Was going through a bad phase after breakup. Now getting back on track, but need someone to spend time with. Just want to chill or talk or even go out anywhere.
About me: A good listener, but will talk a bit Not a native, but a foreign student, so not good in cebuano or tagalog. Good at english.
Loves movies, books, beaches, games.

I don't really know where to start either, so I guess I'll start by saying I am a survivor.
Through no one's fault that lived in the house I grew up in, our childhood was very difficult. It was chaotic, turbulent, and often we had no running water. Our Parents split up when I was very young and there were periods of time where my father was simply not in the picture and my mother was more often than not in her room, so my siblings and I mostly managed that time on our own. When my mother pulled herself together and managed to raise us mostly alone, she attended college and earned her degree, becoming a special education teacher. As you can imagine, raising 4 kids on a teacher's salary, one with with severe disabilities, was incredibly hard for her to do. While my father did pay child support, he didn't make anywhere near enough to really help and his contributions was hardly enough to buy food for a month. Although I'm incredibly proud of my mother for working so hard to earn her degree, it was simultaneously the best and worse thing that could have happened to us. We had been receiving help from our state for my special needs sibling, and with her new job, we lost all the aid we had been getting for him and insurance refused to cover anything we had for him before the change. Things went downhill the years that followed and without going too deep into the details, cps was involved as the situation was becoming too dangerous for us all and my sibling was taken as a ward of the state. My father at that point has cleaned himself up and had been much more involved in our lives, but very early into my teen years he had to move away from us to find more work, and my relationship with my mother had become sour due to our resentments toward each other, so by the time I'd met him, I was desperate for any amount of love or attention.
I met him in while in a dark period of my life, my high school sweetheart, my ex-husband, he was my rock. I felt like he was the only person that held any interest in me, that would talk to me and listen to what I had to say, and he always knew how to make me feel better. But things didn't seem right to me, he would often talk badly of my family, but I was so angry and hurt at the time, I'm sure I didn't paint them in the best light so I didn't think anything of it. He would want me to do things with him, even when I was uncomfortable or tried to refuse, but I'd always give in eventually because I was afraid to lose him. He'd make comments about my body and make me feel like I was unworthy because of my body hair and my shape and I thought I was ugly. He'd broken up with me at one point without any explanation and only tried to date me again after I'd started dating someone else. When we did get back together, I tried even harder to keep him, and that's when I should have known what was actually happening. His comments came up more, he was more aggressive about what he wanted, and while at that point he had never hit me, he made me sleep with him when I said I couldn't do that/didn't want to. But I stayed because I didn't think anyone else loved me and I didn't know that what he was doing was wrong. My parents and I never talked about that kind of thing and my parents were single for most of my life up up until that point, and I didn't have step parents until I was in my late teens, so I didn't know that my experience was not normal in a healthy relationship.
As we grew older and graduated from high school I discovered that he had tried dating a girl I was close with and she warned me what he said and did so I broke up with him and started college on my own, only to learn we had the same psychology class and he pulled me back in. I wasn't doing well in school and tensions between my mother and I had only gotten worse, so when his parents offered for me to move in with them, I jumped at the opportunity. The only rule being I had to go to school or at least be working, which I followed, but at that point he had quit school and was constantly either quitting jobs or just stopped going altogether, and started volunteering at a VFD, so I felt obligated to earn an income for us in order to stay so I quit school and stated working. I was never allowed to see our bank details, I was never given the login nor would he let me see the account so I never knew where the money was going, but I didn't complain because I had food, running water, clothes, and a roof over my head and that was enough for me. I know that it paid for the car insurance for his vehicle, and an awful lot of subway, but I don't know what else he spent the money on. Eventually I needed dental care, which my family and I had not been able to get much of, and he needed access to mental health services and my income was not enough to cover either of those so I married him and I joined the military as I felt I didn't have any other options. He was ecstatic, but my family took the news hard and it only caused more discourse.
After joining, things did not improve. I remember finishing up bootcamp and being so excited with how much money I would be earning, I thought we'd never have to worry about it again, and I was so happy to be able to provide for him in ways that I had not been able to before. I would be earning a free education, getting health care, and eventually maybe I could raise a family like I always wanted, but felt was out of reach for me. It was only after I graduated that I learned he spent everything. He only returned some items he had bought because one of my siblings found out and made him give some back. After the graduation he wanted to move to where I was training for my job, so he drove up with all our things and stayed in a hotel room close to base. As you can imagine, that was also very expensive. We eventually got housing, but we had almost nothing when we moved in. He got a job on base and would watch all the women as they did PT, would drink every night at home, and things only got more turbulent the longer we lived on our own. Eventually he quit his job and would drink all day and get upset with me when I'd come home from work because I was too tired to do much and I was struggling to keep up in training so I was studying late at the school house almost everyday.
Eventually our relationship broke down after I had made a horrifying discovery, something so terrible that I couldn't even look past it. At that point I had made up my mind that the marriage was over, I couldn't be with him anymore, and I left to stay with a friend for a few days. During this time I had made a terrible mistake and cheated on my ex-husband. Not because I wanted revenge, but because I wanted someone to care about me, even if it was for the wrong reasons, but it only solidified my decision. After building up the courage to go home and tell him everything, the cheating, that what he was doing was wrong, and that I couldn't take it anymore and that I wanted a divorce. I didn't even get a chance to tell him before he told me if I ever left him like that or ever tried to end the relationship he 'would be upstairs with a gun in his mouth'. He had never threated himself or others before this so I believed him and I ended up staying and keeping everything a secret out of fear of what he would do. I took apart the gun he bought with the money I had earned and hid them in different parts of the house to keep him from killing himself and I told him he needed to stop drinking, seek therapy, and either get a job or work on school/trade school, and I would seek therapy for myself. I asked for marriage counseling, but he refused and said he'd do therapy on his own. He only went to a few sessions before quitting. I went to receive services on base for my marital issues and as I started talking to a counselor, she made it very clear to me that what he was doing was abuse and she would not allow me to leave the building unless I filed some kind of report on him, and me not clearly understanding how reporting worked in the military entirely, panicked and filled a closed report on him so at least there was a paper trail. I never went back because I was in denial about the abuse and I did not think I was a victim, if anything I felt as guilty as him.
As my career progressed, things did settle down for awhile. I had finished up school and at that point we had moved to my first duty station, he was still drinking, but not as often and did start working again part time and I had started becoming more relaxed. I met the division I would be working with and I loved them all. They were the first real experience I had ever had with stability and it was something I needed. I became more of a workaholic, volunteering to stay later to accomplish more tasks as we were shorthanded and I wanted to be more helpful to the division. Things had been going well for the most part, but I was still deep in denial about things he was doing. He had taken out credit cards without telling me and even took one out in my name without me knowing, I only found out after they called me to apologize for the card being late and that it was on the way. I was so shocked I didn't correct her and he maxed out all the cards. I still had no access to the account, but at this point I could text the bank to get the balance, but still didn't know where the money was going. He started to be more aggressive about intimacy and demanding more and more of me, and there were times where I'd wake up to him touching me or he would just wake me up for sex so I wasn't able to sleep much and I was tired all the time. I didn't say anything or try to stop him anymore because I felt like I deserved it for what I had done, and it was easier to give him what he wanted than to try to fight him or make him stop. I was afraid of what would happen if I ever said no.
After this point in time, we finally had an idea of when I was to be deployed and things began to ramp up. I was away from home more often, but it was still several months away from deployment and with the holidays coming up, we decided to go big that year and make thanksgiving dinner. A few days after thanksgiving, I wasn't feeling well and was experiencing abdominal pain, but with my PCOS symptoms I just figured my cycle was coming and was hitting me harder than usual, but he recognized that something was wrong and made me go to the hospital and I had emergency surgery for my appendix. I remember him wanting to take a picture of my stomach because 'I would never look the same again', all I could think about before that was how scared I was of the surgery and how long it would take for me to go back to work, but after that it made me feel even more ugly as it was one of the only things he ever really said he liked about me and I felt vain for worrying about the scars. The surgery didn't go as planned, and instead of the small incisions I was told I would have, I woke up to a massive scar right down the center on my abdomen. My appendix had been too close to bursting and they had to make a larger opening to remove it, and all I could remember was the blinding pain as they wheeled me back to my room where I was left alone with him. I did not receive any pain medication for several hours after and it was the worst pain I'd ever experienced in my life. When they finally did give me something, it wasn't enough and I was put on Dilaudid to manage my pain. The second night of my week long stay, my husband was lying in bed with me and asked me for sex. I was in so much pain, all I could think about was how horrible I felt, and I said no to him for the first time in nearly two years. That I needed to get better first and I didn't think I could handle it with the pain I was in, but he kept touching me and begging, saying the Dilaudid would keep me from being in too much pain and I felt so scared that I said yes because every time before I had said no he took what he wanted anyway and I was afraid that he would hurt me. All I can remember doing was looking out the window and the night, watching the cars drive away on the the highway and the cars leaving the parking lot and as he pulled up my gown, and I pushed the button for more medicine, but it wasn't enough to stop the pain. I remember the visitors I had after, I remember my division getting me flowers and a get well soon card with so many kind words that I kept all this time and all I could do was push the button for more medicine, but it still hurt so much. I had to walk after and every day to keep clots from forming and to start recovering, but my pain never diminished and I was discharged from the hospital.
In the months that followed my pain changed and seemed like it was spreading, but it never stopped hurting, sometimes it wouldn't be so bad, but others were so bad I couldn't get out of bed. He was still asking for sex and other favors, but with less frequency as he seemed more frustrated that I couldn't preform. Every time I had to, I was in so much pain I could not function at home or at work and it affected me very deeply. We tried getting help for my pain and to try and figure out what was going on, but all the doctors I saw accused me of drug seeking behaviors and wouldn't offer me any help or send me to someone who could help me. It got so bad that I started begging them for help and begging them not to give me anything until we knew what was wrong, all the while deployment was fast approaching and I was afraid that I would either miss the deployment, or that I would go, but still not know what was wrong and drag my division down. I became very depressed and started drinking as we made more appointments. I remember the 3rd or 4th time they sent me to gyno for my issues I had become so frustrated and angry that I laid everything out with the doctor, every single little thing I could think of I told them (all with the exception of my ex husbands treatment) and she didn't ask me any questions, she didn't ask me about the details of my many symptoms at this point, or try to understand how I was feeling. She instead asked me how my relationship was with my father was. All the while he was sitting in the room with us, the real cause to all my pain in aguish, just casually listening in, waiting to complain how I wasn't having enough sex with him as he did in most of the appointments and I became enraged. I defended my father, and I put my uniform back on and said I'd like to speak with another doctor and asked her directly how to file a report, not against my ex, but her for saying something so horrible about my Dad, the only man in my life I loved more than any other in the world. After I left I called to make another appointment as I couldn't see anyone else that day.
When I was finally sent to pain management, deployment was two months away and I was terrified. I wanted to go so badly because it meant I could get away from him, I could finally leave him and he would never be able to reach me so long as I was on the ship and safe with my division, but nothing worked out the way I had hoped for. I was told it was Fibromyalgia. That this condition was life long and there was no cure, that I'd not only be removed from the ship, but that I'd have to leave the military all together. I was devastated, and the little patience he did give me while we tried to get a diagnosis quickly disappeared. I was put on several different medications to manage my symptoms, but he continued to make me have sex, even when we were told not to so I could have a chance to let my body recover, and things got worse the more I pushed back. The medication was meant to help me sleep because my pain could be better managed if I slept better, but he would wake me up at night and hurt me, and it never stopped. One night, when I was on Ambien, I had gone to bed and I remember falling asleep next to him, but I woke up to him on top of me, inside me, it hurt so much and I was in so much pain and it was so dark I didn't recognize him. I tired to fight him off me, but the medicine was so strong I couldn't stop him and he pinned my arms down. I couldn't stop crying and he finally stopped. I can't remember if he finished or not because I fell back asleep crying and flaring up. He continued this kind of behavior for the months that followed and although he never went that far again, he did continue to make me have sex and continued to hurt me in my sleep to the point of waking me up, claiming he loved me too much to stop. I didn't feel safe enough to take Ambein anymore and eventually stopped it all together, I didn't sleep for 4 days after that. All of this was happening as I was removed from the ship and placed on limited duty orders to await my medical board, placed in therapy, physical therapy, and many other appointments and medication changes to try to get my symptoms under control, but things became harder for me to manage and my drinking only got worse. When I finally escaped him, with the help of my now husband, I stopped all treatments and medications to manage my symptoms. To this day I cannot bring myself to be in a hospital, doctor's office, or take anything other than the things I took as a teen because I know how they work and that I can defend myself when I take them.
I can't bring myself to write anymore tonight, but there were so many things that happened that it's too much for me to write it all down and while I know he did many terrible things, I also was not innocent and I broke my vows. I will never defend myself for cheating, I know it was wrong and to this day I punish myself for it, but I do not regret finally learning that sex was not something you take from someone you love, that it was not something that is forced on you, it's not supposed to hurt you. Rape is not a consequence for cheating, you might destroy your marriage, you might end a relationship or somehow work it all out and stay together, but you do not deserve to go through that even when you make such a terrible mistake. If they can do so many awful things and you stay with them, forgive them, and still try to make it work, why give them so much grace and not give yourself even the smallest amount? You are a human being who is deserving of love and dignity, you do not deserve abuse. If anyone reads this please know that if you feel alone, if you're in this situation still, know that I love you and that when you are free, things will get so much better for you I promise. You are worthy of love and your deserve better.

I also posted this on relationship advice but here we go. I feel so bad.
This is also a bit like AmIThe*sshole because I feel like I am ruining her trip but I am going to write down the whole story, even the previous ones. Please tell me what can I do better because I love her a lot and I know that she does too. She is the perfect partner for me(I think) and other than the fights we have when she is on a trip, we rarely ever fight.
Me(26M) and my girlfriend(22 F) have been dating for 10 months, she is Japanese and I am Turkish. I live in Turkey. I use Japanese to communicate as it was my major so not many problems with the language but definitely some because of the cultural difference. We met in Japan when I was doing my exchange and now I will most likely be able to move there in a few months. She is currently doing her own exchange in Australia.
Whenever she goes traveling, she is the type to not message much but expects the opposite from me whenever I go. If I stay at a friends, I talk to her everyday for at least an hour and message a lot. When I don't she either tells me sarcastically "is it that fun for you to be around this girl/guy that you forget me ?" Or just "I miss your voice", which I am both fine with honestly. If the amount isn't enough for her and I can increase, I will talk to her more just so she feels safe and at ease. This time I was the one that initiated the fight and she is not really talking to me right now.
She is now traveling with 2 of her friends to New Zealand. They are all Japanese and one is a guy. This guy, I do not really like because he talks bad about his girlfriend around other girls(this is what my gf told me) and I see it as a way to gain sympathy and I am wary of him. Whenever she is with this guy, she doesn't message me much but when she is with other girls, she can even call me on the phone when they are around. But very rarely with this guy. She says it is rude to talk to me or message me much when she is with other people so when she calls it has to be after they sleep or message me only twice-thrice during the day when the opportunity arises. This might be me overthinking too.
Now They are staying together at an airbnb type hotel, guy one room girls one room. She didn't message me much during the day, sent two photos with two messages related to them but I saw a lot more photos of a lot more places on her stories and told her that I wanted her to send me some like that. She didnt see my messages, it was around 8 pm. Then on her friends story I realized that they were drinking. I waited until 0 am but since there was no contact I called her twice. No reply. called her friend, my gf returned my call and asked what is up. I, very rudely, said that "I am sad and now I do not want to talk to you". I am wrong but she said that her drinking without no contact wouldn't happen and if I could, I could contact her friend if I can't reach her. We close the phone call, no message until 3 am. I am feeling nervous and bad, I ask her why she is not keeping her promises with me by writing a long message. The promises I will talk about on the next paragraph. At this point I start to feel like I am just a person talks to when she doesn't want to be alone.
She made me three promises on unrelated stuff this month but none of them she kept. She said that she would help me prepare for my interview after I asked her and she insisted that we do this as soon as we can, then she forgot. She even wished me good luck on the interview, forgetting that she wanted to help me. I made her remember at the last minute and then she decided to help saying sorry. She told me that she wanted to buy me a perfume for my birthday and had me order it before hand but even after 2 weeks passed she didn't pay for it. I reminded her this, but she said that she didn't forget. I told her that it is fine if she doesn't, her finances might have changed and that she just needs to tell me. Since I don't have much money because of Turkish Lira right now, I feel like I would have appreciated if she either kept her promise or just tell me sorry that she can't do it now. She also promised me that she would call me when she can on her trip and message me more often compared to the ones before.
She now doesn't want to talk to me, take her time. Her friend who I called and messaged(4 messages, 4 unanswered calls at the time), is also ghosting me. I apologized to both of them but not really any other messages I received. My GF is saying that this is the best she can do, she has done her best but cant put more work into messageing or calling me on a trip because it would be disrespectful to her friends.
A bit more background: She went to another trip before with the same friends and a few more and I would get almost no messages or calls during the whole trip. I got mad because when I went on a trip with a lot of people I called her morning and night with a lot of messages in between but she got mad at me, cried on the phone, saying that I had promised to not make her feel alone when I am at the trip. I thought that she was contradicting herself. We fought and reconciled after a time. She said that she was wrong when I was on the trip that time and forgot how easy it is to get caught up in the moment. She had also decided to come to Turkey once, then bailed out and went to Los Angeles thinking that it would be safer than coming here. There she didn't communicate much but was better than the previous trip. She went to her girl friend who is also doing an exchange. Then she said that she would also go to Europe with her next semester which made me sad and angry because I felt like she could also afford coming to Turkey if she can go on trips this much and I was sad that she didn't even consider that. Then after having a very bad experience in America because of her friend she said that she was sorry and should've thought better. She said she wanted to come to Turkey of course but maybe on the way back from Europe or she would tell me only when it was decided because she didn't want to disappoint me my not being able to come to Turkey again.
In general, we rarely ever fight. No other problems regarding communications, we talk and try to understand each other a lot but I am afraid that, maybe my paranoia or insecurity has gotten the best of me and I am losing her.
TLDR; Long Distance gf is on a trip, a guy I dont like is also there in the same hotel. She doesn't tell me that they are drinking and doesnt contact me at all into the night, I panic try to contact her, it takes a long while but when I can I then brush her off. I now regret it, I am trying to communicate with her but I might have f'ked up.
I want to do better because I love her and I don't want to lose her and I ask your advice on what is the best to do.

There's this girl (21F) who liked me (26M) when i was at my lowest point of my life. She liked me a lot but i pushed her away.
We met during pandemic and it was really a tough time for me; i have a family problem, career problem and midlife crisis. It is so bad that we have to get out of my father's house and live with a relative temporarily, she was a girl next door and thats how we met. We have the same circle of friends in the neighborhood and we slowly got to know each other. When face2face work set-up started i was able to get a job and she continued her schooling in the same city that i work. We dated after a while and found out we have a lot of things in common. She wanted me, but i have lots of problems and i dont want her to carry my burden. I am depressed and i cant give her the love that she deserves for i dont even have enough to give to myself. I confronted her that it would be best for her to find other guys; it hurt her but during that time i felt less pain than she did because she liked me more than i liked her. Now we are still friends and we are moving on with our own lives but a part of me wants her back.
Things are getting good now but i think it would have been better if only i kept her. As days went by i realized that i actually have feelings for her, more than i thought. My mood always gets gloomy but she always chases the clouds away. She is moving on now and im happy for her. Im praying for her happiness even if im not a part of it. I miss her a lot but i think is goodbye for us. I found a job in a city far from here and i might not see her for a long time. It was a wrong time for us but if we ever meet again i hope theres still a chance. So im saying goodbye for now, my silver lining, my rainbow, my Sun.

It’s weird to me that in these two videos the girls made a profile for their boyfriend. They took all the pictures and made the bio. Objectively the pictures are in my opinion good pictures and the guys are not bad looking at all. Plus since a girl made the profile and bios this should theoretically give them a “leg up”
In this first video they speak to each other in another language after but during the whole dating app description and picture part she speaks English: https://youtu.be/MYw6GDgFrew Results at 6:15, the profile presentation is a bit before that. She used a special studio light to make sure the pictures were good and in my opinion he actually had really nice pictures with her help. She took all of them herself. Afterwords, She says she “can’t understand and is angry at why he isn’t getting any matches”
https://youtu.be/0A2HGTMV78Q This is another girl and she also makes a profile for her bf. Again, he gets zero matches and this guy in my opinion had a really nice profile.
His profile is at 7:50 with the results shortly after. She shows a comparison to her profile she did in another video where she got 30+ matches within the same time frame in her other video and is shocked at the difference.
I don’t understand what are these guys doing wrong? If these guys with the help of their gf literally making their profile, bio, and taking quality pictures can’t get matches what hope is there for everyone else?

I am currently turning 23 in a few weeks, and I am going to be graduating soon. I'll be having my very first job in a few months. However, my mom, in particular, has always been telling me off that I'm not allowed to be in a relationship.
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If you think that the reasoning is because I'm still in college, then that reason is only partly right. She thinks that I should only start dating around 28 years old and up so that I can also meet rich Chinese guys (for context, I am a Chinese girl). And she has veeeery high, unrealistic standards about my supposed partner. It is not enough for the guy's family to be rich, but she wants them at an even higher level without any family issues and drama so that she can brag about them to my relatives (she's insecure for being the sibling with the least amount of income compared to my very boastful relatives). Even a majority of Chinoy guys won't pass with these ridiculous standards honestly.
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Anyway, I have been hiding my partner for nearly 2 years now. It's just, at times, I find it hard to bear these things that are not allowed. It's so rough for me sometimes to deal with the pressure, and it just gets to me sometimes. Thinking about this now, I feel teary eyed with the heaviness of it all.
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To anyone experiencing this, how did you bear your situation (in your context, at least)? I know moving out is a normal solution for toxic parents, but at this point, it still scares me to think about it. How did you handle doing something "prohibited" even though there's nothing wrong with it just because your parents are very particular?

I have recently realized how much I truly dislike myself. It’s that realization that has led me to stop dating because I truly see how this will effect any relationship I attempt to start very negatively. Truth be told, I tried psilocybin mushrooms…twice. Both were extremely bad trips. I believe you have to be in a generally good headspace before you do mushrooms, and clearly I am not. The first one was the worst due to taking way too much. It was honestly traumatizing but it did open a path to a spiritual awakening that I am grateful for. The second time I micro-dosed so I was able to truly tap into my thoughts and boy…they were dark! I felt this extreme hatred for myself. I also started hating the guy who I was with so I left his house abruptly and blocked him on everything and the whole night just felt hate. I also had thoughts creeping in that I might be on the autism spectrum and convinced myself that’s why I don’t have any friends. It made me realize I probably have always hated myself underneath it all. How do I get out of this? How do I love myself? I know this is why nearly every relationship I’ve been in I never believed that the guy truly liked me and for sure never believed any man that said they love me. I would self sabotage and end the relationship or do something to make it end. I really want to establish something great with someone eventually, but maybe I’ll need some intense therapy. Thanks for listening and I’d love to hear if this resonates with anyone.

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Intro & Details

Hello everybody, today I'm going to show you the EASIEST way of finding Feebas in Pokémon Emerald. What's incredible is that it's truly random - there's still no way for you to detect it easily like in BDSP with the help of outside tools.
This Pokémon is notoriously difficult to find because it is found by unconventional means. Because of its complexity, there's a little bit of a setup required. This setup is so vital that it can turn your 5-Hour Feebas hunt into a 30-minute one.
The method of finding Feebas that I will be using in this video was written out by u/flipflipshift on Reddit a few years back, and thus I will be immortalizing it by naming it The FlipFlip Method.

Setting up

First, you're going to need a Pokémon that helps with fishing through its Ability. That Pokémon is none other than Gulpin, believe it or not. Fly to Mauville City, and visit the grass in route 110 under the Cycling Road. You can find Gulpin here at a 15 percent encounter rate, but you need a Gulpin with the Ability "Sticky Hold", so catch a few until you have one. Gulpin will only help in Emerald as Abilities don't affect anything outside of battle in Ruby & Sapphire.
Next, Fly to Dewford Town. There's two things we need here. The first is the Old Rod, which you can get from this fisherman here. Go ahead and register this Old Rod to your Quick-Item button. The next thing is near Dewford Hall. Speak to this boy outside who will tell you what the current Trendy Phrase is. It might seem unimportant, but it's worth remembering. My Trendy Phrase is "FAST GROUP", whatever that means.
Next, You'll need to KO that poor Gulpin of yours. Put it first in your party so its Sticky Hold Ability is in affect, and have it faint in battle. Make sure you have a Pokémon who can use Surf outside of Battle.
Review: You have a Fainted Gulpin with the Sticky Hold Ability first in your party. You have a Pokémon who can Surf outside of battle in your party. You also have the Old Rod registered to your Quick-Item button.
With these things ready, fly to Fortree City. From the Pokémon Center, go below and purchase some Super Repels from the PokeMart, maybe 10 or so, and of course buy some Poké Balls if you don’t have any. Then, make your way to the left into Route 119. This Route is very large and has a river passing through most if it. Feebas is found by fishing in this river, but not just anywhere.

Action Time

As you may know, this game operates on a tile-based map. The river is made up of 669 tiles, and Feebas can only appear in 6 of them. The 6 are chosen at random, so there isn't a specific tile I can show you. 184 of the river tiles are unfishable because they cannot be reached, but Feebas tiles can still be in this batch, making it even more difficult. What's worse is that Feebas tiles don't even guarantee an encounter as it is found 50% of the time.
With the Flipflip setup, visit this tiny area where you can begin Surfing in the river. Surf to the waterfall and get your tackle box ready because you're about to fish your heart out.
You want to fish in every single tile using the Old Rod ONE TIME ONLY. That Sticky Hold Ability is going to guarantee an encounter, and the Old Rod will guarantee it will be quick (no multiple bites like a Super Rod does). Fish in every tile from the Northern waterfall, alllllllll the way down the river until you reach the Southern Waterfall.
If you fished in every tile, and did NOT encounter Feebas, it's time to fly back over to Dewford Town and change the Trendy Phrase. You can change it to anything, because every time the Trendy Phrase is changed, the six Feebas tiles change again at random. Sometimes, and it's unknown as to why, the trendy phrase will change by itself. That's why it's good to remember what it was initially so you can track if your progress was useless or not.
Eventually, you should find a Feebas. In my case, it took me 90 minutes.. and that's slow compared to some reports. If you have successfully located a Feebas tile, you can actually catch it really easily. You can also encounter as many as you want here, or breed them onwards.
Anyways guys, that's how you find Feebas in Pokémon Emerald.

Okay so I don't really know how to put this but I'll just say a month ago or so, I ended up mentally breaking up with my boyfriend, I'm not going to get into it as I don't want to overwhelm whoever reads this but we sometimes have problems where he doesn't understand me and he says I'm arguing if I tell my feelings and he'll go for hours and come back and act normal - and I just couldn't take it anymore. So that basically happened and I felt I had enough of just being left upset for him to just come back acting normal ( which he sort of did, I'll explain that now ) he would just randomly message me hours later but it wasn't any hey we need to talk he was doing it AGAIN just acting normal. I didn't open the message it was hard but I wanted to just think clearly and I decided I'm done with this because I always communicate & nothing changes but it was hard because I love him SO MUCH.
I decided that night, I'd message him all about my feelings and my reasons for having to break up, and just wish him well. During all this time, like hours before I made the full choice that I'm done with this relationship, I posted on Reddit about the whole situation & other things related to it & people were telling me he sounds narcissistic and that I need to go etc but it's not that simple AND I doubt he is ( we are fine now & he says he understands me, I'm not going to just break up with him so easily I love him sm but I told him if nothing changes in a few months I have to go - it's not good for both of us to stay in an unhappy relationship but rn we are good )
Anyway someone messaged me and I usually don't reply to them unless it's a woman because I feel they are less likely to end up being creeps if you know what I mean. But this time I did, they basically said my boyfriend doesn't deserve me and is bad or something & I can't remember what else was said but I replied and we talked and he was telling me to look on threads of women in relationships with narcissists because my boyfriend apparently sounds like one. I told him some other things and he was giving me advice but the conversation didn't stay just about my relationship as after we talked about other things. He was so understanding, and very caring and I appreciated all of his advice and everyone else's who gave me advice on my post. But he told me his Reddit keeps freezing and said we could use something else to talk and he mentioned Snapchat but i felt uncomfy because we'll maybe it's self explanatory. But I trusted him, and he didn't turn out to be a creep ( I think ) but the conversation changed and we talked for a few days in all this time I was mentally broken up with my boyfriend but I did at one point send him a whole paragraph on me breaking up w him and my reasons. I explained it FULLY. Sometimes he doesn't read my messages fully and I have to ask him to so maybe he just didn't read them ( sigh )
I was still upset about it all but I chose to stand by my decision and not keep just going back to my boyfriend unless he actually communicates and shows me he'll be better etc. I felt guilty about even replying to that reddit guy... I just felt like I was unloyal to my boyfriend EVEN though I was broken up w him. It's just so not me. Especially after just getting out of my relationship but it was because he was "helping" me. But after a while the messages changed like I wasn't fully comfortable with it but he was talking about his relationships and it turned sexual and he'd ask me sexual questions I felt uncomfortable but he kept saying it's normal and we are adults etc and I get it but I don't like to talk like that unless it's my boyfriend... I told him that. I don't know how to describe this 😩 but eventually it changed and like I started to like him & him me. That added to my guilt :/ so as you can imagine I felt horrible and I told him too, I told him I feel like I'm being unloyal to my ( then ex boyfriend ) but he told me I'm not with him anymore which was true but it just was so not me to be doing any of this. It was just conversations nothing happened and it started off with him helping me and he stil helped me through out it all.
It could of all been fake I KNOW and I don't trust strangers but I feel like it wasn't, he seemed so kind and understanding and he was so thoughtful with me - things that I felt my boyfriend lacked at the time which affected me ALOT I used to have to send paragraphs for him to understand me and even then he wouldn't... Or he'd act like I'm arguing. Anyway this person showed me that it's possible for men who are loving and understanding and really caring to exist and I even told him that he made me realise it's possible for someone to treat me really good. He just seemed very nice but again it could of been fake.
Anyway I wanted him to help me through this because every single time I would have to leave my boyfriend I'd end up missing him and I'd go back to him and then yeah, the cycle would continue...
But this time I truly felt like my boyfriend is never going to change and that he will never try to understand and will just forever keep going and saying I'm arguing, then coming back and acting like NOTHING happened. So I asked him to like help me and basically he told me I need to block the ex boyfriend then on everything and I told him I can't but he convinced me.
But it didn't last and I ended up unblocking the ex boyfriend and I wanted to be honest with BOTH of them so I told the " Reddit guy " and I told my boyfriend about the Reddit guy and the whole situation and the conversation and how it turned sexual and Reddit guy told me he will always bring this up when he's angry and make me feel bad something like that, because my then ex boyfriend took screenshots of all the messages and he was not understanding me at all and called me a h0e and I just remember crying for hours because I felt guilty I felt disgusting I felt like I cheated on my boyfriend and I'd cry whenever I saw his photo just thinking he deserves better and yeah I was NOT ok. The only thing that helped me was the Reddit guy because he was reassuring me that I didn't cheat and he was also upset at me for unblocking my boyfriend and telling him the details and he was not happy at how my boyfriend called me names. We stopped talking but he seemed to really care about me and he was so sweet to me and I realise I think I like him and it just feels so wrong but I feel it's due to how he treated me better than my boyfriend. My boyfriend left me crying for hours on my birthday because he was angry at me because in his eyes I cheated. The whole time he was just gaming with he's father while I was not ok and feeling HORRIBLE. I can understand him but he doesn't listen to me when I say I was broken up w him because of him & he once said that doesn't make it ok etc And I understand that, because it's so not me and I don't like that I did all of that, but I have to be understanding with myself else I will get affected by it and I'll start feeling guilty and feeling like I cheated. But now sometimes I think of the Reddit guy because he was just so sweet to me & we talked for a few days & I knew what he looked like etc but at the same time I'm like GURL stop because I am 19 and this guy was 30 and my boyfriend said he's a creep going to a 18 yo and I can understand but this Reddit guy told me he wouldn't get w someone unless they are atleast 20 but even then it'd be weird to him. So I doubt he was a creep I think he was just trying to help some random girl on Reddit and then all of that happened.
Anyway I suffered badly with guilt, but it got better because I had to realise i was upset that time that is why I made the Reddit post and the person was trying to help me it just changed a bit after. & I have to remember I had enough at that time so mentally broke up w my boyfriend and I had planned to message him that night my feelings and why I'm breaking up. I really did, like I really thought to myself I'm over this & I'll have to tell him later when I know what to say because in that moment I was not ok and didn't know what exactly to say so he understood.
But now at times I'll think of this guy I know his name etc but I wont say it for privacy reasons but let's just call him Sam, I have noticed especially when my mine and my boyfriends relationship gets bad I'll start thinking of Sam and I have even imagined oh wow literally everything girl. And it makes me feel so horrible at times. I told my boyfriend about it and he said he don't like it but understands me which was nice because I was scared he'd treat me like I'm cheating mentally which is how I feel at times :( so I'd understand. I think it's all due to Sam seemed like he'd be more understanding and stuff and that's what I want and always wanted from my boyfriend but at times he Is not understanding and acts like I just want to argue when I HATE arguing I only communicate so we can fix things and so he understands.
P.s all of this is shocking for me because the whole thing is so not me, I'm extremely loyal but then that happened and it hurt me alot because I felt like I cheated even though I broke up w him but it's also because it was so soon after I broke up but at the same time Sam only messaged me to help me and then we talked for a few day etc. He's gone now but I wish him the best & if he was being genuine then he deserves so much happiness.😊 I also think sometimes I experience real event OCD I only recently learned about it but I realised I sometimes obsess on things I did in the past and it changes but I have got over it a bit because I ranted about it on Reddit and people comforted me and gave me advice. Maybe that adds to why I felt so guilty even though deep down I knew I wasn't w my bf etc. Oh and this time I was SURE like I was thinking I can't keep doing this I need to go it was so hard but I wanted to stick to my decision to save me and him from being stuck in an unhappy relationship. But we are fine now and I told him everythingggg but I had to get this off my chest because idek I feel bad sometimes but deep down I understand that I just needed it all from my bf but he wasn't giving me it.
I also feel rly bad about having thoughts of me and Sam and I want to stop them but I guess I " like " him which to me is horrible and I would if never thought this would happen to me... I was never interested in any other guys while I had my boyfriend and I only wanted him but I guess Sam showing me " another side " made me realise some things.
Ps please be understanding I am not very strong sometimes lmao and this is a sensitive topic for me.

So I moved house recently, met a guy on hinge, turns out we live a few houses away from each other. We both have busy schedules so we started going on early morning (literally 4am) walks together. We then started going out at night. One night pretty early on we were in his bed (never went the whole way with him - for context), and we had a full chat about how we liked each other but he told himself he would be single this year. But he kept saying but I like you so I don't know what'll happen. A few dates later, I've met his friends, met his dad and had more deep convos.
Anyway, after a walk we had last week we were saying goodbye. He kept telling me how he liked me even asking why I wasn't being affectionate (I was in a bad mood). He then proceeded to say lets go out next weekend and how last time was so fun, and kissed me goodbye. We then were having a convo, I had a funeral that morning and had sent a text and pic in response to something he had said. Tell me why this man has left me on delivered for 4 days!
Hes active on snap, but keeps randomly turning his location on and off. It hurts extra because im such a closed off person and never like any guys, but I had just strated to open my heart to him. He knew I had just had a death close to me and that I have exams next week. And now my brain is just running.
I'm a person who loves communication and closure, so I'm wondering if I should shoot a text just saying something like "Just getting the last word in" (our whole thing was banter). I know its bad, but I want him back or at least a conversation to finish things

Basically, I want a ram truck so bad. Like when I see one of those new 2023 models I literally release so many endorphins it’s crazy. Problem is, I might not match the aesthetic of a truck driver. I do look masculine though (I have a beard and all that), but most truck drivers are buff bigger guys (I’m only 6’0) and in my area (Houston) white. I’m Persian so wouldn’t that be weird? I don’t have any of that state pride or anything either I mean I like Texas but I don’t want a truck to stay true to America yk I just like it. Not sure if I match the vibes of other truckers. Also: I don’t do work that would require a truck anytime soon at least. My mom wants to get a ranch one day tho, so maybe i could have a truck then to carry horses or other stuff around? But still for now though, I wouldn’t be able to do much labor with it. I never grew up doing any labor work or anything that involves nature in general so I don’t think a truck would go with what I do or my aesthetic too much? but they are just so beautiful and masculine like me. I see myself driving a 2023 ram, but idk if I’d fit in with other truckers either
Things I do want to do tho one day is go camping and just be In nature in general. I know I will one day and maybe I could take my truck with me and maybe a gf and just sit in the truck bed and look at the sky or just sit on there and pop open a couple drinks. Idk I feel like In the future I could use a truck with a ranch or outdoor activities which I wanna do and I know I will, but for now on a day to day basis, I doubt I’d use it anytime soon or ever like that and even in the future the labor I’d do might not be anything crazy
Basically, should I do it despite my current limitations and situation in general? I’m pretty sure in the future I’ll be able to use the truck to its potential more, but still nth crazy

I, 31M, was 21 y/o when this situation occurred. I've always been curious if I've done the right thing despite not having any regrets about it. After graduating community college in a small town, a few of my classmates and I moved to a larger city as roommates. I had only known these guys for a couple of years and we all shared a 2 bedroom apartment together. Two of us (myself and another) were single and the other two were in committed relationships. We had one single and one taken male to a room. My aggravation began when my roommate began having his gf over more frequently. The event that kicked this off for me happened one night at about 11:30pm on a week day when his gf came out of their room to inform me that "they're going to need a minute". Obviously for sex. I had to work at 6:30am the next morning. The other taken roommate began having his now fiance over more frequently as well. They argued with each other quite a bit while she was around but at the time it wasn't a big deal because she wasn't spending the night near as much as the other. The lease on our apartment stated that we were only allowed 4 Tennants to the apartment in compliance with state law. A short time later the fiance decided to move in permanently to the apartment. She moved all of her belongings into the apartment and was now present at all times. Knowing this violated the lease, I made the decision to protect my own reputation as a single lesee and went to inform the property managers at the main office. Upon having that conversation with them, they informed me that they were already aware of the situation and told me that because I came clean, my reputation would be kept intact (no bad references or penalties on my end) and gave me the date that they intended to evict so that I could be prepared. The news came as a complete shock to my other roommates and to my knowledge they never found out that I was the one who confirmed their suspicions. Am I the asshole?

I ,25F, got mad on my 27F friend for not inviting me to the her wedding. A little context here:
We’ve known each other for 7 year, we have met through university, and since we are both dentists, we have been colleagues for 6 years. She is with her husband since 2012. She never had another realtionship besides him. She was always curious about other guys, and asking me about my dates. One time her now-husband came to her drunk and told her that she is nothing to him out of the blue and threw her in the streets. I took her in my home and talked to her, and told her that his behavior is not to be forgiven and she needs to reconsider her relationship. After that incident they got together and he started to be really toxic, he wouldn’t let her going out for coffee or going out to shopping with her friends and manipulated her up to the point where she asked him to marry her and she bought her own engagement ring even though he told her multiple times he does not want to marry. They didn’t have much money, but they lived decent. She was really worried that she reached 24 years and she will never find anybody else, and really wanted a family. We have been through ups and downs, always been there for here, whenever she had a fight with her now husband and tried to be that friend you could call anytime you have a problem and come get you. I have met her mom talked with her regulary and even had coffee sometimes. We had each other backs, non-stop. She had always talked about how I am her best friend and she can’t wait to attend each others weddings and being godmothers to each others children. Right before finishing our degree she was always worried that we wouldn’t stay in touch and she was upset. After we ended our degree I have reached out multiple times and talked to her, but she reach too little or at all. She was stressed with having an important exam to become a specialist in a certain field. I let her concentrate so I wouldn’t stress her, but I made sure to let her know if she needs anything to reach me I will be there for her. After she took the exam we still talked rarely and I thought she was upset with something I had done (didn’t know what though) and I asked her and she told me that she had a miscarriage and was really upset. I comforted her a lot and after a few months we were finally able to see each other in person. We were in different parts of the country. I asked her if she decided on a wedding date since I knew she was engaged for 3 years and wanted a May 2023 wedding. She told me she doesn’t have the money and it’s not a priority for her right now. I told her then whenever she will have it, i will be there for her, as we have told each other multiple time. This was 2 months ago. About a month ago she posted like a save the day post, that she later deleted it and when I asked about it she left me on seen. Last night I was scrolling on instagram and saw a photo with her in a wedding dress with his husband and their first dance. I felt really broken and upset since she lied to me about not having her wedding. I send her a message of congratulations to her and his now-husband and she only replied with “😊” not even a thank you. I was absolutely shocked… i had no words, and got really mad and unfollowed her on instagram. I don’t want to be friends with someone who can only receive and not give back…am i a bad person for unfriend her?
P.S. We are not americans, we are from a country in Europe, and Dentistry and medical school lasts 6 years.

Hello!! I’m Mina. I’m currently looking for a partner. I adore horror and dark romance themes, so I would like someone with similar interests!
About me:
I’m 23, so I’m looking for partners who are around my age. No minors please!
I also write exclusively in 3rd person, so I would prefer people who also do the same. I really don’t like “i” or “you”, so we might not be compatible if you use these POVs for writing!
I only write female characters, sorry!!
My writing length varies, but you’ll always get around 2-3 paras from me, so I would like a similar response length. I love romance, SoL, adventure/action, fantasy themes. I also write on discord!
Themes and Plots:
Themes I love: Horror, unstable romance, power dynamics, stockholm syndrome, eldritch entities, yakuza, gods and goddesses, monsters, one-sided love, love triangles, hanahaki-like themes, yandere, opposites attract, otome games, etc.
Plot ideas, with my character being A and yours B:

• A store owner (character A) gets a customer (character B) who seems to be getting too close to the owner, knowing their schedule, constantly bumping into each other, so one and so forth. People keep disappearing from the owner’s life ever since this customer stepped into it…
  
• A prince (character B) finds themselves falling for a princess (character A) who lives in the kingdom next over, but happens to be engaged to another. The prince stops at nothing to get rid of his love’s partner, and does anything to woo the princess.
  
• A girl (character A) finds herself in the same situation every life she lives. Every time she is resurrected, she finds herself getting chased by some person (character b) she doesn’t love.
  
• A cruel god (character b) just has to have a girl (character a) they happened to meet when they were on the mortal plane…
  

Some other things I would love to write are: Good Girl (A) x Bad Guy (B), Fan (A) x Idol/Celebrity/Band Member, Civilian/Innocent (A) x Mafia (B), Priestess (A) x Demon (B), Angel (A) x Demon (B)
Fandom Prompts/What I’m currently into:

• BNHA: I typically write as Ochako! I adore rarepairs with her, and I have a soft spot for ABO AUs, fantasy AUs, and most AUs honestly! I have been craving a scenario as ocha as a princess and a knight who has a one-sided crush on her, and we could build a romance around that, and have them traveling together or something. I also write as Nagant as well!
  
• Pokemon: I have been wanting to write Hilda and Sabrina! I would love to write about Hilda and N reuniting and choosing to travel together, and having the two of them slowly fall in love. With my interpretation of Sabrina, I would like someone who maybe challenges her psychic abilities or tries to coax her out of her comfort zone.
  
• Miraculous Ladybug: I would love an AU, or even an OC setting!
  

I also am up for other fandoms! I know a bit but not a lot, my era is really 2010’s anime and magical girl shows!

If you’ve made it this far, please tell me your age, which plot you liked most, and what kind of drink you like!! If you have plots of your own that kinda vibe with mine as well, i’d love to hear them!

This is also a bit like AmIThe*sshole because I feel like I am ruining her trip but I am going to write down the whole story, even the previous ones. Please tell me what can I do better because I love her a lot and I know that she does too. She is the perfect partner for me(I think) and other than the fights we have when she is on a trip, we rarely ever fight.
Me(26M) and my girlfriend(22 F) have been dating for 10 months, she is Japanese and I am Turkish. I live in Turkey. I use Japanese to communicate as it was my major so not many problems with the language but definitely some because of the cultural difference. We met in Japan when I was doing my exchange and now I will most likely be able to move there in a few months. She is currently doing her own exchange in Australia.
Whenever she goes traveling, she is the type to not message much but expects the opposite from me whenever I go. If I stay at a friends, I talk to her everyday for at least an hour and message a lot. When I don't she either tells me sarcastically "is it that fun for you to be around this girl/guy that you forget me ?" Or just "I miss your voice", which I am both fine with honestly. If the amount isn't enough for her and I can increase, I will talk to her more just so she feels safe and at ease. This time I was the one that initiated the fight and she is not really talking to me right now.
She is now traveling with 2 of her friends to New Zealand. They are all Japanese and one is a guy. This guy, I do not really like because he talks bad about his girlfriend around other girls(this is what my gf told me) and I see it as a way to gain sympathy and I am wary of him. Whenever she is with this guy, she doesn't message me much but when she is with other girls, she can even call me on the phone when they are around. But very rarely with this guy. She says it is rude to talk to me or message me much when she is with other people so when she calls it has to be after they sleep or message me only twice-thrice during the day when the opportunity arises. This might be me overthinking too.
Now They are staying together at an airbnb type hotel, guy one room girls one room. She didn't message me much during the day, sent two photos with two messages related to them but I saw a lot more photos of a lot more places on her stories and told her that I wanted her to send me some like that. She didnt see my messages, it was around 8 pm. Then on her friends story I realized that they were drinking. I waited until 0 am but since there was no contact I called her twice. No reply. called her friend, my gf returned my call and asked what is up. I, very rudely, said that "I am sad and now I do not want to talk to you". I am wrong but she said that her drinking without no contact wouldn't happen and if I could, I could contact her friend if I can't reach her. We close the phone call, no message until 3 am. I am feeling nervous and bad, I ask her why she is not keeping her promises with me by writing a long message. The promises I will talk about on the next paragraph. At this point I start to feel like I am just a person talks to when she doesn't want to be alone.
She made me three promises on unrelated stuff this month but none of them she kept. She said that she would help me prepare for my interview after I asked her and she insisted that we do this as soon as we can, then she forgot. She even wished me good luck on the interview, forgetting that she wanted to help me. I made her remember at the last minute and then she decided to help saying sorry. She told me that she wanted to buy me a perfume for my birthday and had me order it before hand but even after 2 weeks passed she didn't pay for it. I reminded her this, but she said that she didn't forget. I told her that it is fine if she doesn't, her finances might have changed and that she just needs to tell me. Since I don't have much money because of Turkish Lira right now, I feel like I would have appreciated if she either kept her promise or just tell me sorry that she can't do it now. She also promised me that she would call me when she can on her trip and message me more often compared to the ones before.
She now doesn't want to talk to me, take her time. Her friend who I called and messaged(4 messages, 4 unanswered calls at the time), is also ghosting me. I apologized to both of them but not really any other messages I received. My GF is saying that this is the best she can do, she has done her best but cant put more work into messageing or calling me on a trip because it would be disrespectful to her friends.
A bit more background: She went to another trip before with the same friends and a few more and I would get almost no messages or calls during the whole trip. I got mad because when I went on a trip with a lot of people I called her morning and night with a lot of messages in between but she got mad at me, cried on the phone, saying that I had promised to not make her feel alone when I am at the trip. I thought that she was contradicting herself. We fought and reconciled after a time. She said that she was wrong when I was on the trip that time and forgot how easy it is to get caught up in the moment. She had also decided to come to Turkey once, then bailed out and went to Los Angeles thinking that it would be safer than coming here. There she didn't communicate much but was better than the previous trip. She went to her girl friend who is also doing an exchange. Then she said that she would also go to Europe with her next semester which made me sad and angry because I felt like she could also afford coming to Turkey if she can go on trips this much and I was sad that she didn't even consider that. Then after having a very bad experience in America because of her friend she said that she was sorry and should've thought better. She said she wanted to come to Turkey of course but maybe on the way back from Europe or she would tell me only when it was decided because she didn't want to disappoint me my not being able to come to Turkey again.
In general, we rarely ever fight. No other problems regarding communications, we talk and try to understand each other a lot but I am afraid that, maybe my paranoia or insecurity has gotten the best of me and I am losing her.
TLDR; Long Distance gf is on a trip, a guy I dont like is also there in the same hotel. She doesn't tell me that they are drinking and doesnt contact me at all into the night, I panic try to contact her, it takes a long while but when I can I then brush her off. I now regret it, I am trying to communicate with her but I might have f'ked up.
I want to do better because I love her and I don't want to lose her and I ask your advice on what is the best to do.

Hello Guys, i already showed this thing in one of my previous topics, but now we have a lot of information and this thing is almost complete, so let me show you its evolution from 1st mirror until today.
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Now i present to you some most likely options what this thing is.
1) Symbol Witch, it's possible that this is the rumored Symbol witch, but not a normal one, there is some important information we get from Kagome and Sena's talking, Sena's warned that there is a witch near Sakurako tree, and in this chapter Kagome warned everyone about witch nearby and Mitama finded her, which is some random witch and girls killed it immediately, so if there is really such a powerful witch as symbol nearby the Mitama would definitely feel it, another thing that is against this option, this thing is only evolved after Iroha gained her fragments back, so it's really tied to Iroha. But, there is some things that can support this theory, first is - Iroha was travelled in past and maybe in some time somehow symbol witch infected Iroha and now grows inside her, and since she is inside, her witch aura is cloaked by Iroha's own magic. Another thing against this theory is symbol witch behaviour, she is able to survive for who knows how many centuries, so for her to appear near where all most powerful megukas gathered now is a suicide mission and not fit for her longevity behaviour.
2)Iroha's darkness\demon, It's possible that when Iroha's lost her entire person the curses and impurities that she collected inside wasn't purified, and her magic fused with darkness and brings to life this being, and when fragments returns to her, this darkness just absorbed it's powers and grows. Sena's give us a hints that she won't do anything to Iroha until she fullfill her promise or die, so now no one in control of Iroha's body and this theory is quite possible.
3)Something from the past, When traveled to past Iroha encountered some ancient witch, similar being that infected her body and is responsible for her current condition and let's think that it's like a parasite which drains Iroha's magic and grows and evolve.
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Anyway this thing is almost completed, it will be fully restored at June when 5th mirror is added and since,authors speed up the chapters to make it before anniversary it's quite possiblle that "corrupted" Iroha can be a new anni unit. Another thing who is going inside 6th Mirror, i was thinking before that it's either Kagome or Puella Care, but they are near Iroha,Yachiyo too. We already See Union,Tokime,PB,Folklore and the fifth mirror is for Neo Magius, so who is going to 6th?
My own opinion about what is this thing is, i don't know really, i think that it's something we didn't encountered before, but what it's nature is i don't have a answer right now, so i want to hear you thoughts, maybe you noticed something i was missed or you have you own theories about it's identity, i want to hear you comments and arguments below in comments.

So this issue has been going on for a year. I’ve tried a lot of things and nothing seems to quite fix it. I’ve looked online and nothing seems to match my specific situation.
I have two cats, Moomoo and Tang Yuan (I call her Tangy). They generally get along okay most of the time. They don’t cuddle or groom each other but they can sleep next to each other fine, eat near each other and stuff.
They play pretty rough though. Moomoo is bigger than Tangy and whenever he chases her and tries to play with her she starts hissing and screeching really loudly. However, she will sometimes chase him and they engage in what I think is normal play behaviour. Moomoo will often lie on his back when they get tired and they start wrestling.
I know cats are meant to take turns being on top and bottom when playing but it seems like whenever it’s moomoo’s turn to start chasing and being on top Tangy will start the hissing and screeching again.
I don’t see any other signs of aggression. No raised fur, no growling, no noise from moomoo, no urinating in weird spots, no claws, etc. but I do notice that Tangy is pretty skittish around him whenever he gets close to her. But if he settles down near her she’ll generally be okay. She will often immediately surrender any resource to him (food, cat tree, etc) which I’ve heard is a bad sign.
Can anyone tell me if I have a serious problem here and how I can fix it?

To be honest, I’ve only spent about 2 hours playing Riders Republic so far. I used to be a Xbox guy, then switched to PS5 because I wanted to try Gran Turismo instead of Forza. Long story short, I saw a shop near me were basically giving away copies of Riders Republic, so I snagged one. I love open world mindless games to unwind to after a long day. So far I’m loving it except one thing is is driving me nuts, it looks just like Forza. Like the icons on the menu are the same ones used in Forza Horizon. Did some of the same developers work on this game? How are they getting away with this? I just want to know how and why it looks just like a different console exclusive game. Anyway, I’m ready to get attacked and criticized by long time players for not knowing.

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