Cash paid daily jobs in atlanta
r/Atlanta - Official Subreddit for the City of Atlanta
2008.06.11 20:53 r/Atlanta - Official Subreddit for the City of Atlanta
Official Subreddit for all things in and about Atlanta, Georgia, USA and the surrounding metropolitan area.
2011.09.07 15:11 solidwhetstone Job postings and design portfolios
Some redditors are skilled professionals, some redditors need skilled professionals. Scroll down for general information and our rules. Please read through these carefully, as breaking them is a bannable offense.
2009.05.28 04:46 MediaMoguls redditors for hire
Some redditors are skilled professionals, some redditors need skilled professionals. Scroll down for general information and our rules. Please read through these carefully, as breaking them can be a bannable offense.
2023.05.30 23:43 Signal_Cry778 Know top reasons why security guard training is important
Security is an essential aspect of every business or residential area. When you hire professional security guards for your property, they not only safeguard your property but also provide you peace of mind and the ability to focus on your daily activities. Security guards need to go through proper training which makes them more efficient and effective. Security guard services should make sure that their professionals are equipped to provide high-quality services. Security guards should be properly trained. The presence of active security guards can increase the motivation and productivity of your employees at work. However, here we will discuss the top reasons why security guard training services are essential:
Effective service: Well-trained security guards are more active and effective than others. They know how to correct things and take action against any security breach and ensure they would get the best services. Well-trained security guards can identify potential security threats, manage evolving security risks and tackle security violations in a proper manner. A recent research has revealed that security officers who are well-trained are more productive on-site. With their confidence, they increase the profitability of their clients.
Better leadership skills: Communication and leadership are important parts of the security guard’s job. Their job requires them to act on the spot, take the right decisions and act under stressful conditions. With proper training service, security guards can develop communication skills, and become capable of making strategic decisions in an emergency situation. They must ensure your safety under any circumstances. Security guards need to be interactive. Security guard training can correct security guards’ manners, etiquette, and behavior that are needed to maintain professional interactions with the public. Effective training ensures proper interaction between the guards and the public. Visit 247guardtraining.com to get in
best BSIS security guard card training school in California. Incident response: There could be different types of security breaches that demand different actions from security personnel. Without proper training, your security guards won’t be able to work and stay on top of the situation. Hence, all guards need to be well-trained with strong responses for each situation. Come to our website, 247guardtraining.com to know more about
best BSIS security guard card training school in California. Effective training can instill great confidence in the guard’s mind. Guards who are new to the job need confidence from the organization before they have to deal with certain situations. undergoing professional training can instill huge confidence in them and equip them to handle emergencies. Visit our website
247guardtraining.com to know more information about our business. You can call us on 877-482-7324 for further details.
submitted by
Signal_Cry778 to
u/Signal_Cry778 [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:42 connermcsteezy Hi, general questions about working for USPS
Hi so I currently work at a big box grocery store in the Midwest and it is awful. I’ve worked here for 10 years been promoted a couple times and now I’m salaried making about 55k a year. Problem is I’m working about 50 to 60 hours a week and not getting paid for that, along with the hours being all over the place. For example this week I’m working 10pm to 8am Saturday into Sunday Monday 6am to 4pm Tuesday 2pm to 12am off a day the 4am to 2pm the next 2 days. And those out times are not guaranteed if we are busy. The actual work isn’t bad but your almost always pulled somewhere else then getting yelled at for not getting your specific job done. Anyways enough bitching, but I was wondering what it’s like starting out and what the long term has in store. Also if anyone here is from northwest Ohio area has any regional insight. Thanks everyone much appreciated and thanks for all your hard work.
submitted by
connermcsteezy to
USPS [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:41 Vegetable_Solid_6823 Help with my relationship please I don’t know what to do
Hello everyone, sorry for my bad English. Now I’m in times when I don’t know what to do. Here is my story me 23M and my girlfriend 19F having a 2 year relationship. We meet back to school 4 years ago and we were good friends. 2 years ago I invited her for date and things come out in good ways. First year was very great we never had any problems. First problem came when my brother found himself a girlfriend, later I found out she had conflict with her brother. She hated my brothers girlfriend because she can’t greet to her (to me same) and atc. but what can I do if she is stupid? I said it to my brother talk to her but it didn’t help. She is just stupid I can’t help her. Then she said she is using my brother, yes I talked to my brother about that but he have to find you. Then came the second problem, my girlfriend (it was not her fault) had problem with her sister. Who was the main problem? By my gf mother, me and my gf, because I’m using her (I don’t know how the hell), her mother also declared she (my gf) is ruining her life (with no reason, everytime before she said that, she will not go to her promotion, also she will move somewhere else from house and divorce because everyone is destroying her-and it was just one stupid problem). Then I had birthday and also was invated my brothers girlfriend, from that also problem came because from that reason my girlfriend didn’t wanted to came to my birthday and then it is also my fault. Then at november 2022 my father said shit thing to her 2 times, I discused it with my father do never say something to her like that. I talked about that also with her. My father agreed she was to our house 3 times and troubles didn’t came back with my father. At new year also problem came, she got into conflict with her mother with some little shit thing also about her sister, who was again the bad one? She (who didn’t do anything wrong) and me (who wasnt been there) so again shit thing were said by her mom that I just use her and I’m destoying her( my gf). But question is how the hell? 1,5 went by and we didn’t had normal conflict, I was messeging with her every day, every free time I had I was with her, we went out I paid, when she was ill I cared and was also with her, when she get into conflict with her mother and cried wiped away her tears, I never cheated or talked to other girl. So how the thing come out? Her mother messeged me to come help with my gf because she is crying hard, I just wondered me, The bad one? Who is “destroying” her. I love her more that anything I came that night but it hurt a lot. In january my gf starter to blame me, in her opinion because I planned that we could build house near my parents because we didn’t have to buy space, in summer she agreed now it was problem, I said okay we can think about something different so we can be happy, it was also problem that I wanted after school work in our shop and she wanted to move somewhere else from here, she said why I don’t want any other option, I said okay we can discuss out something. In end of February her mother get also in conflict now with her husband, she felt at night with car. I thought if she hates me some much maybe if I help her now, she will hopefully change, so I went with my gf to find her and we found her, she was greatful. I thought now thing will get right. I started to help to her sister with things so she also will stop hate me without reason. One day I went with her mother and she asked me why she don’t want to go to us (my gf). I said because she ( my gf) hate my brothers gf and my father and only my mom not. One week later my gf started to act strange. I found out she is writing with other male friends. To one of them she wrote how much I’m destroying her and that my family hate her because she said true about my brothers girlfriend(she didn’t said anything), I found it out when I was with her, it destroyed me I couldn’t say anything to her. Only thing was in my head, why me? When I’m giving her everything. Then about one week later she also get into conflict with her mother, because her mother claimed my mother is talking shits about her family. And how? because her friend is not talking that much to her so my gf mother for sure my mother said something shit about my girlfriends family. But no evidence, no examples what she said just claims. My gf mother started care about my gf (before everything was my gf fault in her life, she hated her) and started to talk shit about how bitch my mother is and how much my family want to destroy her family. I didn’t knew anything at that time about that. In April I had difficult times I was had lot of at university. I wrote just with my girlfriend everyday sometimes I was her, yes I was not too happy like before because I was extremely exhausted and tired from university. Then from that she got angry and said that I’m scum because of my family and I didn’t trust her because I first time I said I don’t believe my mother could say anything bad about her family because she always loved her. She said she need time I gave her I also was at her graduation and she invited me out, we also went out, messaged daily. One week ago she started me from no reason ignore. Next day I wrote if she want to get out she said we will discuss, at day nothing and next day also I said if she don’t want just say I’d don’t ignore me. Then she wrote I blame her for everything and she will ignore me. And here I’m. I’m destroyed mentally, I don’t know what to do I would like just to die. I love her so much I also had everything planned to move where she will be next year. What to do please help
submitted by
Vegetable_Solid_6823 to
RelationshipAdviceNow [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:41 ZenithTheReborn Need Help with Rent ; Disabled trans person who is at risk of dying in homelessness
Hi my name is Zenith Reborna. I'm a disabled trans non-binary otherkin celestial. I have Long COVID, POTS, IBS, Autism, ADHD, and PTSD. I am not able to function in a homelessness environment, and without being homed I will die.
I am in danger of becoming homeless because I am not going to be able to make June's rent. There's a lot of factors that went into this but one of them is that I have been struggling with getting income because of being unable to work a traditional job, and I'm struggling to do the jobs that I can do.
Admittedly have been through quite a lot, that was the victim of police violence removed from everything I've ever known had to move cross country, and while I was recently homeless and I was sexually assaulted.
I need $800 to make next month's rent. I have until next Tuesday at latest but the sooner the better.
Thank you.
https://ko-fi.com/goddesszenith Cash app: $ZTG05
submitted by
ZenithTheReborn to
MutualAid [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:39 gallo2fire Is there any interest in a mobile companion app to go with automatic1111?
| Design mock I'm working on an open source native interface for Android right now that connects to the stable diffusion api (either on local wifi or by one thats hosted online) and allows users to generate images just like the web version. My question is would this be something the community would want in addition to the web/mobile web clients? I was planning to add all of automatic1111's api features along with queues, push notifications for when a job finishes, and a automation tab so you're phone could trigger daily generation workflows etc. Let me know in the comments what else you'd like to see. submitted by gallo2fire to StableDiffusion [link] [comments] |
2023.05.30 23:39 Subject_Cry1637 How do I stop living paycheck to paycheck?
I just got this new job that Iam enjoying, I make the minimum wage in California, I’ve been working for some time but I’ve been falling in the trap of living paycheck to paycheck, I want to stop doing that. What are some things I can do to prevent myself from living like that, I work 45 hours a week. Get paid every 2 weeks.
submitted by
Subject_Cry1637 to
personalfinance [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:38 CockroachTop172 How to grow my follower base?
The truth is that I do a good job posting daily, connecting with people and I have been doing it for over 3 years but I have not been able to reach more than 2 thousand followers / connectins, my SSI is in the top 1 of the industry and I have a score of 73 which is not bad at all.
But I see people with 30 thousand followers or more, it seems impossible to me to reach those numbers, how do those people do it? without being famous of course.
submitted by
CockroachTop172 to
LinkedInTips [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:37 BK41309 The city of dreams campaign :Looking for 4-6 players of any age or skill
before reading anything else, this game is paid. it will be £6 per session
The game will be on foundry with vc on discord. it will run every saturday at 7:30 gmt / bst
short game teaser: The year is 2045 and the red is still going stong, for whatever reason you are here in night city. maybe you were born here, maybe you have buisness here. whatever the reason you have been gathered to form a ragtag group for a job. whatever you goal is here, there is only two options. achieve your goal or die trying. Recently, mysterious events and abnormalitys have been apearing in the old net, halting the expansion of the blackwall seperating the usable net and the old net. no one knows what is causing these anomalys but it is currently believed to be a group if netrunners. midnight arms has offerd to help by giving new daemons to help battle these abnormalitys.
DM me if you are intrested or have any questions
submitted by
BK41309 to
cyberpunkred [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:37 Infinite-Persimmon13 Opinions on the deferred Parking Changes for Fall 2023??
| It seems all of the petitions, protests, PowerPoint presentations, and media coverage created enough backlash for SBU to deter their Fall 2023 Plans to implement a fully-paid tiered parking system....... FOR NOW. On May 17, the University sent a mass email to inform students, faculty, staff, residents, and commuters that there will be "no changes to the current student parking structure for Fall 2023" as the University needs to "continue discussions with stakeholders." The university also adjusted their daily metered parking rates for Lot 5 from $17.50 down to $5/day. They claim "this offers an alternative to the commuter parking premium permit for students who may not frequent the campus as often." (A copy of the statement will be attached below). However, the Commuter Premium Permit is $112/semester. If a commuter student only visits the campus 2x per week (2 x $5/day = $10/week), and there are 16 weeks in a semester, a commuter student who ONLY visits twice a week can expect to pay $160/semester for parking ($10/week x 16 weeks = $160/semester) I was just wondering what are your thoughts on this? Are we happy with this update? Or should we continue to push for lower commuter parking rates, considering they've historically been free? If not, should we be fighting to get these costs included in our Transportation fee considering these rates are a large out-of-pocket expense for students? LET ME KNOW :) https://preview.redd.it/50dvxgu5x23b1.png?width=1476&format=png&auto=webp&s=4dd89326a9a374387cd06c07358eba9e1ed6203b submitted by Infinite-Persimmon13 to SBU [link] [comments] |
2023.05.30 23:35 Late_Set_5640 I want to say I was groomed but that seems too harsh
I just needed to dump this somewhere cause it’s been weighing me down recently.
One of my relatives (who I’ll call Nora) owns a horse ranch and so every holiday/vacation I would come down and get riding lessons for free. Enter James. Nora had essentially “rescued” him from Mexico as a teen, brought him to the US, gave him a job at the ranch, and helped him get a visa. This was all quite a while ago as he’s in his 60s/70s now. He was my horse trainer and he knew me ever since I was a baby.
Other important information is that now my family lives on the ranch and has since I finished 8th grade (so for about 9 years now). Reason being that Nora promised my dad a job running her other business, but after we had finished building our house, her promise fell through. So my family is still here but my dad commutes about 2 hrs to work.
So obviously once I started living on the ranch I kicked my horse riding up a notch. I would ride almost every day of the week, I started a side gig where people paid me to ride their horses every week, and I joined an equestrian drill team. So I spent a lot of time with James. He would always help, always be down to teach me, text asking if I wanted to go out trail riding, ask me to help him train horses. I really admired and respected him.
But somewhere along the lines things changed. I don’t remember when. It was around when I was 16 I think. But James started bringing me flowers he found in the pasture, and one day he asked me to close my eye, said he had a surprise for me, and then kissed the side of my mouth. I don’t remember what exactly went through my mind but afterwards I remember telling myself that it was probably a cultural thing, and that he was a lonely old man who was just bad at expressing himself. I also never closed my eyes when he asked to me again after that.
Nothing much happened after that till I was 19/20. I was home from college during the school year because of Covid, so James offered to pay me something like 20 bucks an hour to muck and feed the horses in the morning and evening. I said heck yeah that’s pretty good money. But things kinda escalated from there. The kids incident had been almost completely erased from my mind just cause I didn’t think much of it at that point. But at some point during the mornings, started grabbing my hand and holding it while we walked to feed horses. I tried to brush it off again as just a thing, but I started wearing gloves, huge jackets, baggy pants, and hats and basically tried looking “ugly” every time I went to work cause I just didn’t feel comfortable around him anymore. But I didn’t want to rock the boat by saying anything. Especially since I was sure that I was making a big deal out of nothing and I was overthinking things. Every time he would grab my hand I would let it go limp, hoping to get the message across. And I tried to remember to keep my hands my pockets as much as I could.
I know that hand-holding isn’t a big deal, but I’m not a touchy-feely person, especially not with guys. So before that I had only held hands with a couple people, and those people hand be my boyfriends, so for me it was uncomfortable.
Fast forward a year and I got a boyfriend and was home for Christmas. Started helping out with mucking stalls in the morning again. At some point James asked if I wanted anything for Valentine’s Day. And at this point I thought OH HELL NO. So I dropped that I have a boyfriend now, so he didn’t need to get me anything and that he should stop trying to hold my hand because of boyfriend. (Not sure why I didn’t think of this excuse earlier, even if it would have been a lie)
I guess this got him thinking because later that day he sat me down and asked me to stay at the ranch once I finished my degree and help him run it. And then he told me that he loved me and had been “fighting against it” really hard but he couldn’t stop.
I think I went into shock. I smiled. I said it was fine, then I left. I made it back to my house and into my room before freaked out. I felt like an idiot. I felt gross and violated even though nothing actually happened. This man’s was 40+ years older than me, new me since I was a baby and was basically part of my family. I’m actually pretty sure that Nora adopted him and he’s in her will.
After that I had no idea what to do. I was so ashamed, how could I tell my parents what I let happen. I should have shut that shit down as soon as I felt something was off. So I called a friend who knew him and was on the drill team with me. I told her everything and low and behold he had done the same thing to her. Well fuck.
submitted by
Late_Set_5640 to
TrueOffMyChest [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:35 Technical_Artichoke5 Parents in poverty - what can I do to increase their quality of life?
My parents are immigrants who have lived in poverty since moving to the States 25 years ago. Now they are almost 60, still living on SNAP/Medicaid despite working endlessly in their small business. They have nothing saved for retirement. Their benefits and income cover their food, housing, and health insurance. But there is nothing left for anything else.
Thanks to their sacrifice, I am doing significantly better financially. I want to help them without jeopardizing their assets/welfare benefits. Initially I wanted to help them invest money in a Roth IRA. But now I'm thinking... invest for what? They are only going to get older, and I want to help them enjoy life now. Here are some ideas.
- Give them a monthly allowance in cash
- Pay off their mortgage/only debt (interest rate 3.5%)
- Send them on fully-paid vacations
- Buy them nice things
Caveat to each item. With a monthly allowance, I'm not sure that my parents will use it because they don't know how to spend money. They will probably try to sock it under a mattress and leave it in their wills for me. With the mortgage, the interest rate is so low and the end result is the same as giving them a monthly allowance. I like the idea of sending them on vacations and buying them nice things, but I wonder if any of this will actually bring them happiness. I wish I could ask them what they want, but they always refuse to talk about it since they don't want my help.
Any ideas appreciated!
submitted by
Technical_Artichoke5 to
povertyfinance [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:33 Griffdude13 1 week out, terrified its CRC
Ive always had stomach issues. Id have constipation or diarrhea for seemingly no reason sometimes. In my late teens, I began having long periods of burning stomach pain or bathroom issues (like, 3-4 days to 1-2 weeks). Ive had 2 ultrasounds, an endoscopy, all of which pretty much were normal. As I’ve gotten older (im 31 now, and male, btw), it seems to be more prominent. Ive noticed more flat stools. Im having to take miralax almost daily. Noticed what looks like red streaks every once in a blue moon. Finally got my GI to agree to a colonoscopy, but its a week from today (June 5), and its all I can think about. All my googling for symptoms all point to CRC and im just horrified. Im getting married on June 24th, starting a new job on June 6th, its so much going on that im afraid of a bad prognosis just making everything crumble.
I need positivity. I need to know that its unlikely, and even if its not, that I can still enjoy my wedding and manage this.
submitted by
Griffdude13 to
colonoscopy [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:33 IOTSONLINE LionEnglish
We are looking for a fun, hard-working person to join our friendly team. Our team consists of 3 foreigner teachers and 3 bilingual Korean teachers. We focus on young learners at elementary school level and have designed a curriculum aimed at preparing our students for Cambridge YLE assessments.
Start date: ASAP or First Week of June ~ Third Week of June (Negotiable)
Job Description:
Full-time native English teacher responsible for teaching elementary students.
Monday ~ Friday :12:30 ~ 7:50
Up to 5.5 teaching hours per day plus preparation time each day.
Candidate requirements: Currently in Korea with F-type visa only Bachelors Degree or higher
Experience:
Some teaching experience required, working with young students preferred.
The ideal candidate will have a passion for education and a love of working with children.
You should have a good understanding of how to manage a classroom and the flexibility to manipulate lessons to meet the individual needs and levels of students. Patience, compassion, and the desire to build strong relationships with your students is important.
Enthusiasm and energy to incorporate into your lessons and the creativity to make learning fun.
Position Benefits include: Salary:
3.2 million won (Full Time), depending on experience
2 national insurances (Optional)
Paid vacation: (Summer Vacation and Winter Vacation) + national holidays
Why you should work with us: - Good location in Seoul (SEODAEMUN-GU)
- Fantastic kids in small class sizes (10 or fewer)
- Full training and support
- Interactive classroom materials - Salaries paid on time with employee record
- Special events - Build your career with support for external Cambridge teaching qualifications provided
If interested, please send the following information to manager at [
lionenglish_[email protected]](mailto:
[email protected])
- Your current resume
- Current photo
- References or reference letters, if possible
submitted by
IOTSONLINE to
u/IOTSONLINE [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:32 CattleCheap8306 Day 4
Currently 3 days 17 hours in. The hardest parts are being by myself and overthinking/anxiety/sadness and the waking up multiple times in the middle of the night.
Still using carts, but went from almost continual daily usage to only a couple times a day, mainly when the anxiety/overthinking becomes too much.
I also do not currently have a job, just got back from college so I have a lot of free time on my hands TO THINK and shit. Hopefully when I get one, things get easier.
Oddly, I cannot eat whatsoever. Drinking water, chocolate milk, protein shakes tho.
Tips? Opinions? Anything?
submitted by
CattleCheap8306 to
stopsmoking [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:32 Ok-Wash6529 WIBTA for being upset at my not so finically stable friend for not paying me back
Im 21 and finically stable thanks to my parents. Never paid with a single cent of my own for school, groceries, internet, and for the most part gas. Im I’m my final year of college, moved out parents place about a year ago. Despite being finically stable, I still work to make more money, it all goes to me since I don’t pay bills. Occasionally I buy dumb things here and there, sometimes go on an eating spree spending about 30-40 a week on fast food but despite all that, I’m still making more than I spend.
My friend who I’ve known for years is 23, lives in a small trailer. Didn’t work for the longest time until 3 years ago when we got a job making 15 an hour, he was the only provider for his family until about a year ago (3 others in his household now work). Before he started working, always had one of the other guys in our group (there’s 4 of us) would pay for him when we hit fast food joints. Money was sometimes an issue with him for hanging out. His situation isn’t to the extent where he can’t afford groceries, rent, internet bills, and clothes on his back. He’s currently saving up for a car.
More on his spending: he’s huge on video games. He’s bought 2 Xboxes, a whole PC set up with two monitors, PS5, 2 Nintendo Switches (some of these consoles went to his siblings but he still purchases them). Early into getting a job, he switched phones pretty often, new iPhone dropped so he’d get it. His video game library across all consoles is MASSIVE, his in app/game purchase is also pretty big as far as I’m concerned.
I actually bought him the PS5 back in 2020 with the intention of him paying me back. In the weeks waiting for him to pay me back, he had bought an Apple Watch. I grew impatient and annoyed because PS5 went for 400-500. I’m sure he could tell I did because I asked about it at least twice. He eventually paid me back the first half and the second half later but it took a while.
Early April, our entire group agreed to buy tickets for an event. They were bought under my card. Each ticket is about $250. The event is in early June. I don’t mind not being paid back until that very day of the event but knowing my friend, I’m concerned he won’t and I’ll have to get on his ass about it. He’s going to have over 2 months to save up that money. He would have 75 days to come up with 250 (putting about 3-4 dollars in a jar a day from when we bought them would meet that goal).
I have faith that my other 2 friends will pay me in time but I’m mentally preparing myself if this one can’t. I’m walking myself through everything I can say or shouldn’t say. His money managing has had me and the other two talking a little and whether or not it’s a problem. We decided not to say anything and let it be but for the second time, he’s in debt with me for hundreds of dollars. What should I do if he were to fail in paying me back by the day of the event. WIBTA for confronting someone about his money management? For being disappointed or annoyed despite not being as finically stable as me or my other friends?
submitted by
Ok-Wash6529 to
AmItheAsshole [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:31 TofuBroth AITA for getting a full time job while playing a sport
I (17m) play High School American Football and during summer break, we are usually supposed to have 3-4 hour practices on all weekdays.
I was offered a job by the coach which would allow me to have a job that would pay me to be at practice while also being paid. However, the pay for the job there is lower than the pay for another job that I chose somewhere else. Now I won’t be able to have practice in the summer.
The coach is now pissed since I’m an important starter and we don’t have many backup players.
When I was 16 playing football, I went the whole year without a job to dedicate myself to football but now I need a high paying job this summer to start getting my money up.
submitted by
TofuBroth to
AmItheAsshole [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:30 notyoursmyown Drag Race tax deductions question
I often see winners talk about how much of their winnings is taken due to taxes.
I’m not American, so I don’t know how US tax law works. I was just wondering if it would be possible for the winners (or anyone who wins money on drag race) to claim their drag expenses as deductions against their taxable income?
Just comparing it to how it works in my country, if a hypothetical winner won $100,000 and they had spent $30,000 on outfits, wigs, makeup, etc. during the tax year (all expenses associated with the “job” that paid them the $100,000), they would only be taxed on $70,000 (100k - 30k), not the full $100,000.
Is this possible in the US? If not, why can’t the queens claim their expenses as tax deductions?
submitted by
notyoursmyown to
dragrace [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:30 Vegetable_Solid_6823 Help with my relationship please I don’t know what to do
Hello everyone, sorry for my bad English. Now I’m in times when I don’t know what to do. Here is my story me 23M and my girlfriend 19F having a 2 year relationship. We meet back to school 4 years ago and we were good friends. 2 years ago I invited her for date and things come out in good ways. First year was very great we never had any problems. First problem came when my brother found himself a girlfriend, later I found out she had conflict with her brother. She hated my brothers girlfriend because she can’t greet to her (to me same) and atc. but what can I do if she is stupid? I said it to my brother talk to her but it didn’t help. She is just stupid I can’t help her. Then she said she is using my brother, yes I talked to my brother about that but he have to find you. Then came the second problem, my girlfriend (it was not her fault) had problem with her sister. Who was the main problem? By my gf mother, me and my gf, because I’m using her (I don’t know how the hell), her mother also declared she (my gf) is ruining her life (with no reason, everytime before she said that, she will not go to her promotion, also she will move somewhere else from house and divorce because everyone is destroying her-and it was just one stupid problem). Then I had birthday and also was invated my brothers girlfriend, from that also problem came because from that reason my girlfriend didn’t wanted to came to my birthday and then it is also my fault. Then at november 2022 my father said shit thing to her 2 times, I discused it with my father do never say something to her like that. I talked about that also with her. My father agreed she was to our house 3 times and troubles didn’t came back with my father. At new year also problem came, she got into conflict with her mother with some little shit thing also about her sister, who was again the bad one? She (who didn’t do anything wrong) and me (who wasnt been there) so again shit thing were said by her mom that I just use her and I’m destoying her( my gf). But question is how the hell? 1,5 went by and we didn’t had normal conflict, I was messeging with her every day, every free time I had I was with her, we went out I paid, when she was ill I cared and was also with her, when she get into conflict with her mother and cried wiped away her tears, I never cheated or talked to other girl. So how the thing come out? Her mother messeged me to come help with my gf because she is crying hard, I just wondered me, The bad one? Who is “destroying” her. I love her more that anything I came that night but it hurt a lot. In january my gf starter to blame me, in her opinion because I planned that we could build house near my parents because we didn’t have to buy space, in summer she agreed now it was problem, I said okay we can think about something different so we can be happy, it was also problem that I wanted after school work in our shop and she wanted to move somewhere else from here, she said why I don’t want any other option, I said okay we can discuss out something. In end of February her mother get also in conflict now with her husband, she felt at night with car. I thought if she hates me some much maybe if I help her now, she will hopefully change, so I went with my gf to find her and we found her, she was greatful. I thought now thing will get right. I started to help to her sister with things so she also will stop hate me without reason. One day I went with her mother and she asked me why she don’t want to go to us (my gf). I said because she ( my gf) hate my brothers gf and my father and only my mom not. One week later my gf started to act strange. I found out she is writing with other male friends. To one of them she wrote how much I’m destroying her and that my family hate her because she said true about my brothers girlfriend(she didn’t said anything), I found it out when I was with her, it destroyed me I couldn’t say anything to her. Only thing was in my head, why me? When I’m giving her everything. Then about one week later she also get into conflict with her mother, because her mother claimed my mother is talking shits about her family. And how? because her friend is not talking that much to her so my gf mother for sure my mother said something shit about my girlfriends family. But no evidence, no examples what she said just claims. My gf mother started care about my gf (before everything was my gf fault in her life, she hated her) and started to talk shit about how bitch my mother is and how much my family want to destroy her family. I didn’t knew anything at that time about that. In April I had difficult times I was had lot of at university. I wrote just with my girlfriend everyday sometimes I was her, yes I was not too happy like before because I was extremely exhausted and tired from university. Then from that she got angry and said that I’m scum because of my family and I didn’t trust her because I first time I said I don’t believe my mother could say anything bad about her family because she always loved her. She said she need time I gave her I also was at her graduation and she invited me out, we also went out, messaged daily. One week ago she started me from no reason ignore. Next day I wrote if she want to get out she said we will discuss, at day nothing and next day also I said if she don’t want just say I’d don’t ignore me. Then she wrote I blame her for everything and she will ignore me. And here I’m. I’m destroyed mentally, I don’t know what to do I would like just to die. I love her so much I also had everything planned to move where she will be next year. What to do please help
submitted by
Vegetable_Solid_6823 to
relationships_advice [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:30 somefuckwho Canada - how to deal with ever increasing cost - of - living , while trying to maintain mental health?
Long read.. but I may die sooner or later. I'm only 32...
Need advice on how to cope and continue.
First things first. I'll admit and do admit. I'm a bit of an adult child. Lacking in many things in life.
What stops me from starting my life is the nonstop increase in cost of living and the anxiety that comes with that. I quit/got laid off of my fulltime grocery store job in 2020 and even that only made 1600 a month. It costs 900 for a room and 1500 for a 1 room apartment..
Just thinking how hard it is and how different adult life seemed as a child. incredibly hard to cope with ( 10 years ago we paid 1500 cod a 3 bedroom. Now its 3000+++)....
I work under the table right now, doing graphic design. Its enough to survive, paying my portion of rent with my father and 1 brother ( 800+ each)...
I am 32 years old, and I'm late to starting my life. Have never had a relationship, never got my permanent driver's license ( g2 /g for Canadian readers). Havent done many things people take for granted...And now in order to get away from my toxic family and start, I need to work 2 jobs , potetisnlly loose my cat( give him up bc single rooms dont allow cats ).
I would die but even that is too hard. I fear I will be homeless, joyless, and then potentially lifeless
Canada sucks.
Oh " what about going to college for a job?" Ya who has the time while working 80 hours to survive ( saying I would have to work 80 hours at min wage)...
submitted by
somefuckwho to
Adulting [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:29 heswithjesus Question: Which models other than ChatGPT have been weakened recently? What's still strong?
We had a thread recently about how ChatGPT went from cranking out whole chunks of apps for us to pretending it can't do anything. I've definitely experienced that recently. Using it requires enough detail up-front with rewrites that it's not many steps above just coding the solutions myself. Still helpful on reducing boilerplate but not jaw-dropping like before.
While many discussed
that, I did have a few questions that I don't think were addressed:
- Is it just ChatGPT's programming that's doing that? Do the GPT3.5 and GPT4 API's behind it do the same thing? Has anybody put prompts for creative programming through both ChatGPT and the API's to see if one replies with nothing and the other still cranks out a good solution? (I'd try the prompts that worked well in the past for an apples to apples comparison.)
- People reported good results with Copilot. What models or products are still (as of now) doing a good job on code automation? And with their existing capabilities vs lots of paid training to upgrade them? And preferably cheap ones? (This could be OpenAI or alternative providers.)
I guess I'm just asking which companies are still taking care of their customers trying to provide a great experience. I'd rather use and recommend them. I figured it was worth a quick survey. Also, might inspire some of you to do experiments that give us hard data on what these products will or won't do.
submitted by
heswithjesus to
ChatGPT [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:28 undecided8675309 Would I be an idiot to turn down Sloan? Or would I be an idiot to go?
Hi all -- I'm currently losing a lot of sleep trying to decide between offers from MIT Sloan (no scholarship) and Yale SOM (80K scholarship).
I'm honestly shocked and really thankful to be in such a position (the one admissions consultant I reached out to for potential help told me they thought I had a very slim chance of getting into either school, so the moral of the story is -- always shoot your shot!), but I keep wavering between the two.
I'm 30+, from CT, looking to switch to media/tech post-MBA, but would consider consulting as well. I also come from a liberal arts/non-quant background.
If money were not an issue, I would likely choose Sloan, but 80K at SOM is very hard to ignore. I'm an immigrant kid who has worked in a not-so-lucrative field thus far, so the idea of graduating with $150-200K in loans is honestly terrifying.
YALE SOM: In addition to scholarship (40K per year), it's close to home for potential visits to parents, cheaper than Boston. When I was admitted, I got lots of emails from SOM students and alums congratulating me and willing to chat about SOM (though I suppose the AdCom facilitates this). When I visited campus, many students were super welcoming, friendly, and happy to answer my questions. Professors seemed accessible and community seemed tight-knit. Classes are pass/fail which is nice. However, when I visited, every single student I spoke to was going into consulting and no one I spoke knew anyone going into media/tech. There was only one graduating student I came across who was not going into consulting, but only because she hadn't secured a job offer yet. But also -- I love that you can take courses across the whole uni during your second year.
MIT SLOAN: I much prefer Cambridge/Boston to New Haven since I grew up in CT, since I'm already really familiar with New Haven. However, Cambridge/Boston would be pricier than New Haven. No emails from Sloanies upon admission, so I cold-emailed around 15 Sloanies, but only heard back from one, who I'm still trying to set up a time to talk to. When I visited campus, I had a nice time, but classes were out, so I wasn't able to talk to any students. I'd heard Sloanies are really down-to-earth and kind, but I haven't really had a chance to see that yet. However, I've been obsessed with the MIT Media Lab since I was a kid, so the chance to take classes there would be a dream come true. I also love Sloan's connections to tech and worry about whether SOM lacks that. Plus, cross-registration at Harvard sounds great. Also -- bigger alumni community, more established program. Also, given my liberal arts/non-quant background, wonder if having MIT on my resume would be more beneficial?
Has anyone out there paid sticker price at Sloan? Can you speak to how the payback process is? Would you still choose Sloan? Honestly the potential debt is the biggest worrier for me right now. I'm also older than the average MBA student, so also worried about debt delaying other life events.
Would I be an idiot to turn down Sloan? Or am an idiot for considering turning down Yale's 80K? To be honest I don't know many MBAs since I'm coming from a creative field, so any thoughts would be helpful. Thank you!
submitted by
undecided8675309 to
MBA [link] [comments]
2023.05.30 23:28 IOTSONLINE Chungdahm-Learning Institute Seongbuk Branch
We are looking to hire teachers to start in August. The branch is located in Seongbuk and very close to Hansung University Metro Station.
Job Description:
- Working hours: Monday - Friday: 3:30pm-10pm.
- Average of 102 hours/month (maximum of 125 hours)
- Working days: Monday to Friday.
- Students range from grade 3-10; elementary to middle school age.
Wage and Benefits:
- 2.3 to 2.5 million KRW depending on previous experience.
- Apartment can be provided upon the start date.
- The choice between either provided accommodation close to the academy or housing allowance of 500,000 KRW depending on the potential instructor’s preference
- Reimbursement of flights paid after the instructor has started teaching at the academy. Up to 1 million KRW.
- Health Insurance: If requested, CDI will pay 50% of the monthly bill.
- 2 paid weeks of annual leave. 1 week paid one month of leave granted. Second week paid upon completion of the contract.
- Annual leave will be available after 6 months of working.
- Severance pay granted upon completion of the contract (equal to one month’s salary)
Requirements:
- Prior to teaching, you will be required to complete the 1 week CDI Instructor Training Program.
- Contract length: 1 year (If both parties agree, an extension of the contract is possible).
- The following documents are required for teaching visa purposes:
- B.A or B.S. original degree or graduate degree, and Apostilled degree.
- CV/Resume
- Valid passport copy.
- 2 passport size photos.
- Criminal record check by your provincial police and certified by your State Government or Korean Consulate in your country.
If you are interested in applying then please send your CV/resume and a cover letter to [
[email protected]](mailto:
[email protected])
submitted by
IOTSONLINE to
u/IOTSONLINE [link] [comments]