cannot enjoy it. I read what God commands, but I cannot perform it.
In the midst of all, I bless God . . . for Jesus Christ, for free grace, for a full salvation, for abiding comfort, for a good hope, for sweet views of Jesus, for a glorious inheritance, for an assurance of victory, and for the promise of eternal triumph!
Nothing can . . . separate me from Jesus, turn the current of His love from me, or change the purposes of His grace for me.
His love is astonishing!
His ways are marvelous!
I change; He remains the same. I sin; He pardons. I cry; He hears and answers. I ask for favors; and He kindly bestows them. I fear; and He promises. I wander; and He says, "Return." I lament my folly; He whispers peace. I feel poor and impoverished; He says, "All things are yours!" I imagine that I am alone; He says, "I will never leave you nor forsake you." I expect that He will abandon me; He asks, "How can I give you up?"
I cry, "Unworthy, unworthy!" He says, "You are My dear son, My pleasant child."
I fear I shall be overcome. He says, "No weapon formed against you shall prosper."
I fear I shall lie down in darkness. He says, "The Lord shall be a light unto you."
I say, "I can do nothing!" He says, "I will work all your works in you."
I say, "I am barren!" He says, "From Me is your fruit found."
I cry, "I am thirsty!" He says, "I will open rivers in high places, and fountains in the midst of the valleys--to give drink to My people, My chosen ones."
I complain, "I am weary!" He says, "Come unto Me--I will give you rest."
I feel dry and parched. He says, "I will be as the dew unto Israel."
I say, "I need food!" He says, "My flesh is food indeed, and my blood is drink indeed."
I fear I shall die. He says, "He who eats Me, even he shall live by Me."
I say at times, "All these things are against me!" He says, "All things shall work together for your good!"
I say, "I shall surely be overcome!" He says, "Nothing shall by any means hurt you."
I say, "I am often left alone!" He says, "Lo, I am with you always."
I say, "I am all deformity!" He says, "You are all beautiful, My love--there is no spot in you!"
I say, "I shall see Him no more!" He says, "I will see you again, and your heart shall rejoice."
I say, "Surely the Lord cannot love such a wretch!" He says, "I have loved you with an everlasting love."
I say, He cannot have chosen one so vile and base. He says, "I have chosen you, and will never cast you away!"
I say, "I am desolate and forsaken!" He says, "Your Maker is your husband, the Lord Almighty is His name, and your Redeemer is the Holy One of Israel."
I say, "I shall be left to myself at last!" He says, "I am a friend who sticks closer than a brother."
I say, "Set me as a seal upon Your arm, as a seal upon Your heart!" He says, "I will make you like a signet ring on My finger, for I have chosen you."
I cry, "Remember me, O Lord my God, for good!" He says, "You shall be a crown of glory in the hand of the Lord, and a royal diadem in the hand of your God."
I cry, "Do not be terribly angry with me, O Lord!" He says, "I swear that I will never again be angry and punish you."
I say, "I beseech You, show me Your glory!" He says, "Behold, I come quickly!"
I cry, "Remember me with the favor which You bear unto Your people!" He says, "As one whom his mother comforts, so will I comfort you--and you shall be comforted."
I cry, "Tell me where You graze Your flock." And He says, "Follow the footsteps of My flock."
I cry, "O that it was with me as in days that are past!" He says, "Arise, My darling, My beautiful one, and come with Me."
I cry, "My soul is among lions!" He says, "Come down with Me, from where the lions have their dens and leopards live among the hills."
I say, "O that I was sure that Jesus loved me!" He says, "You have ravished my heart, My sister, My spouse!''
I say, "I moaned like a mourning dove!" He says, "Your lips, O My spouse, drop as the honeycomb, honey and milk are under your tongue."
I say, "I am exposed, and lie open to the attacks of enemies on every side!" He says, "You are My private garden, My treasure, My bride, a secluded spring, a hidden fountain."
I say, "Do not look upon me, because I am black!" He says, "You are all beautiful, O My love!"
I say, "How miserable I am! Not a cluster of grapes or a single early fig can be found to satisfy my hunger." He says, "At our gates are all manner of pleasant fruits, new and old--which I have laid up for you, O My beloved."
I say, "I fear that my numerous sins and powerful corruptions will cool the love of Jesus for me!" He says, "Many waters cannot quench My love, neither can the floods drown it."
I sigh, "I am feeble and sorely broken!" He says, "I will not break the bruised reed, nor quench the smoking flax."
I say, at times, "He afflicts, and counts me for His enemy!" He says, "As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten! I deal with you as My son."
I say, "I am totally unfit to be the bride of Jesus!" He says, "Oh, how beautiful you are! How pleasing, My love--how full of delights!"
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(James Smith, "Christ Exalted, Saints Comforted, and Sinners Directed" 1855
My ruling desire is to be wholly given up to the Lord and to His work, and to show forth His praises from day to day. But when I aim at this most--I am baffled, opposed, and always hindered! I see what is wrong, but cannot avoid it. I see what is right, but cannot attain unto it. I know what I wish, but I cannot enjoy it. I read what God commands, but I cannot perform it.
In the midst of all, I bless God . . . for Jesus Christ, for free grace, for a full salvation, for abiding comfort, for a good hope, for sweet views of Jesus, for a glorious inheritance, for an assurance of victory, and for the promise of eternal triumph!
Nothing can . . . separate me from Jesus, turn the current of His love from me, or change the purposes of His grace for me.
His love is astonishing!
His ways are marvelous!
I change; He remains the same. I sin; He pardons. I cry; He hears and answers. I ask for favors; and He kindly bestows them. I fear; and He promises. I wander; and He says, "Return." I lament my folly; He whispers peace. I feel poor and impoverished; He says, "All things are yours!" I imagine that I am alone; He says, "I will never leave you nor forsake you." I expect that He will abandon me; He asks, "How can I give you up?"
I cry, "Unworthy, unworthy!" He says, "You are My dear son, My pleasant child."
I fear I shall be overcome. He says, "No weapon formed against you shall prosper."
I fear I shall lie down in darkness. He says, "The Lord shall be a light unto you."
I say, "I can do nothing!" He says, "I will work all your works in you."
I say, "I am barren!" He says, "From Me is your fruit found."
I cry, "I am thirsty!" He says, "I will open rivers in high places, and fountains in the midst of the valleys--to give drink to My people, My chosen ones."
I complain, "I am weary!" He says, "Come unto Me--I will give you rest."
I feel dry and parched. He says, "I will be as the dew unto Israel."
I say, "I need food!" He says, "My flesh is food indeed, and my blood is drink indeed."
I fear I shall die. He says, "He who eats Me, even he shall live by Me."
I say at times, "All these things are against me!" He says, "All things shall work together for your good!"
I say, "I shall surely be overcome!" He says, "Nothing shall by any means hurt you."
I say, "I am often left alone!" He says, "Lo, I am with you always."
I say, "I am all deformity!" He says, "You are all beautiful, My love--there is no spot in you!"
I say, "I shall see Him no more!" He says, "I will see you again, and your heart shall rejoice."
I say, "Surely the Lord cannot love such a wretch!" He says, "I have loved you with an everlasting love."
I say, He cannot have chosen one so vile and base. He says, "I have chosen you, and will never cast you away!"
I say, "I am desolate and forsaken!" He says, "Your Maker is your husband, the Lord Almighty is His name, and your Redeemer is the Holy One of Israel."
I say, "I shall be left to myself at last!" He says, "I am a friend who sticks closer than a brother."
I say, "Set me as a seal upon Your arm, as a seal upon Your heart!" He says, "I will make you like a signet ring on My finger, for I have chosen you."
I cry, "Remember me, O Lord my God, for good!" He says, "You shall be a crown of glory in the hand of the Lord, and a royal diadem in the hand of your God."
I cry, "Do not be terribly angry with me, O Lord!" He says, "I swear that I will never again be angry and punish you."
I say, "I beseech You, show me Your glory!" He says, "Behold, I come quickly!"
I cry, "Remember me with the favor which You bear unto Your people!" He says, "As one whom his mother comforts, so will I comfort you--and you shall be comforted."
I cry, "Tell me where You graze Your flock." And He says, "Follow the footsteps of My flock."
I cry, "O that it was with me as in days that are past!" He says, "Arise, My darling, My beautiful one, and come with Me."
I cry, "My soul is among lions!" He says, "Come down with Me, from where the lions have their dens and leopards live among the hills."
I say, "O that I was sure that Jesus loved me!" He says, "You have ravished my heart, My sister, My spouse!''
I say, "I moaned like a mourning dove!" He says, "Your lips, O My spouse, drop as the honeycomb, honey and milk are under your tongue."
I say, "I am exposed, and lie open to the attacks of enemies on every side!" He says, "You are My private garden, My treasure, My bride, a secluded spring, a hidden fountain."
I say, "Do not look upon me, because I am black!" He says, "You are all beautiful, O My love!"
I say, "How miserable I am! Not a cluster of grapes or a single early fig can be found to satisfy my hunger." He says, "At our gates are all manner of pleasant fruits, new and old--which I have laid up for you, O My beloved."
I say, "I fear that my numerous sins and powerful corruptions will cool the love of Jesus for me!" He says, "Many waters cannot quench My love, neither can the floods drown it."
I sigh, "I am feeble and sorely broken!" He says, "I will not break the bruised reed, nor quench the smoking flax."
I say, at times, "He afflicts, and counts me for His enemy!" He says, "As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten! I deal with you as My son."
I say, "I am totally unfit to be the bride of Jesus!" He says, "Oh, how beautiful you are! How pleasing, My love--how full of delights!"
2023.05.28 14:22 Tintenauge-Oni Milestonepoints for Outerworldly event.
Hey Everyone!
This is my 2nd post here and the first Question i asked was very informative and the comunity here was very helpful.
Now i got another Question. Im German and i play the game in German so i hope what you mean by the Title if i Talk about the Outerworldly Milestone Shards we get for the Gwenpool Event.
Usualy if we get milestone Shards they dont appear in the Game because they just move the Milestone Bar forwards. But now i got Millions of the Outerwoldly Shards and nothing where i can spend them on.
Do you know why we still have them? There is even a extra rider in the Shop with the Symbol of this Shards but you can only Spend Gold here.
Will there be extra Orbs in the near future or something? Sorry if this is a dumb question but sometimes its not easy for Non-english Speakers to find the right informations in the web.
I hope someone could be so kind and help me...
Thanks for your Time.
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This is my 2nd post here and the first Question i asked was very informative and the comunity here was very helpful.
Now i got another Question. Im German and i play the game in German so i hope what you mean by the Title if i Talk about the Outerworldly Milestone Shards we get for the Gwenpool Event.
Usualy if we get milestone Shards they dont appear in the Game because they just move the Milestone Bar forwards. But now i got Millions of the Outerwoldly Shards and nothing where i can spend them on.
Do you know why we still have them? There is even a extra rider in the Shop with the Symbol of this Shards but you can only Spend Gold here.
Will there be extra Orbs in the near future or something? Sorry if this is a dumb question but sometimes its not easy for Non-english Speakers to find the right informations in the web.
I hope someone could be so kind and help me...
Thanks for your Time.
2023.05.28 14:21 Squatchgunner-762 Can’t figure out what’s wrong
I am trying to find someone to be in a relationship with and I am having zero luck.
I am not picky on body type or race because that’s not what defines a good partner. I don’t care if they are white, Hispanic, black, Asian, or anything else for that matter. I also don’t care if they are flat chested with no backside or they look like Jessica rabbit. The only thing I want is someone who is healthy physically and is willing to spend time with me or talk to me, even if it’s as simple as me or her going to the other ones house and chatting on the couch or spending time in the car because there’s a few errands that need to be ran. If they have a great body, yes it’s a bonus, but I don’t care about the measurements.
I have tried talking to people about what I should do regarding my issue of not being able to find someone and they always tell me “stop looking, focus on yourself, love Will find you“ And I don’t believe that to be true. If you are not looking for love then you won’t be able to keep an eye out for any signals regarding a love life or dating in general. You can work on yourself all you like, but if you’re not looking for someone then you won’t be aware of who may be flirting with you or who would want to spend time with you.
I’m trying to talk to women, but I either get ghosted after a few messages or I never receive a reply from the girl I send a message to. I have been able to hold some conversation with a handful of women (enough to count on one hand) and I either find out that they have committed to someone or after a few days of talking they tell me that they are not looking for a dating relationship but that they like to be friends.
I decline on the friendship bit because it would do me more mental health harm knowing that I tried to start a relationship with someone and that someone doesn’t see me as a potential partner but they say they’d like to be friends with me. I can’t do that because in my head there would be a level of discontent (and possibly an eventual level of jealousy) regarding me being a male friend to someone who I tried talking to in the attempt to start a relationship. I do have a couple female friends, but I see them as more like sisters than someone that I would like to be in a relationship with (that and they are already in relationships).
I want someone that I can talk to and be in a relationship with, but also look at them and tell friends of mine that they’re also my best friend. I know that a relationship cannot happen overnight, nor can it happen within a few days. I just want to start a relationship with someone that I can love who will also love me back.
I don’t know what I’m doing wrong.
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I am not picky on body type or race because that’s not what defines a good partner. I don’t care if they are white, Hispanic, black, Asian, or anything else for that matter. I also don’t care if they are flat chested with no backside or they look like Jessica rabbit. The only thing I want is someone who is healthy physically and is willing to spend time with me or talk to me, even if it’s as simple as me or her going to the other ones house and chatting on the couch or spending time in the car because there’s a few errands that need to be ran. If they have a great body, yes it’s a bonus, but I don’t care about the measurements.
I have tried talking to people about what I should do regarding my issue of not being able to find someone and they always tell me “stop looking, focus on yourself, love Will find you“ And I don’t believe that to be true. If you are not looking for love then you won’t be able to keep an eye out for any signals regarding a love life or dating in general. You can work on yourself all you like, but if you’re not looking for someone then you won’t be aware of who may be flirting with you or who would want to spend time with you.
I’m trying to talk to women, but I either get ghosted after a few messages or I never receive a reply from the girl I send a message to. I have been able to hold some conversation with a handful of women (enough to count on one hand) and I either find out that they have committed to someone or after a few days of talking they tell me that they are not looking for a dating relationship but that they like to be friends.
I decline on the friendship bit because it would do me more mental health harm knowing that I tried to start a relationship with someone and that someone doesn’t see me as a potential partner but they say they’d like to be friends with me. I can’t do that because in my head there would be a level of discontent (and possibly an eventual level of jealousy) regarding me being a male friend to someone who I tried talking to in the attempt to start a relationship. I do have a couple female friends, but I see them as more like sisters than someone that I would like to be in a relationship with (that and they are already in relationships).
I want someone that I can talk to and be in a relationship with, but also look at them and tell friends of mine that they’re also my best friend. I know that a relationship cannot happen overnight, nor can it happen within a few days. I just want to start a relationship with someone that I can love who will also love me back.
I don’t know what I’m doing wrong.
2023.05.28 14:21 neon_genitals Ik everyone is feeling down right now, but I just want to say that it's the first time in forever that I believe that this team can beat Bayern going into the next season - and I'm proud of that
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2023.05.28 14:21 hornakapopolis No payment/re-listing window wording question
I finished my first major sale of a few items four days ago. It's been years since I've sold anything on eBay.
Sold three items, one buyer paid immediately. The other two didn't. On the second day, I went in to check, saw the "send invoice" option and did that. The second buyer paid later that day. Still no payment from the 3rd buyer. (The largest payment for which I had plans to use for a purchase of my own. Not completely relevant, but why I'm not just waiting things out.)
I read that the payment window is four calendar days. This would be day four. When I go into the selling section of the app, though, it says "You sold this item on (2 days ago)." It lists that date as the sale date, too. Lower on the page, it shows the actual date the auction ended.
I only buy on eBay ten or so times a year. It's typically something I want, so I'm sitting there when the auction ends and immediately pay. If the invoice I sent on day two looks different from what you get when the auctions ends, I've likely never seen one. I'd like to re-list to get this going again, but was curious if...
1) ...I've forgotten how to count... as I've always been pretty confident in that, especially if I hadn't gotten high enough to move to the fingers on the other hand. 2) ...the invoice related to this or are the dates coincidence? 3) ...I should plan to keep an eye on future auctions and send invoices immediately? I'm clearing out an estate and will likely do more selling over the next few months.
I'd appreciate the help
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Sold three items, one buyer paid immediately. The other two didn't. On the second day, I went in to check, saw the "send invoice" option and did that. The second buyer paid later that day. Still no payment from the 3rd buyer. (The largest payment for which I had plans to use for a purchase of my own. Not completely relevant, but why I'm not just waiting things out.)
I read that the payment window is four calendar days. This would be day four. When I go into the selling section of the app, though, it says "You sold this item on (2 days ago)." It lists that date as the sale date, too. Lower on the page, it shows the actual date the auction ended.
I only buy on eBay ten or so times a year. It's typically something I want, so I'm sitting there when the auction ends and immediately pay. If the invoice I sent on day two looks different from what you get when the auctions ends, I've likely never seen one. I'd like to re-list to get this going again, but was curious if...
1) ...I've forgotten how to count... as I've always been pretty confident in that, especially if I hadn't gotten high enough to move to the fingers on the other hand. 2) ...the invoice related to this or are the dates coincidence? 3) ...I should plan to keep an eye on future auctions and send invoices immediately? I'm clearing out an estate and will likely do more selling over the next few months.
I'd appreciate the help
2023.05.28 14:21 It_is_charlie the desire to just cease
i just want to stop existing, not kill myself because people i know would be sad, just cease being - like i never existed in the first place - so no one would be sad, maybe i could piss everyone off and then they would find it easier to let me go
i want this because of the fact that i think about awful things constantly.
i think about sex constantly, i dont know why but i know i dont want to, i dont mean to and i also dont enjoy it. these thoughts have fucked up friendships for me and my whole school life was an absolute nightmare. i think that this is because of an experience i had when i was nine when an older friend (around 13 i think) introduced me to the idea of porn and showed it to me. at the time i felt sick and i felt like i could trust no one (this feeling has persisted to now)
i also think about doing absolutely disgusting things to people, mostly murder as awful as it sounds, i dont know why this is but its constant
i cant concentrate on anything at all and i also this weird thing where i like say things or do things over and over until they feel right and if i dont then i feel like bad stull will happen to people i like
any relationship has been fucked over by me because i cant create a line between how much i should try or not try
i talk to myself on a constant basis about these thoughts and i cant do this shit anymore its so much effort to live with such little reward when im gonna die anyway
anyone got some tips
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i want this because of the fact that i think about awful things constantly.
i think about sex constantly, i dont know why but i know i dont want to, i dont mean to and i also dont enjoy it. these thoughts have fucked up friendships for me and my whole school life was an absolute nightmare. i think that this is because of an experience i had when i was nine when an older friend (around 13 i think) introduced me to the idea of porn and showed it to me. at the time i felt sick and i felt like i could trust no one (this feeling has persisted to now)
i also think about doing absolutely disgusting things to people, mostly murder as awful as it sounds, i dont know why this is but its constant
i cant concentrate on anything at all and i also this weird thing where i like say things or do things over and over until they feel right and if i dont then i feel like bad stull will happen to people i like
any relationship has been fucked over by me because i cant create a line between how much i should try or not try
i talk to myself on a constant basis about these thoughts and i cant do this shit anymore its so much effort to live with such little reward when im gonna die anyway
anyone got some tips
2023.05.28 14:21 ProAdvCarDealer Season 2 to no one's favorite (My Anomic Experiences) ok why am I doing this?
Hey Im back (No one cares dude) anyways, tell me your experiences while playing this wonderful game, whether from a story about killing some 9 yr olds gangsters, or escaping being assasinated as a mayor. (I will update this thread if im able to remember stories or if my gameplay gets intresting)
1st Story: I just joined arway as swat then suddenly I came across the mayor with a hacker trying to kill them, I managed to actually kill the kid and got in the mayor's humvee, the kid then came back flying only to be rekt again by the military guy, which he then switched humvees, the hacker came back to unfortunately succeed :<
2nd Story: I didnt encounter many hackers surprisingly, but i did encounter lots of 6 yr old rogangsters, one time, 2 dudes managed to raid the server and then insult me inside of my apartment, (i blocked my doors with glass) then as they were dominating on the roof, a hacker came and rekt them out of existence, safe to say they got scared cuz dey dont want to lose lots of money trying to kill the hacker.
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1st Story: I just joined arway as swat then suddenly I came across the mayor with a hacker trying to kill them, I managed to actually kill the kid and got in the mayor's humvee, the kid then came back flying only to be rekt again by the military guy, which he then switched humvees, the hacker came back to unfortunately succeed :<
2nd Story: I didnt encounter many hackers surprisingly, but i did encounter lots of 6 yr old rogangsters, one time, 2 dudes managed to raid the server and then insult me inside of my apartment, (i blocked my doors with glass) then as they were dominating on the roof, a hacker came and rekt them out of existence, safe to say they got scared cuz dey dont want to lose lots of money trying to kill the hacker.
2023.05.28 14:21 mooinmybelly I (18F) don't know how to continue a relationship with an online boy (19M)
Hi guys I'm here looking for some advice. I recently got close to this boy I met online on a friendship app. We had a good time when calling online and he gave me his Instagram. His personality on text, however, is completely different than on call. He is a horribly dry texter, giving one word responses to everything I ask and seems completely uninterested when I try to flirt with him. Confused, I asked to call again (this time on Instagram) which he accepted. On call we have this amazing chemistry that I find really hard to have with a lot of people, he'd say all these nice things like how he likes my company and calls me "adorable" and that I'm someone he could see dating. I was so happy! He even gave me his second account which I thought was a good sign.
However, on text he was back to being dry and cold and he hasn't texted me since. He often calls with other online friends on the app and I found myself too shy to join when he's online. I really wanna pursue what we have, I'm fine if we just get to be good friends at the end I just like the connection that we have. I checked his second account and he posted some funny texts with his irl friends and the way he texts was different than the way he texts with me (he gave more than just a "yes" or "no" and seemed actually active and excited)-- so i feel like that's a sign.
Is it embarrassing of me to text him again after his cold response? I don't want him to think I'm forcing something or being clingy if he's not interested at all. At the same time, I do want to be his friend and maybe the reason he's apprehensive is because he doesn't even know me (I am a stranger after all although he did say he considered me a friend on call). If any of you have any tips or advice on how to go about this please let me know! (or if i need a reality check lol)...
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However, on text he was back to being dry and cold and he hasn't texted me since. He often calls with other online friends on the app and I found myself too shy to join when he's online. I really wanna pursue what we have, I'm fine if we just get to be good friends at the end I just like the connection that we have. I checked his second account and he posted some funny texts with his irl friends and the way he texts was different than the way he texts with me (he gave more than just a "yes" or "no" and seemed actually active and excited)-- so i feel like that's a sign.
Is it embarrassing of me to text him again after his cold response? I don't want him to think I'm forcing something or being clingy if he's not interested at all. At the same time, I do want to be his friend and maybe the reason he's apprehensive is because he doesn't even know me (I am a stranger after all although he did say he considered me a friend on call). If any of you have any tips or advice on how to go about this please let me know! (or if i need a reality check lol)...
2023.05.28 14:21 dimaugh Is the English horn easier?
I'm mainly a guitar player, but since my main interest is in composing, I'd find it helpful to have some experience in the woodwind family. Not interested in being a virtuoso, just sounding decent enough. I played the tenor sax for a couple of years and I've tried clarinets, I found them relatively easy.
But I'm absolutely in love with the sound of double reeds: oboes, english horns and bassoons (and duduks!). I tried once an oboe and it was the most painful experience my lips have ever had. Unlike the piano, which seems more of a mental discipline, the oboe seems to require muscle, to stay in shape. I've heard the english horn is a bit more forgiving.
If I'm looking for an instrument that I'm only gonna pick up three times a week, is the english horn a better choice?
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But I'm absolutely in love with the sound of double reeds: oboes, english horns and bassoons (and duduks!). I tried once an oboe and it was the most painful experience my lips have ever had. Unlike the piano, which seems more of a mental discipline, the oboe seems to require muscle, to stay in shape. I've heard the english horn is a bit more forgiving.
If I'm looking for an instrument that I'm only gonna pick up three times a week, is the english horn a better choice?
2023.05.28 14:20 Meaning-Plenty From The Listening Post Of Mental Health Distress Calls In Srinagar
It was a call at midnight. A counsellor psychologist at the Tele Mental Health Assistance Centre Srinagar picks up the call.https://www.outlookindia.com/culture-society/from-the-listening-post-of-mental-health-distress-calls-in-srinagar-weekender_story-287839
"The caller had irresistible ideas to self-harm. He wanted to end his life and before that, he wanted to talk to someone about it,” says Areej Khalid, the counsellor at the Tele Mental Health Centre in Srinagar.
The Centre is located at the old building of the Institute of Mental Health and Neurosciences in Srinagar (IMHNS), previously called the Psychiatric Disease Hospital. The toll-free phones at the centre are buzzing, counsellors picking them up, some talking to them in Kashmiri and some in Urdu, advising the callers what to do.
That night Khalid heard the caller. “He was in terrible pain,” she says during her 30-minute break.
"I used techniques I learned during my training to achieve pause in him. I tried to create a momentary interruption to break the cycle of self-harm thinking. I am grateful that I succeeded," she says.
"I was able to take him to the safety of his family's supervision," she says. She guided him to a nearby mental health facility for further treatment and it all happened on through a call.
Later when the person called again, the crisis was over and he had started following a psychiatrist and is on weekly cognitive behavioural therapy sessions with the centre.
“The midnight calls are mostly about crisis situations with many youngsters talking about self-harming or having such thoughts,” says Khalid.
The Tele Mental Health Centre Srinagar since its establishment in October 2022 has received nearly 12,500 calls related to mental health disorders. These include around 500 “crisis interventions" in people having self-harming ideas.
The centre has a three-tier system in place. The first line is of counsellors, who receive calls from people having depression, anxiety disorders, substance abuse disorders, exam stress and other anxiety issues.
The centre has a three-tier system in place. The first line is of counsellors, who receive calls from people having depression, anxiety disorders, substance abuse disorders, exam stress and other anxiety issues.
The counsellors are all psychologists. The typical session lasts around 30 minutes but some sessions take more time.
In case the counsellors feel that any caller needs a psychiatrist’s advice, they transfer a call to a psychiatrist or a clinical psychologist on call. The third tier of the system is the Institute of Mental Health and Neurosciences in Srinagar (IMHNS
“It started slowly but now we receive around 100 calls in a day and most of these calls are from women,” says Khalid, who like other counsellors has been trained at the National Institute of Mental Health and Neuro-Sciences Banglore and IMHANS Srinagar. She says if the counsellor comes to the conclusion that the caller needs medicine, or having a recurring panic attack, the counsellor transfers the call to the psychiatrist or clinical psychologist on the call.
While 70 per cent of mental health distress calls are handled by the counsellors themselves, 30 per cent of calls are escalated to the consultants.
“Most of the calls are stress related. We also get calls from those persons already diagnosed with mental disorders like anxiety and OCD,” says Suriya Sanam, another counsellor.
The calls also reflect the prevailing mental health situation in Kashmir. There has been a rise in mental health cases in Kashmir in the past thirty years of conflict.
According to a study “Mental health in Kashmir: conflict to COVID-19” 45% of Kashmir's adult population (1.8 million) is suffering from some form of mental distress. There is a high prevalence of depression (41%), anxiety (26%), post-traumatic stress disorder (19%), and 47% had experienced some trauma.
“Our counselling is affordable and we are just a call away. That might be the reason people feel it much more secure to call and confide to us,” Sanam says. She says that the highest number of calls revived in a day was 160 when an advertisement about the Tele Mental Health services had come up in widely circulated local English daily of Kashmir.
“We also get calls from persons involved in substance abuse. We receive such distressing calls during the night hours,” says Sanam.
Over the years Kashmir has seen a spike in substance abuse cases and the government is considering drug abuse as one of the serious issues.
According to the latest survey, “Prevalence and Pattern of Substance Use Disorders in Ten Districts of Kashmir” carried out by the IMHANS, Kashmir, the Valley has an estimated sizable population of 67 468 substance-dependent individuals. While opioid dependence prevalence in all the 10 districts of Kashmir is 2.23% and the total number of opioid dependents is estimated to be 52 404 in the Kashmir valley making it an epidemic.
At the Tele Mental Health Assistance Centre of Srinagar, 19 counsellors are on the job in different shifts throughout the week catering to different calls. All these counsellors are women.
Dr Patley Rahul, an Assistant Professor at the NMHANS Banglore, says people who call the centre and open up about their self-harm thoughts are the most important calls. “These are the kind of patients who need attention and care. The suicidal thoughts are fleeting thoughts. These thoughts stay unless there is some intervention done,” he says
“In this respect, Srinagar centre is doing exceptionally well,” he says.
“When someone is in distress they want a listening ear. This calms them down and also motivates them to avail the psychiatric services. That is the whole idea of Tele Mental Health services,” he adds.
The Srinagar centre is now considered a model centre among 22 centres. These centres are coordinated by the National Institute of Mental Health and Neuro-Sciences a medical institution in Bangalore.
Dr Rahul says the data of Srinagar Centre is impressive. “How the counsellors have handled nearly 500 suicide calls shows their competence,” he adds. “We are thinking to replicate this model in other centres of the country,” Dr Rahul says.
The Tele Mental Health service concept came after Covid-19 in 2020 lockdown when everything was shut and availing of medical facilities became a tough challenge. In October 2023 the concept took shape after the government of India under NHRM opened these centres in 22 states across India. Of 22 centres, the Centre at the IMHNs is the only centre that is fully functional.
Dr Arshad Hussain, professor at the Institute of Mental Health and Neurosciences in Srinagar (IMHNS), says the past six months' performance of the Tele Mental Health Service has two messages, quantitative and qualitative.
“The quantitative statement is nearly 12500 people have sought help regarding mental health issues second highest in the country meaning thereby that this mode of Mental Health delivery has acceptance in our society. And qualitatively these calls have a life-saving potential statement as pause has been achieved and these people have been linked to mental health services," he says
"They definitely have chances of better outcomes if comprehensive safety plan and treatment is done following a pause," he says.
While he concedes that the tendency to self-harm is a very complex problem and a mere pause is not enough, he says, "We need to treat underlying mental health issues in many of them to save lives.”
"We have been able to link most of them to the nearest mental health service and pause can act as mental health first aid for such people," Dr Hussain says.
“We are able to give first aid. We are able to achieve linkages. There are people who don’t know where to go. We guide these people to avail mental health facilities. Thus we create linkages,” he says.
Dr Hussain says initially women callers outnumbered men but now men are catching up as well. "Our centre is unique in the whole of India with more female callers. It is in sync with what we see at OPD at the hospital. Most of our patients are women,” he says.
Besides, as the counsellors are women, women prefer to call them. “Maybe they feel more empathy and maybe through word of mouth they ask others to avail of such services,” says Khalid smiling.
2023.05.28 14:20 Humble-Guitar-7525 Should I (23f) apologize to bf (25M)
. We recently moved in to a much larger apartment so how much we need to be cleaning our home has changed. My boyfriend has recently started to work over nights so when I'm starting my day he is ending his. So we have been planning all week to completely reset the house over the weekend. But, it's Sunday and still no cleaning has been done. He slept in Friday & Saturday our only mutual off days. Again I understand he's tired from work but I work as well. We split our home bills 50/50 and I believe the house work should be split the same, and I am content with letting the mess pile up when he is unavailable to help me being that I work too. This morning I woke up on the wrong side of the bed from having several nightmares and couldn't find it in myself to continue my understanding. I explained to him very angrily and yelling that I have to work today and now the house will likely continue to stay dirty. And how unfair it is for me to have to clean the house myself. I understand that this is not what you say but how you say it things. On one hand I want to apologize for my tone/delivery but on the other hand I feel as though I've been patient and understanding enough. hate that I feel like his tiredness is minimum to mine. I have a daughter and of course he's extremely helpful they have a great relationship and he provides for her, but being that I am the only biological parent I of course take on most of the responsibilities, only bills we split/ the only bills he has are home/light. I ha million other bills to handle on my own car, insurance, childcare, gas, phone bill. And I'm adult so I do this without complaining and still and still make time to care for myself and my daughter, cook us nightly family dinner and Work a full time management position with a staff of 10+. So if I can do all of these things on 4-5 hours of sleep and a smile on my face why can't my partner step up and just take a hour out of his day when he gets off work to help me clean before I leave for the day and before he heads to bed. Oh and when I told him I didn’t think it was fair to do it alone he said he would do it without complaint by himself because it benefits both of us. But that’s not true because if that’s the case why isn’t he cleaning when he wakes up for day which is usually no later than 6pm, and he has to be to work by 10p
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2023.05.28 14:20 betterversionofnotme Need help in introducing myself socially
Hey everyone. So, I have been dating this guy for over a year, and although we’re very different people, we get along well and everything is ok. However, he is a very social person, while I am shy and somewhat of an introvert. I have no issues with this, but we obviously spend a lot of time in the bar where he hangs out, and where everyone knows him. It is very frequent (i.e. it happens several times each night) that people come to greet him and his group of friends and do not even say hello, let alone talk to me. I expect no big conversations nor any type of special attention, but the fact that they just ignore me and do not even say hello makes me feel pretty invisible. I noticed that my bf tries to sometimes introduce me, but being a rather popular person, I don’t think he fully acknowledges the problem. This being said, I have two questions if anyone wants to help. 1 - Am I being too demanding for wanting to be greeted alongside everyone else? 2 - I think I should start to introduce myself… Do you have any suggestion on a sentence that I could say that would sound sarcastic but not aggressive?
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2023.05.28 14:20 assaftevet12 This was probably asked a few times, but I couldn't find a clear explanation. I have a few questions about Clannad and I'd be glad if you could help.
A friend of mine recommended me Clannad, saying it changed his life. More specifically, he told me to read Clannad. He said it's a visual novel that I need to check out. Wen I googled Clannad, I saw both an anime and a visual novel, and I'm genuinly perplexed as on what I should conusme. On one hand, according to him, he says the visual novel is a much better experience. Although I have played a couple of visual novels, including Doki Doki Literature Club and Undertale and I didn't really enjoy them and was just waiting for them to be over, and when he told me the Clannad Visual Novel was 150 hours long, I really didn't know what I should do. On top of all that, I read online that some paths were better than others, and some paths were poorly written while others were great, and I dont waste hours of my time accidentally entering a path that was poorly written. So please, if you have the time, I would highly appreciate it if you could give me a guide as to why I should read the Visual Novel And/Or watch the anime, and if you think I should play the Visual Novel, please give me a guide on what path I should go into. Thanks ;)
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2023.05.28 14:20 UnitedMistake3851 Ty The Tasmanian Tiger without Vehicles
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE the Ty 1 game. I have completed it 100% a few times now and still replay it! I really dislike any and all vehicle bits of the following games tho. I want my Ty game to have 90% + walking/running and the rest can be special vehicle missions.
IN SAYING THIS! I have yet to play all 4 of the current Ty games 100% but I shall be playing them within the next couple of days. From what I’ve seen it looks like most of them are driving around or in some kind of vehicle.. I’ll update my thoughts on the other games in the comments as I play them.
I just wanna run and throw boomerangs and bite stuff and jump around and glide!
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IN SAYING THIS! I have yet to play all 4 of the current Ty games 100% but I shall be playing them within the next couple of days. From what I’ve seen it looks like most of them are driving around or in some kind of vehicle.. I’ll update my thoughts on the other games in the comments as I play them.
I just wanna run and throw boomerangs and bite stuff and jump around and glide!
2023.05.28 14:20 annizka Is this a big issue or should I not make a big deal if it?
Tonight we were invited over to a friend’s house. My husband was there before me and I came there with my car.
When I get there, I park behind the friend’s (male if that matters) car. My husband tells me to move the car and park on the other side of the parking. The friend says, no it’s ok, let her stay there. Husband again says just move it there and the friend say no it’s ok, it’s fine where it is. So I leave the car there. Because it’s the friends house and he’d know best where I should keep it right?
I get out of the car and notice my husband is quiet and staying to the side, not speaking to me. I go to him and say what’s wrong. He tells me he’s annoyed that I didn’t listen to him. That I should listen to my husband.
Seriously? Am I missing something here? Is it that big of a deal? The whole night my mood was ruined when I was excited to see everyone. And had to act all cheery when I wasn’t.
When we get home, I told him I didn’t think something so small like parking a car would be that big of an issue. I don’t understand why he’s making a big deal of it.
He says it is a big deal that I listened to what someone else said and not him. And says there’s no point in talking about it and we should just forget about it now. So he wants to sweep it under the rug.
Problem is, we do a lot of sweeping under the rug. Just dismiss issues because he doesn’t see my point or I see his.
Like the time we were with friends and my 4 year old was having a tantrum and wasn’t quieting down with me so I asked my husband if he could try. He spoke to me like a child in front of everyone and said “I’m talking”. I got caught off guard and said ok when you’re done, and again he said “ok, I’m talking” embarrassing me in front of everyone. When we talked about that, he again said we see it differently and to just leave it.
Or when he got upset that I wouldn’t accept his ex’s friend request when we were newlyweds. Turned his back on me all upset because I said no.
Our marriage has so many of these little things that have been swept under the rug.
Should I just ignore them because they’re small and my husband in general is a good man?
I feel like tonight I’m just getting over it all. I don’t want to sleep in the same bed. Yeah what happened today is a small issue in the grand scheme of things but they keep piling on.
Any advice is welcome.
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When I get there, I park behind the friend’s (male if that matters) car. My husband tells me to move the car and park on the other side of the parking. The friend says, no it’s ok, let her stay there. Husband again says just move it there and the friend say no it’s ok, it’s fine where it is. So I leave the car there. Because it’s the friends house and he’d know best where I should keep it right?
I get out of the car and notice my husband is quiet and staying to the side, not speaking to me. I go to him and say what’s wrong. He tells me he’s annoyed that I didn’t listen to him. That I should listen to my husband.
Seriously? Am I missing something here? Is it that big of a deal? The whole night my mood was ruined when I was excited to see everyone. And had to act all cheery when I wasn’t.
When we get home, I told him I didn’t think something so small like parking a car would be that big of an issue. I don’t understand why he’s making a big deal of it.
He says it is a big deal that I listened to what someone else said and not him. And says there’s no point in talking about it and we should just forget about it now. So he wants to sweep it under the rug.
Problem is, we do a lot of sweeping under the rug. Just dismiss issues because he doesn’t see my point or I see his.
Like the time we were with friends and my 4 year old was having a tantrum and wasn’t quieting down with me so I asked my husband if he could try. He spoke to me like a child in front of everyone and said “I’m talking”. I got caught off guard and said ok when you’re done, and again he said “ok, I’m talking” embarrassing me in front of everyone. When we talked about that, he again said we see it differently and to just leave it.
Or when he got upset that I wouldn’t accept his ex’s friend request when we were newlyweds. Turned his back on me all upset because I said no.
Our marriage has so many of these little things that have been swept under the rug.
Should I just ignore them because they’re small and my husband in general is a good man?
I feel like tonight I’m just getting over it all. I don’t want to sleep in the same bed. Yeah what happened today is a small issue in the grand scheme of things but they keep piling on.
Any advice is welcome.
2023.05.28 14:19 TemporaryBullfrog312 21M - Looking For True Deep Friendships
Howdy Doody Y'all! My name is Dylan and well as the title states I am looking for Deep Friendships. I get attached pretty quickly and spam alot too because I love chatting with those I care about haha A guess a bit myself too see if we'd click haha
× 21, Male from the United States (East coast) and I can speak 2 languages 😅
× I like alot of different stuff like Gaming, Reading, Writing, Working Out, Talking, Parties, Sleeping, Movies, Cosplay and all that other good stuff 😂
× I am quite deeply connected to those I bond with and can quickly get attached and want to talk every day I can 😁
× I consider myself Aromantic (no attraction to relationships) and I plan on not looking for a relationship unless it's a friendship ❤️
× I love being generous and helping people I tend to either talk about peoples problems and wanting to help them or I will give people gifts and stuff time to time
× I consider myself very dark humored I will sometimes say some fucked up jokes and such so hopefully it's your kinda taste because it is for my mentally ill ass haha
Ummm idk what else to put I guess you can always DM me and ask and see if we hit it off 🤗 Also if you want to, message me on the 'gram cuz I am active there like all damn day 😂 (handle below) dylanmiller_420
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× 21, Male from the United States (East coast) and I can speak 2 languages 😅
× I like alot of different stuff like Gaming, Reading, Writing, Working Out, Talking, Parties, Sleeping, Movies, Cosplay and all that other good stuff 😂
× I am quite deeply connected to those I bond with and can quickly get attached and want to talk every day I can 😁
× I consider myself Aromantic (no attraction to relationships) and I plan on not looking for a relationship unless it's a friendship ❤️
× I love being generous and helping people I tend to either talk about peoples problems and wanting to help them or I will give people gifts and stuff time to time
× I consider myself very dark humored I will sometimes say some fucked up jokes and such so hopefully it's your kinda taste because it is for my mentally ill ass haha
Ummm idk what else to put I guess you can always DM me and ask and see if we hit it off 🤗 Also if you want to, message me on the 'gram cuz I am active there like all damn day 😂 (handle below) dylanmiller_420
2023.05.28 14:18 jsveyfjc Now Ledger is forcing the updates that can send your seed to them.
I should stop hitting the dead I know, but they just can't continue with their great ideas. Ledger sub is a disaster even greater than news on this sub.
It started when I've read their official comment that they can't assure there won't be forced updates in the future. However the speed it became reality is astonishing even for them. I tried finding the comment saying that but it was downvoted a lot, so it's difficult to find. In a different topic there was a user saying he couldn't charge the device without updating it. If there was no evidence that they're so dumb I would start thinking the gov infiltrated them.
They're still advertising their wallet as self custodial. LOL.
I give the links according to the rules of this sub, but for me they're not working so you might just put them into search engine and easily find.
https://www.np.reddit.com/ledgerwallet/comments/13ruuph/so_i_was_forced_to_download_the_firmware_update/
https://www.np.reddit.com/ledgerwallet/comments/13sh8m0/allow_signing_without_firmware_update/
Another comment from their sub (from a normal user):
"What you might find is that when you actually do want to access your funds and therefore your ledger, you will need to update it to do so. You also run the risk of your ledger becoming obsolete if you don't update it regularly."
And if you want read a long text with con against them here is what I made some time ago:
https://www.np.reddit.com/cryptoCurrency/comments/13r6x8f/do_not_trust_ledger_they_continue_shifting_the/
We won't forget they lied that the seed can't leave the device. If you have anything to add, make comment.
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It started when I've read their official comment that they can't assure there won't be forced updates in the future. However the speed it became reality is astonishing even for them. I tried finding the comment saying that but it was downvoted a lot, so it's difficult to find. In a different topic there was a user saying he couldn't charge the device without updating it. If there was no evidence that they're so dumb I would start thinking the gov infiltrated them.
They're still advertising their wallet as self custodial. LOL.
I give the links according to the rules of this sub, but for me they're not working so you might just put them into search engine and easily find.
https://www.np.reddit.com/ledgerwallet/comments/13ruuph/so_i_was_forced_to_download_the_firmware_update/
https://www.np.reddit.com/ledgerwallet/comments/13sh8m0/allow_signing_without_firmware_update/
Another comment from their sub (from a normal user):
"What you might find is that when you actually do want to access your funds and therefore your ledger, you will need to update it to do so. You also run the risk of your ledger becoming obsolete if you don't update it regularly."
And if you want read a long text with con against them here is what I made some time ago:
https://www.np.reddit.com/cryptoCurrency/comments/13r6x8f/do_not_trust_ledger_they_continue_shifting_the/
We won't forget they lied that the seed can't leave the device. If you have anything to add, make comment.
2023.05.28 14:18 Grand_Election_6340 How do I handle being despised by my spouse? [28M] [27F]
I discussed the things that I read online and on Reddit about sexism, with my parents, sister and psychologist
Everybody online says (in so many words) basically that women like men more than men like women and in a more well rounded way
My parents, sister (who identifies as a feminist) and psychologist answered some of my questions and they told me:
That most people don't think that women like men more than men like women & in a more well rounded way. They said most people don't think that if you took sex away, men would instead prefer other men in all other ways (because they don't think men are superior to women.) They said boomer men and male comedians who make jokes about hating their wives also have as many equivalents of wives making jokes about hating their husbands
That most people think that sexism is more common towards women but not sooo much more common and that sexism is not about hating women, it's about men having had the physical power in the past to exert strength to gain control. Also that sexism towards men is not just a thing as backlash of sexism towards women
And that traditional roles for women, women in history and women in Muslim countries are not believed by most people as meaning women are inferiolesser, and are instead seen as different but equal. So men worked and women had just as important a role in raising a family. And just like women weren't seen as capable to do men's roles, men weren't seen as capable to do women's roles even if they didn't enjoy work and wanted to spend more time with their children. And most people don't think traditional roles mean women were there to serve men or defined by relationships to men, since men were expected to marry and work to support them
They also said most people don't think that violence against women is a hatred of women. And that it's instead about testosterone (men being more violent) power, control and women being easier targets
They also said most people don't think that men objectify women while women don't objectify men nor that women respect men more (and treat them better) than men do towards women
They said most people don't think that women/girls hate each other, compete, get jealous, be catty and b itchy, form cliques, become mean girls, have internalised misogny and want to be "cool girls" while men have deeper friendships, bonds, bromances and camaraderie
And they said that most people think that boy's clubs in work places like the police also have girl's club equivalents and that men are not held to lower standards/praised for the bare minimum in typically female jobs, roles and hobbies (gay male makeup artists, drag queens, fathers spending time with their kids), while women have to prove themselves and are held to higher standards in typically male jobs, roles and hobbies. And that women don't support and praise gay men more than they (and straight men) do lesbians
What do you think? If the people in my life are wrong, and if the internet is right that most women accept that women like men more than men like women, in a more well rounded way and always have...then I want nothing to do with men or women: working with them in a job setting, surrounded by couples in public, being friends with them nor having relationships with them. Because it's pathetic, desperate and unrequited love. It put me off men completely, I lost all attraction and I dunno why it doesn't for the women who believe and accept these things and think that they have to find the needles in the haystack.
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Everybody online says (in so many words) basically that women like men more than men like women and in a more well rounded way
My parents, sister (who identifies as a feminist) and psychologist answered some of my questions and they told me:
That most people don't think that women like men more than men like women & in a more well rounded way. They said most people don't think that if you took sex away, men would instead prefer other men in all other ways (because they don't think men are superior to women.) They said boomer men and male comedians who make jokes about hating their wives also have as many equivalents of wives making jokes about hating their husbands
That most people think that sexism is more common towards women but not sooo much more common and that sexism is not about hating women, it's about men having had the physical power in the past to exert strength to gain control. Also that sexism towards men is not just a thing as backlash of sexism towards women
And that traditional roles for women, women in history and women in Muslim countries are not believed by most people as meaning women are inferiolesser, and are instead seen as different but equal. So men worked and women had just as important a role in raising a family. And just like women weren't seen as capable to do men's roles, men weren't seen as capable to do women's roles even if they didn't enjoy work and wanted to spend more time with their children. And most people don't think traditional roles mean women were there to serve men or defined by relationships to men, since men were expected to marry and work to support them
They also said most people don't think that violence against women is a hatred of women. And that it's instead about testosterone (men being more violent) power, control and women being easier targets
They also said most people don't think that men objectify women while women don't objectify men nor that women respect men more (and treat them better) than men do towards women
They said most people don't think that women/girls hate each other, compete, get jealous, be catty and b itchy, form cliques, become mean girls, have internalised misogny and want to be "cool girls" while men have deeper friendships, bonds, bromances and camaraderie
And they said that most people think that boy's clubs in work places like the police also have girl's club equivalents and that men are not held to lower standards/praised for the bare minimum in typically female jobs, roles and hobbies (gay male makeup artists, drag queens, fathers spending time with their kids), while women have to prove themselves and are held to higher standards in typically male jobs, roles and hobbies. And that women don't support and praise gay men more than they (and straight men) do lesbians
What do you think? If the people in my life are wrong, and if the internet is right that most women accept that women like men more than men like women, in a more well rounded way and always have...then I want nothing to do with men or women: working with them in a job setting, surrounded by couples in public, being friends with them nor having relationships with them. Because it's pathetic, desperate and unrequited love. It put me off men completely, I lost all attraction and I dunno why it doesn't for the women who believe and accept these things and think that they have to find the needles in the haystack.
2023.05.28 14:18 AutisticThrowaway125 26 [M4F] UK / Anywhere - Introverted guy looking for a long-term emotional connection with my future partner? ^^
Hey! I have Autism, ADHD and BPD as a disclaimer, it's not something that defines me but it is something I struggle with-- I would like to find someone who can relate to me but also get to know better and perhaps eventually play games together or watch anime / series we both may like ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶
Here is some recent pictures of me + a bonus pics of my hammy🐹: https://imgur.com/a/Zt8fZv2
My past has been troubled and I don't really leave the house often so I figured reddit would be a nice way to reach out and find someone likeminded who desires the same thing as I do, I don't work atm so I have a lot of spare time to talk and be available, sometimes it's hard to find motivation to do anything when I feel empty inside half the time without being too depressing :<
I'd prefer if someone was located within the UK so it would be possible to meet some day, although I'm not opposed to something long distance if it meant finding someone compatible
I feel like I am an easy-going person with a lot of love to give and pretty clingy, I'm pretty shy and reserved at first but enjoy learning about other people! If someone messaged me it would be nice if we had some common ground and some info about yourself to help break the ice, I usually open up to people quickly just I'm not so good at knowing what to say at times c:
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Some general information about myself ----
I love creepy bizarre content on youtube, into crime crime or educational rabbit hole stuff and have a dark sense of humour
I enjoy watching anime sometimes ^^ some my favs were devilman crybaby (mainly for the ost), Berserk (Manga if that counts) jojos bizarre adventure, attack on titan, Junji Ito, Erased and Made in abyss & chainsaw man to name a few~
I enjoy listening to a bunch of music, I have a big ass playlist we could perhaps share stuff! But my favourite artists recently are: Panic! at the disco, The 1975, Hot chip, Gorillaz, Miami horror and Studio killers to name a few ^.^
Some of my fav games in general are dark souls borne + sekiro and elden ring stuff, god of war, league of legends, monster hunter, final fantasy series in general, resident evil, persona 5, Apex legends, Lost ark, Overwatch amongst other stuff, I'm also currently playing runescape (Rs3) as it is one of my fav childhood games! (bonus points if you are familiar with it, I used to play oldschool runescape too) If you are someone who likes games I'm sure we potentially could play something we both like and bond over that although I can be picky lmaoo
I enjoy art and creative stuff in general, mainly like colouring and line-art stuff so if you like to draw I'd love to talk about it and share stuff although I haven't had the motivation to draw for a while now
I sometimes watch TV series a few of the top of head I enjoyed are: Arcane, Love death robots, Game of thrones (the ending sucked tho lol), Vikings, The boys, Narcos, Castlevania, Breaking bad, Invincible + more but hard to remember atm c:
I consider myself atheist although I don't really care too much about inserting my beliefs on other people, I try and keep an open mind at least / I'm politically moderate but try and see things logically with a morale compass in mind, fairly balanced point of view although I know stuff like that tends to be a touchy subject with people so I try and avoid it if possible >.<
I feel like I'm a good listener and don't take myself too seriously or anything like that, I personally hate the feeling like I could be stepping on eggshells around people with strong opinions on stuff
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If we get on we could text each-other on Discord / Whatsapp as I much prefer that (reddit chat kinda sucks ass but I don't mind to start off with)
submitted by AutisticThrowaway125 to ForeverAloneDating [link] [comments]
Here is some recent pictures of me + a bonus pics of my hammy🐹: https://imgur.com/a/Zt8fZv2
My past has been troubled and I don't really leave the house often so I figured reddit would be a nice way to reach out and find someone likeminded who desires the same thing as I do, I don't work atm so I have a lot of spare time to talk and be available, sometimes it's hard to find motivation to do anything when I feel empty inside half the time without being too depressing :<
I'd prefer if someone was located within the UK so it would be possible to meet some day, although I'm not opposed to something long distance if it meant finding someone compatible
I feel like I am an easy-going person with a lot of love to give and pretty clingy, I'm pretty shy and reserved at first but enjoy learning about other people! If someone messaged me it would be nice if we had some common ground and some info about yourself to help break the ice, I usually open up to people quickly just I'm not so good at knowing what to say at times c:
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Some general information about myself ----
I love creepy bizarre content on youtube, into crime crime or educational rabbit hole stuff and have a dark sense of humour
I enjoy watching anime sometimes ^^ some my favs were devilman crybaby (mainly for the ost), Berserk (Manga if that counts) jojos bizarre adventure, attack on titan, Junji Ito, Erased and Made in abyss & chainsaw man to name a few~
I enjoy listening to a bunch of music, I have a big ass playlist we could perhaps share stuff! But my favourite artists recently are: Panic! at the disco, The 1975, Hot chip, Gorillaz, Miami horror and Studio killers to name a few ^.^
Some of my fav games in general are dark souls borne + sekiro and elden ring stuff, god of war, league of legends, monster hunter, final fantasy series in general, resident evil, persona 5, Apex legends, Lost ark, Overwatch amongst other stuff, I'm also currently playing runescape (Rs3) as it is one of my fav childhood games! (bonus points if you are familiar with it, I used to play oldschool runescape too) If you are someone who likes games I'm sure we potentially could play something we both like and bond over that although I can be picky lmaoo
I enjoy art and creative stuff in general, mainly like colouring and line-art stuff so if you like to draw I'd love to talk about it and share stuff although I haven't had the motivation to draw for a while now
I sometimes watch TV series a few of the top of head I enjoyed are: Arcane, Love death robots, Game of thrones (the ending sucked tho lol), Vikings, The boys, Narcos, Castlevania, Breaking bad, Invincible + more but hard to remember atm c:
I consider myself atheist although I don't really care too much about inserting my beliefs on other people, I try and keep an open mind at least / I'm politically moderate but try and see things logically with a morale compass in mind, fairly balanced point of view although I know stuff like that tends to be a touchy subject with people so I try and avoid it if possible >.<
I feel like I'm a good listener and don't take myself too seriously or anything like that, I personally hate the feeling like I could be stepping on eggshells around people with strong opinions on stuff
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If we get on we could text each-other on Discord / Whatsapp as I much prefer that (reddit chat kinda sucks ass but I don't mind to start off with)
2023.05.28 14:18 AutisticThrowaway125 26 [M4F] UK / Anywhere - Introverted guy looking for a long-term emotional connection with my future partner? ^^ [Relationship]
Hey! I have Autism, ADHD and BPD as a disclaimer, it's not something that defines me but it is something I struggle with-- I would like to find someone who can relate to me but also get to know better and perhaps eventually play games together or watch anime / series we both may like ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶
Here is some recent pictures of me + a bonus pics of my hammy🐹: https://imgur.com/a/Zt8fZv2
My past has been troubled and I don't really leave the house often so I figured reddit would be a nice way to reach out and find someone likeminded who desires the same thing as I do, I don't work atm so I have a lot of spare time to talk and be available, sometimes it's hard to find motivation to do anything when I feel empty inside half the time without being too depressing :<
I'd prefer if someone was located within the UK so it would be possible to meet some day, although I'm not opposed to something long distance if it meant finding someone compatible
I feel like I am an easy-going person with a lot of love to give and pretty clingy, I'm pretty shy and reserved at first but enjoy learning about other people! If someone messaged me it would be nice if we had some common ground and some info about yourself to help break the ice, I usually open up to people quickly just I'm not so good at knowing what to say at times c:
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Some general information about myself ----
I love creepy bizarre content on youtube, into crime crime or educational rabbit hole stuff and have a dark sense of humour
I enjoy watching anime sometimes ^^ some my favs were devilman crybaby (mainly for the ost), Berserk (Manga if that counts) jojos bizarre adventure, attack on titan, Junji Ito, Erased and Made in abyss & chainsaw man to name a few~
I enjoy listening to a bunch of music, I have a big ass playlist we could perhaps share stuff! But my favourite artists recently are: Panic! at the disco, The 1975, Hot chip, Gorillaz, Miami horror and Studio killers to name a few ^.^
Some of my fav games in general are dark souls borne + sekiro and elden ring stuff, god of war, league of legends, monster hunter, final fantasy series in general, resident evil, persona 5, Apex legends, Lost ark, Overwatch amongst other stuff, I'm also currently playing runescape (Rs3) as it is one of my fav childhood games! (bonus points if you are familiar with it, I used to play oldschool runescape too) If you are someone who likes games I'm sure we potentially could play something we both like and bond over that although I can be picky lmaoo
I enjoy art and creative stuff in general, mainly like colouring and line-art stuff so if you like to draw I'd love to talk about it and share stuff although I haven't had the motivation to draw for a while now
I sometimes watch TV series a few of the top of head I enjoyed are: Arcane, Love death robots, Game of thrones (the ending sucked tho lol), Vikings, The boys, Narcos, Castlevania, Breaking bad, Invincible + more but hard to remember atm c:
I consider myself atheist although I don't really care too much about inserting my beliefs on other people, I try and keep an open mind at least / I'm politically moderate but try and see things logically with a morale compass in mind, fairly balanced point of view although I know stuff like that tends to be a touchy subject with people so I try and avoid it if possible >.<
I feel like I'm a good listener and don't take myself too seriously or anything like that, I personally hate the feeling like I could be stepping on eggshells around people with strong opinions on stuff
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If we get on we could text each-other on Discord / Whatsapp as I much prefer that (reddit chat kinda sucks ass but I don't mind to start off with)
submitted by AutisticThrowaway125 to MeetPeople [link] [comments]
Here is some recent pictures of me + a bonus pics of my hammy🐹: https://imgur.com/a/Zt8fZv2
My past has been troubled and I don't really leave the house often so I figured reddit would be a nice way to reach out and find someone likeminded who desires the same thing as I do, I don't work atm so I have a lot of spare time to talk and be available, sometimes it's hard to find motivation to do anything when I feel empty inside half the time without being too depressing :<
I'd prefer if someone was located within the UK so it would be possible to meet some day, although I'm not opposed to something long distance if it meant finding someone compatible
I feel like I am an easy-going person with a lot of love to give and pretty clingy, I'm pretty shy and reserved at first but enjoy learning about other people! If someone messaged me it would be nice if we had some common ground and some info about yourself to help break the ice, I usually open up to people quickly just I'm not so good at knowing what to say at times c:
____________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Some general information about myself ----
I love creepy bizarre content on youtube, into crime crime or educational rabbit hole stuff and have a dark sense of humour
I enjoy watching anime sometimes ^^ some my favs were devilman crybaby (mainly for the ost), Berserk (Manga if that counts) jojos bizarre adventure, attack on titan, Junji Ito, Erased and Made in abyss & chainsaw man to name a few~
I enjoy listening to a bunch of music, I have a big ass playlist we could perhaps share stuff! But my favourite artists recently are: Panic! at the disco, The 1975, Hot chip, Gorillaz, Miami horror and Studio killers to name a few ^.^
Some of my fav games in general are dark souls borne + sekiro and elden ring stuff, god of war, league of legends, monster hunter, final fantasy series in general, resident evil, persona 5, Apex legends, Lost ark, Overwatch amongst other stuff, I'm also currently playing runescape (Rs3) as it is one of my fav childhood games! (bonus points if you are familiar with it, I used to play oldschool runescape too) If you are someone who likes games I'm sure we potentially could play something we both like and bond over that although I can be picky lmaoo
I enjoy art and creative stuff in general, mainly like colouring and line-art stuff so if you like to draw I'd love to talk about it and share stuff although I haven't had the motivation to draw for a while now
I sometimes watch TV series a few of the top of head I enjoyed are: Arcane, Love death robots, Game of thrones (the ending sucked tho lol), Vikings, The boys, Narcos, Castlevania, Breaking bad, Invincible + more but hard to remember atm c:
I consider myself atheist although I don't really care too much about inserting my beliefs on other people, I try and keep an open mind at least / I'm politically moderate but try and see things logically with a morale compass in mind, fairly balanced point of view although I know stuff like that tends to be a touchy subject with people so I try and avoid it if possible >.<
I feel like I'm a good listener and don't take myself too seriously or anything like that, I personally hate the feeling like I could be stepping on eggshells around people with strong opinions on stuff
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If we get on we could text each-other on Discord / Whatsapp as I much prefer that (reddit chat kinda sucks ass but I don't mind to start off with)