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2023.05.30 22:06 bakakaldsas Is this Sosnowsky
 | Is this Sosnowsky hogweed? submitted by bakakaldsas to whatsthisplant [link] [comments] Or is this just some weird plant that tried to scare me. These things (quite a lot of them) grew in a field near my home in Vilnius, sosnowsky is quite widespread in the country, so it eould not be a surprise. They do not have the vertical stem that is very distinctive to hogweed, but I guess they might just be young. |
2023.05.30 22:06 GeoffSim Bifocals with zero reading power?
I have varifocals with what is supposedly the correct strength for reading in the lower area but I find it easier just to take the glasses off. Separately, if I try on reading glasses in a store, none of the available strengths from 1 to 3.5 work for me. I do have unusual eyes (coloboma, non-centred pupils) and the average store associate has absolutely no clue beyond "these frames are nice". Even the eye doctors struggle, hence not finding a (near) prescription that really works ("but it should just work" sigh).
I had cataract surgery 15 years ago and I guess the surgeon picked a strength that works for near vision. I think the right eye is set up for far vision but I have very little field of vision in that eye so it's almost useless.
Anyway, I've come to realise that what would probably work best is bi-focal glasses where the top half has power for distance but the lower half has zero power / plano. Or even no lens at all. Yet I can't find such a thing - do they not exist? Online ordering won't allow me to have zero addition.
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I had cataract surgery 15 years ago and I guess the surgeon picked a strength that works for near vision. I think the right eye is set up for far vision but I have very little field of vision in that eye so it's almost useless.
Anyway, I've come to realise that what would probably work best is bi-focal glasses where the top half has power for distance but the lower half has zero power / plano. Or even no lens at all. Yet I can't find such a thing - do they not exist? Online ordering won't allow me to have zero addition.
2023.05.30 22:05 imhyperer Alternatives to Aimovig?
Hi all, I have a question and figured the people in this sub would possibly have some advice! I was on Aimovig for a few years, and it was like a godsend; I went from near daily migraines to only having like 3-5 a month. Last year however, I immigrated to New Zealand (was living in the states) and due to how insurance and public healthcare is here, Aimovig is nearly $600-700 per injection, which I simply cannot afford. In the states my insurance tried putting me on Emgality since it was cheaper, but I ended up having adverse reactions to it and was put back on Aimovig. My migraines have been back in full swing, and I need to go back to the doctor. I was curious if anyone has advice on other medications I should look into; obviously I will go with what the doctor thinks is best, but was just wondering if there are any similar to Aimovig that I should have on mind?
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2023.05.30 22:04 IndividualWeight5241 Kitten someone is giving away near me. Can anyone tell the sex?
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2023.05.30 22:04 cyberbucket so long petsmart
i am already quitting, i’ve barely been with the company for 3 months but i’m quitting. my coworkers were all mostly great people and from what i’ve read in this reddit , my store was overall better than most. but i can’t stand corporate and the hour cuts. i’ve accepted a job offer today, will be telling my boss i quit tomorrow. sure it’s a bit rude to not give a proper notice but they are barely scheduling me so i don’t know why i’d need to at this rate. i’ve never had a company slash my hours like they have, and with no warning. i had some fun while working here but i’m glad to already be moving on. good luck to the rest of you as i know the hour cuts affect nearly everybody.
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2023.05.30 22:03 JMM123 Moving in with girlfriend advice
Hi guys, I 30M am having discussions with my 29F girlfriend about moving in together down the road and want your input if I am being reasonable. We haven't proposed the options yet but want to talk about this to see if we are on the same page etc.
I make 90k plus bonus = ~110-120k per year (bonus not guaranteed at all). Girlfriend makes around 77k a year. I own a condo in the Greater Vancouver area and we're discussing whether the expectation is to move in there or to rent it out and find a place to rent together. She currently lives at home for free.
This is partly more of a "relationship" advice but I want to ask if what I want to propose sounds fair from an "economic perspective", and also if anyone has any other suggestions or advice.
Option 1:
We move in together at my condo.
The place is located 8-15 min commute for me (30 min transit). It's about 20-40 min commute (traffic dependent) for her by car (1 hour transit). Many of her hobbies are near her work as well which would mean a longer drive. Mine are closer to my place. She doesn't have a car but would consider buying one. I also have offered to let her drive my car if we went this way (covering her share of gas and any increase to the insurance) and I would commute by transit/bike.
I would require a cohabitation agreement and charge her a rent based on housing cost (mortgage, condo fees) at a 1/3 rate (ie at $2,800 per month she contributes $933) plus half the utilities and maybe a little bit towards the insurance insuring her personal property as well. I would bear the maintenance/repairs etc. This should be well below market rate rent and sounds fair to me since she doesn't own any equity in the place.
She can also potentially change job locations (she is a teacher and can change districts). This would allow her to commute somewhere closer to my place but requires her to give up the role she's currently holding and start over fresh.
This is a harder option for her because she is giving up a lot more than me and I want to try and even that up as best as possible.
Option 2:
I rent out my place and then, we rent something that's more equidistant to her work and mine. This new area is more expensive.
It's possible this may not be allowed when the time comes as only 10% of the units in my building can be rented out at any given time (strata bylaw).
I am not sure if I could get the full costs of my condo etc back by renting it (I might be short a bit) but it should be close. I likely wouldn't turn a profit.
The neighbourhood I think works best for both of us is 20 min train for her and 20-40 min car for me (but still easier than her driving from my place as I won't need to cross a bridge that can get bogged down with an accident).
If we went with this option, rents for a 1 br condo in that area is around $2,400-2,800 (a comparable one to my condo probably even higher). I would want to split the costs of renting evenly including half the utilities, tenant insurance etc as our base incomes aren't that different and there is no "equity" that I am unfairly building.
This is a harder option for me because it means adding the stress of being a landlord to shave some time off of her commute. Are there other implications to this I am not seeing- taxable income from rental property?
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I make 90k plus bonus = ~110-120k per year (bonus not guaranteed at all). Girlfriend makes around 77k a year. I own a condo in the Greater Vancouver area and we're discussing whether the expectation is to move in there or to rent it out and find a place to rent together. She currently lives at home for free.
This is partly more of a "relationship" advice but I want to ask if what I want to propose sounds fair from an "economic perspective", and also if anyone has any other suggestions or advice.
Option 1:
We move in together at my condo.
The place is located 8-15 min commute for me (30 min transit). It's about 20-40 min commute (traffic dependent) for her by car (1 hour transit). Many of her hobbies are near her work as well which would mean a longer drive. Mine are closer to my place. She doesn't have a car but would consider buying one. I also have offered to let her drive my car if we went this way (covering her share of gas and any increase to the insurance) and I would commute by transit/bike.
I would require a cohabitation agreement and charge her a rent based on housing cost (mortgage, condo fees) at a 1/3 rate (ie at $2,800 per month she contributes $933) plus half the utilities and maybe a little bit towards the insurance insuring her personal property as well. I would bear the maintenance/repairs etc. This should be well below market rate rent and sounds fair to me since she doesn't own any equity in the place.
She can also potentially change job locations (she is a teacher and can change districts). This would allow her to commute somewhere closer to my place but requires her to give up the role she's currently holding and start over fresh.
This is a harder option for her because she is giving up a lot more than me and I want to try and even that up as best as possible.
Option 2:
I rent out my place and then, we rent something that's more equidistant to her work and mine. This new area is more expensive.
It's possible this may not be allowed when the time comes as only 10% of the units in my building can be rented out at any given time (strata bylaw).
I am not sure if I could get the full costs of my condo etc back by renting it (I might be short a bit) but it should be close. I likely wouldn't turn a profit.
The neighbourhood I think works best for both of us is 20 min train for her and 20-40 min car for me (but still easier than her driving from my place as I won't need to cross a bridge that can get bogged down with an accident).
If we went with this option, rents for a 1 br condo in that area is around $2,400-2,800 (a comparable one to my condo probably even higher). I would want to split the costs of renting evenly including half the utilities, tenant insurance etc as our base incomes aren't that different and there is no "equity" that I am unfairly building.
This is a harder option for me because it means adding the stress of being a landlord to shave some time off of her commute. Are there other implications to this I am not seeing- taxable income from rental property?
2023.05.30 22:03 arleighg What would you include in a cargo bike guide?
Hi all,
Many years ago I wrote a Cargo Bike Guide for my cargo bike shop. As the cargo bike movement grows I would like to keep the guide updated and relevant to help folks that may not have a great cargo bike shop near them.
What was important to you when shopping for your cargo bike? What do you wish you had known?
Let me know your thoughts!
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Many years ago I wrote a Cargo Bike Guide for my cargo bike shop. As the cargo bike movement grows I would like to keep the guide updated and relevant to help folks that may not have a great cargo bike shop near them.
What was important to you when shopping for your cargo bike? What do you wish you had known?
Let me know your thoughts!
2023.05.30 22:03 OrderflowTrader ES Trading Plan for 5/31/23
 | I share my plan for educational purposes and not as trade recommendations or ideas. submitted by OrderflowTrader to Daytrading [link] [comments] Recap: The market opened the day on a gap up, likely fueled by optimism from the debt limit deal reached over the weekend. This gap closed early on and the market began to find some support at the gap. I opted to try a long after the gap closed, but cut the trade as it broke down. The market was flat-to-down for the next several hours until selling off to an important support zone: “I am considering the 4197-99 area as a must-hold for near-term bulls.” Once the market began moving away from this area, I entered a long trade, exiting at resistance at 4221 from the plan and leaving a runner that was closed out in profit. Balance/Trend: The market remains inside of the pink range from the charts, which is really just reflective of random rallies and sell offs that make higher highs and lower lows, but doesn’t really take the market anywhere. The trends I am tracking in aqua blue and “regular blue” are still valid, with the aqua trendline just below at 4174. Note that I’ve added a secondary inner trendline to the aqua trend to better reflect the reality of the price moves there. Analysis: I said in the weekly prep video that the technicals are my guiding light and everything else (like the debt limit back-and-forth) is noise to me when it comes to making trading decisions. This weekend exuberance effectively died a slow death today as the market continues to face limited upside and staunch resistance from about 4221-4243. Overnight and into the cash session, the market retested this upper limit (confluent more or less with the 2023 highs) before again selling off. As I highlighted back in April in a weekly prep video, trading inside of these expanding ranges takes up a lot of buying and selling energy, so much so that the breakouts often fizzle out. This continues to be the case for the attempted upside breakouts from the pink range that have now failed on several occasions. Even if the market were to breakout from the pink range, we still find ourselves stuck inside of the black expanding range and below 12-month resistance. Plan
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2023.05.30 22:03 ColdBlackWater Windsor Station
I can understand why people might be reluctant to share a time slip experience, but as far as I’m concerned I have no reluctance or unease about sharing what I have witnessed, and care not what others might think. My story's not a particularly fantastic one, but it was an interesting experience all the same and is one that will stay with me for the rest of my life.https://web.archive.org/web/20181109063911/http://forum.forteantimes.com/index.php?threads/time-or-dimensional-slips.13755/
It was in the summer of 1974, while I was working and living in Windsor town, near London.
I had a few days off so made headway for Windsor Railway station to find the departure times for a train to my hometown. I entered through the station doorway and everything seemed fine, though especially quiet. I noticed only one other person standing at the ticket desk, wearing a dark jacket and trousers. Nothing unusual there.
But when I stepped onto the platform where the notice board for departure details was situated, things were very different.
I made my way through the gateway of the platform, approached the board -- as I looked through the timetable something seemed out of place. The notice board was different in design to what I remembered on previous occasions. The tables seemed to be out of date, too, and the text appeared to be rendered in an old style of print.
It had a 19th century style and feel.
I turned to look around the platform. It was almost silent. On the seat to my right, against the railing, were two ladies dressed in long frocks and hats that looked very much late Victorian, or perhaps early Edwardian in style. Further along the platform, there were a couple of gentlemen standing behind a camera and tripod facing in my direction.
My first thought was, have I witnessed a time slip, but when I noticed the camera I immediately thought I had walked into a photo session or film shot. So pretending I hadn’t noticed, I quietly walked off and out of the station, half-expecting to be told off for interrupting.
Feeling a bit dazzled by events, I walked around town for a short while and my mind kept flashing back to the incident. I tried t rationalise them but it continued to seem odd. Finally, my curiosity got the better of me -- I went back to have a look at what was doing.
I peeked though the platform gateway and found the two ladies in Victorian dress were no longer there, and neither were the two people with the camera. Then I stepped onto the platform to check the notice board -- it was back to its normal self. At that moment I convinced myself that the film session was over and they had moved on. But later, while brooding over the incident, there were elements that didn’t seem to add up.
First, there were no notice boards or anyone on duty to advise people that they couldn’t go onto the platform, which is what you would normally have expected if some sort of filming were occurring.
And I wondered, when I had walked onto the platform, why the crew had not called out, to warn me off set -- I was there for at least two or three minutes, which was more than enough time to consider me an intruder. The two ladies who were sitting quite calmly on the platform seat didn’t seem bothered in the slightest, if they even noticed I was there at all.
Third, if others who visited the station had noticed the film crew, because of human curiosity, there would normally have been a small crowd trying to have a look-see, but the station had been empty and almost totally quiet. And finally, on my return to the station, I was impressed how quickly everything seemed to have been put back to its normal self, with no evidence of any camera crew or actors.
I was left with the distinct impression that I had experienced a time slip, and that perhaps the cameramen were photographers from that earlier period, and the two ladies perhaps simply waiting for the next train. The unusually quiet atmosphere of the event adds to the conclusion.
2023.05.30 22:03 throwabaybayaway A friend’s (31F) mom died and I (32F) am invited to the funeral. I’m concerned a man (32M) I feel unsafe around will be there. What do I do?
Last year I made a post on Reddit seeking advice on how to handle a really nasty situation involving a man who sexually harassed me and my roommate.
Unfortunately, while in no way responsible for his actions the female friend who had introduced us appears to still be friends with him in some capacity. I do not want to discuss why she chose this and I do not need advice on cutting her out or not. Since her mother just died in a pretty brutal way and I still care about my friend, I don’t want to cause her more anguish by telling her I won’t be friends with her anymore. It’s complicated.
Having said that, my friend invited me to her mom’s celebration of licd a few weeks ago before I became aware that this man is still in her social circle. Needless to say, I am deeply uncomfortable with being anywhere near him, regardless of how apologetic he may be or how others might insist he’s a better person now. I genuinely don’t care if he is or isn’t, and I am not interested in any excuses.
I still want to attend her mother’s celebration of life, and missing it feels like a cruel action. Given the nature of this event, I don’t think that we can appear at different times IF he is even invited, but I am not sure. How do I handle this while balancing my own sense of safety? What do I do if I message her and ask if he’s gonna be there and she says yes? I think I can bring someone with me so I won’t be there alone, but just the thought of being around that guy makes me feel ill.
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Unfortunately, while in no way responsible for his actions the female friend who had introduced us appears to still be friends with him in some capacity. I do not want to discuss why she chose this and I do not need advice on cutting her out or not. Since her mother just died in a pretty brutal way and I still care about my friend, I don’t want to cause her more anguish by telling her I won’t be friends with her anymore. It’s complicated.
Having said that, my friend invited me to her mom’s celebration of licd a few weeks ago before I became aware that this man is still in her social circle. Needless to say, I am deeply uncomfortable with being anywhere near him, regardless of how apologetic he may be or how others might insist he’s a better person now. I genuinely don’t care if he is or isn’t, and I am not interested in any excuses.
I still want to attend her mother’s celebration of life, and missing it feels like a cruel action. Given the nature of this event, I don’t think that we can appear at different times IF he is even invited, but I am not sure. How do I handle this while balancing my own sense of safety? What do I do if I message her and ask if he’s gonna be there and she says yes? I think I can bring someone with me so I won’t be there alone, but just the thought of being around that guy makes me feel ill.
2023.05.30 22:02 Biscuitttz (EU) Multi Diamond M&K Player who has time and wants to improve is looking for a team to play with.
Hello I'm Biscuit! I hit diamond 5 times (not counting this season) and i believe if i played more I would hit masters many times too. I finished high school so now I have more time to focus on Apex and other things and I'm looking for players that want to improve at the game, participate in scrims and tournaments just like me. I can take criticism, I used to IGL with my old team which we played for near a month. I'm m&k, I do aim training, sometimes do vod reviews, watch educational videos and I used to and will watch more of ALGS. I can play any character and learn them. I mainly played Bloodhound, Horizon, Pathfinder, Wraith, Bangalore, Seer. I live in Turkey (gmt +3) And also I'm Diamond 3 in this season. If you want to contact me you can comment here or message me on my discord.
Biscuit#9876
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2023.05.30 22:02 BarelyHumanAnymore First Sleep Paralysis Experience
Hi all,
I just want to begin by saying for those that experience this all the time/frequently I am so sorry. I will admit for a long time I was a person that just said "oh it's just a bad dream, you're fine" and for that I am regretful for my ignorant thinking for all those years. I had a short but horrifying experience for the first time in my life and it feels like it's still kinda affecting me, even days later. I'm not one that has bad dreams, or dreams in general very frequently but this is one that will probably stay with me for the rest of my life.
Me and my hubby were on vacation at his childhood home for Memorial Day weekend. We had family and friends over, a cookout, yard games, and just an overall great weekend. Once everyone left and we got the house/yard (somewhat) picked up me, hubby, and in-laws went inside to wind down and get ready for bed. I hopped in the shower last so I could take the longest as I needed to wash my hair and hubby and in-laws watched some TV and scrolled on their phones. When I was waiting to hop in my FIL had on something about the Coca Cola 600 that got delayed that day and I was really just scrolling on tik tok and snapchat to see what all my friends did over the weekend while I was away. I showered and when I was done, I joined them in the living room and watched TV with them for about 15-20 mins till my eyes were getting heavy and I knew I needed to go to sleep as we were leaving at around 4 am to head back home (10ish hr drive). I will say when I got back they were watching some of the "spooky" shows of "real ghosts/spirits" caught on camera but that's something hubby enjoys so it's nothing out of the ordinary for us to watch right before bed and the stories we watched weren't anywhere near as scary as what we have seen before.
It was around 10-10:30 when we went and laid down and probably closer to 11-11:15 when we finally fell asleep. Both me and hubby are light sleepers and we toss and turn quite a lot, along with being in a queen bed when we're used to a king we don't get optimal sleep when visiting his parents but it has never been an issue before. We woke up around 2 am, him adjusting the fan to point more towards him and I had to go pee. When I checked my phone right before I fell asleep again to make sure the alarm was set it was 2:07 and I fell back asleep pretty fast. This is where the paralysis kicked in. I had a dream that we were back outside during the cookout and I started to feel a bit woozy and light headed, I walked inside with my MIL and she told me to sit down while she grabs me a water bottle from the garage. I did as she said but when she came back I was on the floor being picked up by what I thought was my husband. I tried to look behind my shoulder to him but I couldn't, and I go super nervous and could only look forward to my MIL standing in front of the couch looking down at me saying "it's okay, you just had a bit too much to drink, you'll feel better soon. (Note: I did not have too much to drink that day/night. I had maybe 3 highnoons all day and never once even got tipsy, I'm not a heavy drinker by any means but I do drink occasionally and can hold my liquor fine and I know that has nothing to do with it.) I kept trying to look back but couldn't but the arms were getting tighter and tighter around me. While at first I thought it was my husband picking me up I quickly realized it was not him at all. Whatever had me didn't even feel human. I was being dragged into the bed room and when I would take a deep breath to scream NOTHING would come out, I tried multiple times and the last time I did my eyes shot open and I realized it was just a dream. I laid there for a minute just staring at the wall to calm down and my mouth was wide open and super dry so I tried to grab my water bottle off of the nightstand to take a sip but I couldn't make myself move. I kinda fought with myself for a bit to force myself to grab the bottle but stopped when I felt the arms slide around me again. I tried to move, even just clench my fist together, I could maybe flinch my fingers in the slightest movement, just enough to know my limbs were still attached but they were completely useless. I heard my husbands voice for a split second, I couldn't make out what was actually said but it sounded like him and then it just didn't. I was like a crescendo of whispers, on top of more whispers, all saying something clear as day but getting muffled out but the others. I couldn't make out anything but I felt surrounded by the noise and it just got louder and louder. I could feel myself getting scared again and wanting to scream but the same thing. I would take a deep breath, go scream but nothing would come out. I realized then that I was having sleep paralysis and just thought "it's okay, you're okay, this isn't real, it's just a dream, it'll be over soon." I kept repeating that to myself in my head over and over again for what seemed like forever while the arms around me seemed to pull me in closer and tighter and then the whispers suddenly stopped all together. Silence. Like an eerily, sudden silence that almost hurt it happened so close to the loud whispers. I hear a distorted version of "my husband's" voice say "oh, is it? are you? are you sure?"
Then I finally came to for real this time. My eyes were wide open and all I could make myself do was move them around for the first few seconds, looking around the room making sure it was real this time. My breathing was super short and fast, heart rate felt like I had just sprinted a full mile. Under my pillow I moved my fingers to touch my thumb, again making sure I was really awake this time. Like in my dream, my mouth was wide open and dry as the Saraha Desert, I drank that entire bottle in about 3 seconds and just laid there till my alarm went off. I was a bit in shock just because it felt so real, I had to lay there and make sure what really happened vs. what I dreamed. My alarm started beeping shortly after and once my hubby was awake and moving I asked if I made any weird noises or anything like that while I was sleeping and he didn't remember anything but said he didn't sleep good so he didn't pay much attention to me.
I was still creeped out pretty much the entire trip back. I didn't want to dwell on it and freak myself out even more but it was also just something that kept popping into my mind. I kept apologizing to my husband for talking about it so much, especially since it was just the same thoughts on it over and over again. He assured me it was okay, and I can talk about it as much or as little as I need. Once we got home I took a quick cat nap and thankfully didn't have any dreams or anything but I started house/dog sitting last night and I will say it took a bit of courage to finally let myself fall asleep, especially away from my husband, and in a house and bed that's familiar, but isn't mine. I don't want to develop anxiety towards sleeping but I feel a bit uneasy about it. It was the first time I ever had an experience like that and nothing out of the ordinary happened to cause it. It was one of the most terrifying moments of my life, and I hope the only time it ever happens.
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I just want to begin by saying for those that experience this all the time/frequently I am so sorry. I will admit for a long time I was a person that just said "oh it's just a bad dream, you're fine" and for that I am regretful for my ignorant thinking for all those years. I had a short but horrifying experience for the first time in my life and it feels like it's still kinda affecting me, even days later. I'm not one that has bad dreams, or dreams in general very frequently but this is one that will probably stay with me for the rest of my life.
Me and my hubby were on vacation at his childhood home for Memorial Day weekend. We had family and friends over, a cookout, yard games, and just an overall great weekend. Once everyone left and we got the house/yard (somewhat) picked up me, hubby, and in-laws went inside to wind down and get ready for bed. I hopped in the shower last so I could take the longest as I needed to wash my hair and hubby and in-laws watched some TV and scrolled on their phones. When I was waiting to hop in my FIL had on something about the Coca Cola 600 that got delayed that day and I was really just scrolling on tik tok and snapchat to see what all my friends did over the weekend while I was away. I showered and when I was done, I joined them in the living room and watched TV with them for about 15-20 mins till my eyes were getting heavy and I knew I needed to go to sleep as we were leaving at around 4 am to head back home (10ish hr drive). I will say when I got back they were watching some of the "spooky" shows of "real ghosts/spirits" caught on camera but that's something hubby enjoys so it's nothing out of the ordinary for us to watch right before bed and the stories we watched weren't anywhere near as scary as what we have seen before.
It was around 10-10:30 when we went and laid down and probably closer to 11-11:15 when we finally fell asleep. Both me and hubby are light sleepers and we toss and turn quite a lot, along with being in a queen bed when we're used to a king we don't get optimal sleep when visiting his parents but it has never been an issue before. We woke up around 2 am, him adjusting the fan to point more towards him and I had to go pee. When I checked my phone right before I fell asleep again to make sure the alarm was set it was 2:07 and I fell back asleep pretty fast. This is where the paralysis kicked in. I had a dream that we were back outside during the cookout and I started to feel a bit woozy and light headed, I walked inside with my MIL and she told me to sit down while she grabs me a water bottle from the garage. I did as she said but when she came back I was on the floor being picked up by what I thought was my husband. I tried to look behind my shoulder to him but I couldn't, and I go super nervous and could only look forward to my MIL standing in front of the couch looking down at me saying "it's okay, you just had a bit too much to drink, you'll feel better soon. (Note: I did not have too much to drink that day/night. I had maybe 3 highnoons all day and never once even got tipsy, I'm not a heavy drinker by any means but I do drink occasionally and can hold my liquor fine and I know that has nothing to do with it.) I kept trying to look back but couldn't but the arms were getting tighter and tighter around me. While at first I thought it was my husband picking me up I quickly realized it was not him at all. Whatever had me didn't even feel human. I was being dragged into the bed room and when I would take a deep breath to scream NOTHING would come out, I tried multiple times and the last time I did my eyes shot open and I realized it was just a dream. I laid there for a minute just staring at the wall to calm down and my mouth was wide open and super dry so I tried to grab my water bottle off of the nightstand to take a sip but I couldn't make myself move. I kinda fought with myself for a bit to force myself to grab the bottle but stopped when I felt the arms slide around me again. I tried to move, even just clench my fist together, I could maybe flinch my fingers in the slightest movement, just enough to know my limbs were still attached but they were completely useless. I heard my husbands voice for a split second, I couldn't make out what was actually said but it sounded like him and then it just didn't. I was like a crescendo of whispers, on top of more whispers, all saying something clear as day but getting muffled out but the others. I couldn't make out anything but I felt surrounded by the noise and it just got louder and louder. I could feel myself getting scared again and wanting to scream but the same thing. I would take a deep breath, go scream but nothing would come out. I realized then that I was having sleep paralysis and just thought "it's okay, you're okay, this isn't real, it's just a dream, it'll be over soon." I kept repeating that to myself in my head over and over again for what seemed like forever while the arms around me seemed to pull me in closer and tighter and then the whispers suddenly stopped all together. Silence. Like an eerily, sudden silence that almost hurt it happened so close to the loud whispers. I hear a distorted version of "my husband's" voice say "oh, is it? are you? are you sure?"
Then I finally came to for real this time. My eyes were wide open and all I could make myself do was move them around for the first few seconds, looking around the room making sure it was real this time. My breathing was super short and fast, heart rate felt like I had just sprinted a full mile. Under my pillow I moved my fingers to touch my thumb, again making sure I was really awake this time. Like in my dream, my mouth was wide open and dry as the Saraha Desert, I drank that entire bottle in about 3 seconds and just laid there till my alarm went off. I was a bit in shock just because it felt so real, I had to lay there and make sure what really happened vs. what I dreamed. My alarm started beeping shortly after and once my hubby was awake and moving I asked if I made any weird noises or anything like that while I was sleeping and he didn't remember anything but said he didn't sleep good so he didn't pay much attention to me.
I was still creeped out pretty much the entire trip back. I didn't want to dwell on it and freak myself out even more but it was also just something that kept popping into my mind. I kept apologizing to my husband for talking about it so much, especially since it was just the same thoughts on it over and over again. He assured me it was okay, and I can talk about it as much or as little as I need. Once we got home I took a quick cat nap and thankfully didn't have any dreams or anything but I started house/dog sitting last night and I will say it took a bit of courage to finally let myself fall asleep, especially away from my husband, and in a house and bed that's familiar, but isn't mine. I don't want to develop anxiety towards sleeping but I feel a bit uneasy about it. It was the first time I ever had an experience like that and nothing out of the ordinary happened to cause it. It was one of the most terrifying moments of my life, and I hope the only time it ever happens.
2023.05.30 22:02 OrderflowTrader ES Trading Plan for 5/31/23
 | I share my plan for educational purposes and not as trade recommendations or ideas. submitted by OrderflowTrader to FuturesFocus [link] [comments] Recap: The market opened the day on a gap up, likely fueled by optimism from the debt limit deal reached over the weekend. This gap closed early on and the market began to find some support at the gap. I opted to try a long after the gap closed, but cut the trade as it broke down. The market was flat-to-down for the next several hours until selling off to an important support zone: “I am considering the 4197-99 area as a must-hold for near-term bulls.” Once the market began moving away from this area, I entered a long trade, exiting at resistance at 4221 from the plan and leaving a runner that was closed out in profit. Balance/Trend: The market remains inside of the pink range from the charts, which is really just reflective of random rallies and sell offs that make higher highs and lower lows, but doesn’t really take the market anywhere. The trends I am tracking in aqua blue and “regular blue” are still valid, with the aqua trendline just below at 4174. Note that I’ve added a secondary inner trendline to the aqua trend to better reflect the reality of the price moves there. Analysis: I said in the weekly prep video that the technicals are my guiding light and everything else (like the debt limit back-and-forth) is noise to me when it comes to making trading decisions. This weekend exuberance effectively died a slow death today as the market continues to face limited upside and staunch resistance from about 4221-4243. Overnight and into the cash session, the market retested this upper limit (confluent more or less with the 2023 highs) before again selling off. As I highlighted back in April in a weekly prep video, trading inside of these expanding ranges takes up a lot of buying and selling energy, so much so that the breakouts often fizzle out. This continues to be the case for the attempted upside breakouts from the pink range that have now failed on several occasions. Even if the market were to breakout from the pink range, we still find ourselves stuck inside of the black expanding range and below 12-month resistance. Plan
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2023.05.30 22:02 viviwrldfroggie question about interview
hi, i apologize in advance if this sounds like a stupid question, but i had an interview nearing 2 weeks now and the hiring manager told me that he’d get back to me in a week (this was on a friday). conveniently, he walked into my place of work that following monday and then proceeded to tell me that he’d have an answer for me soon. ive been lurking on this sub for a while and before finding out that a week in panera terms meant during the weekday, i thought my week of getting a response back was over with but today, is when the week is supposed to end from what the manager told me. ive been constantly checking my email but no response at all. so to everyone here, is it plausible to think i didn’t get the job and to move on from it?
also, i did call the store last friday to hear any update with the application status but he wasn’t there and someone else took the call and told me that they’d leave the message for him to get to and that was last friday at 3. i also understand that they’re a high volume store so i’ve been waiting for any chance to get back to me but now im having concerns.
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also, i did call the store last friday to hear any update with the application status but he wasn’t there and someone else took the call and told me that they’d leave the message for him to get to and that was last friday at 3. i also understand that they’re a high volume store so i’ve been waiting for any chance to get back to me but now im having concerns.
2023.05.30 22:01 joejoker94 Little mermaid is not good
The actress playing Ariel should go full time into music. Don’t know her and this was the first thing I’ve seen it heard from her. Her voice is absolutely magical & the sound in Dolby was insane. The musical numbers were pretty much the only highlight of this film. The new songs, specifically the one sang by Eric, was very awkward tho. Started small than he tried to become a soprano singer. Weird
The actual acting was not good, honestly I have not liked one live action adaption from Disney. I would love to know why they continue to push these. I couldnt care less that the lead was a different race than the original fictional cartoon so this isn’t me being subtly racist. This didn’t even feel like a movie to be honest. Very weird pacing
The CGI was damn near the worst live action/CGI I have ever seen. I can’t believe Disney let that go out.
Why was this version longer than the original 1989 ? This movie would have played much better at 90 mins. At the two hour mark I was just over it.
I really hope Disney stops making these live action adaptations & focuses their attention on new characters.
More of 2009s Princess & the Frog Less of the live action creepy remakes
Animation is good. Don’t know why it’s being so forgotten
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The actual acting was not good, honestly I have not liked one live action adaption from Disney. I would love to know why they continue to push these. I couldnt care less that the lead was a different race than the original fictional cartoon so this isn’t me being subtly racist. This didn’t even feel like a movie to be honest. Very weird pacing
The CGI was damn near the worst live action/CGI I have ever seen. I can’t believe Disney let that go out.
Why was this version longer than the original 1989 ? This movie would have played much better at 90 mins. At the two hour mark I was just over it.
I really hope Disney stops making these live action adaptations & focuses their attention on new characters.
More of 2009s Princess & the Frog Less of the live action creepy remakes
Animation is good. Don’t know why it’s being so forgotten
2023.05.30 22:01 OneYearSteakDay I want to give a small shout out to the sound designers at Bungie; from the music to the effects to the ambiance, it's just all so damn good.
There's a joke on the audiophile subreddits:
Someone at Bungie put sound effects in the coral. In fact there's ambiance damn near everywhere in this game. If you're just blasting through the levels you may never notice, it blends into the background, but if you stop and listen for a moment you'll find that there's a hell of a lot to hear.
I dunno, I'm just smitten, I guess. There are a lot of games out there that have lackluster positional audio, or lousy music, or a complete lack of ambiance, or the effects don't blend, or someone said "Let's just put crunch.wav in there and set it to repeat," and Bungie doesn't do that, their sound design isn't an after thought, in fact it's a really useful asset to players. D2 has immersive sound design, but much more than that, it has functional sound design.
The game is a joy to listen to, is what I'm saying.
Whoever's in charge of sound design over there, Bungie, give them a raise.
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You buy headphones to listen to your music,In a lot of ways, D2 is an audiophile's delight. The game has strong directionality to tell you where threats are coming from, the guns have distinctive sound profiles to inform you about your enemy and your team (The first time you say to yourself "Hey, I know that firing pattern, someone's using a Graviton Lance!" you'll understand exactly what I'm talking about), the music is absolutely banging, but what really impresses me is the ambiance.
I buy music to listen to my headphones.
We are not the same.
Someone at Bungie put sound effects in the coral. In fact there's ambiance damn near everywhere in this game. If you're just blasting through the levels you may never notice, it blends into the background, but if you stop and listen for a moment you'll find that there's a hell of a lot to hear.
I dunno, I'm just smitten, I guess. There are a lot of games out there that have lackluster positional audio, or lousy music, or a complete lack of ambiance, or the effects don't blend, or someone said "Let's just put crunch.wav in there and set it to repeat," and Bungie doesn't do that, their sound design isn't an after thought, in fact it's a really useful asset to players. D2 has immersive sound design, but much more than that, it has functional sound design.
The game is a joy to listen to, is what I'm saying.
Whoever's in charge of sound design over there, Bungie, give them a raise.
2023.05.30 22:01 Gatadat The Great Pyramid of Antarctica And The Connection To The UAP Phenomenon
 | These two posts are from my Twitter and I decided to share them here despite the attacks in my previous long posts... If you are interested for my takes you can find me at Twitter @ OMApproach or YouTube 'Open Minded Approach' submitted by Gatadat to HighStrangeness [link] [comments] The great pyramid of Antarctica can be found at these coordinates: 79°58'39.2"S, 81°57'32.2"W. Of course, it's not officially recognized, as that would change our entire history. Just like the giant face in Antarctica that I showed in my previous post, every single clue will be ridiculed in the mainstream and ascribed to a mere natural coincidence. https://preview.redd.it/d9671nliy03b1.jpg?width=1123&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0e46e0a171e9086840ca2c72ef807fb38c6c869d But how many coincidences do we need to witness in order to perceive the truth? The stone carving found in Egypt, depicting modern technology, was also dismissed as a coincidence, as the plaster ‘eroded’ in such a way as to form images of a helicopter, boat, submarine, and plane—yet another coincidence. The pyramids and the face on Mars, another coincidence, later, they were even 'debunked' by NASA with the release of a heavily edited photo which was confirmed by the experts that is edited with at least 17 layers. The assistance of the 'gods' mentioned in our ancient texts, along with the occurrence of pyramids being built in seemingly unrelated parts of the world, is just another coincidence. Somehow all our ancestors decided to do the same thing and invent the same stories. The stories of the great floods in all ancient texts are also a coincidence, places like Atlantis, Agartha, Shambala, El Dorado, Hyperborea are all myths and legends coincidentally made up by different cultures. The scientists who go against the mainstream narrative and point out clues about the true function of the Great Pyramids are instantly sidelined. The mainstream is promoting the narrative that the pyramids were burial chambers for the pharaohs, despite the absence of mummies or remains of pharaohs ever being discovered inside the pyramids. In 2018 scientists published a paper about ‘Electromagnetic properties of the Great Pyramid: First multipole resonances and energy concentration’ in the peer-reviewed scientific journal ‘Journal of Applied Physics’. Researchers have proposed that the Great Pyramid possess electromagnetic resonance properties. This idea suggests that the pyramid's shape and composition interact with electromagnetic waves, potentially focusing or amplifying them. The geometry and structure of the Great Pyramid influence how it interacts with electromagnetic waves. The pyramid's shape could cause scattering or diffraction of these waves, altering their behavior. The builders of the Great Pyramids utilized electromagnetic energy, they are from the previous civilization who also had electromagnetic propulsion systems, evident in the ancient Vedic texts and references to flying Vimanas. But that is another coincidence, right? It is also coincidental that the disappearing satellites captured on a photo in 1950, when there were no human-made satellites in space, resemble the shape of Vimanas and some of the UFOs observed today, such as the Calvine UFO and the flying spheres (this is my speculation and not of the scientists working on the project). In my opinion, Southeast Asia has predominantly preserved the records from the preceding civilization that was destroyed in a naturally occurring doomsday event. But, just as the elite and world governments are making preparations today, they also made preparations in the past, suggesting that the UFOs/UAPs flying today, in my opinion, originated from the surviving elite. As Graham Hancock has stated, we are a species with a lost memory, and now we are rediscovering our true history. But there is pushback. I have elaborated on this in my previous posts spanning over the last two months. You should read them to hear my perspective. I have so much to share that I sometimes forget things, despite my efforts to set reminders. Make sure to follow me if you are interested in this topic because as Luis Elizondo said (I’m paraphrasing) 'History will need to change,' and as Bob Bigelow said, 'They are walking among us'. This is my speculation only and I’m not claiming that this is the truth, the clues lead me to a breakaway civilization but they can also be aliens too… The interdimensional aspect is also present in my opinion and I will elaborate more on this in the future. Further explanation* To clarify my previous post about the pyramid in Antarctica (my opinion) and to address all those who say it's a mountain and point out the mainstream narrative as debunked, they are simply denying its existence because pyramids are not expected to be found in Antarctica. So, they won't even look at the site, but here's a pyramid that was overlooked because it was covered by dirt, rocks, and trees, and it looked like a mountain. People even built a church on top of the mountain. However, excavations in 1930 proved it to be the largest (recognized) pyramid in the world. With a base of 450 by 450 meters (1,480 by 1,480 feet), it is four times the size of the Great Pyramid of Giza. However, just because there are pyramids in Mexico, they initiated the research and recognized the mountain as a pyramid. https://preview.redd.it/8fqafn4ky03b1.jpg?width=976&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a557f3597456a4e9939f773b137f28318b9281b4 As I have demonstrated, the large face in Antarctica resembles the sculptures made by the Olmecs, who also inhabited the Mexican territory. This suggests the possibility of a connected civilization residing in Antarctica many years ago, potentially predating several natural cataclysmic disasters. So, if this was covered in mud, dirt, and rocks over time and looked like a mountain, why wouldn't those in Antarctica be covered in mud, ice, and rocks? Considering their potential age and the harsh region, it is likely that they would appear as mountains—a perfect 2km by 2km monumental pyramid, resembling a mountain. Another unrecognized site of interest is the pyramids in Visoko, Bosnia (second photo). Underground tunnels and structures have even been discovered there, but suddenly the government decided to halt the research. Why? Because pyramids are not expected to exist in that part of Europe. They withdrew all funding, and currently, the sole researcher conducting investigations is Dr. Semir Osmanagich. https://preview.redd.it/7mrh3m6ly03b1.jpg?width=720&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d609d9f31c5c1b5e06adc1693b0b6a9f63af75e8 The large stones and tunnels are attributed to different cultures, but Semir disagrees with these attributions. Of course, this kind of research is very expensive, so the progress will be slow. Also, there are many other findings that were buried in the ground and remained completely unrecognizable before their excavation. But as I stated in my previous post about the pyramids, scientists have already submitted papers about the electromagnetic resonance properties of the pyramids. This idea suggests that the pyramid's shape and composition interact with electromagnetic waves, potentially focusing or amplifying them. The geometry and structure of the Great Pyramid influence how it interacts with electromagnetic waves. The antediluvian civilizations possessed flying machines with electromagnetic propulsion systems, which are the same machines we today refer to as UFOs. I have elaborated so much on this in the past two months, but everything is written in the ancient texts, the technology, the ‘gods’ who brought us the seeds, the agriculture and medicine, the floods and the doomsday. They even prepare us for the next one. But who are the gods? Well, if you look what is happening today, you’ll understand. You just need to read about the world governments sponsored Global Seed Vault with over 1 000 000 crucial for survivor seeds in a case of a catastrophic event, located on an island near the North pole on the eastern side of the mountain (the eastern side is important for those who know why). And then read this article from the Guardian ‘The super-rich ‘preppers’ planning to save themselves from the apocalypse’. In my opinion, everything has been interconnected since the beginning: the breakaway civilization, the fortunate few survivors from whom I assume we descended, the 'old gods,' the new religions, the natural cycle of the Earth and everything in the Universe and the secret societies. That's why uncovering the truth about UFOs is so challenging. That's why the favorite saying in almost every culture is 'Some truths are better left unspoken' and 'Ignorance is bliss.' That’s why they say revealing the truth about the UFOs would shatter society because it would disrupt the desire for an ordinary life, leading to chaos. It would even mess their plan for survivor. In all ancient cultures, there are stories like Shambala and Agartha, which describe a place on Earth where human knowledge is preserved from distraction and corruption, but only those with pure souls can enter and live a long and healthy life without worries. I’m doubting that they have ‘pure’ souls… Also, read my older posts to better understand my point of view, and remember that this is solely my perspective. It doesn't necessarily mean it represents the truth. Additionally, feel free to follow me for more posts if you are interested in gaining further insight into my perspective, I have so much to say. |
2023.05.30 22:01 timtomtomasticles Anyone interested in taking my antique piano off my hands?
 | Breaks my heart to do this, but I'm looking to get rid of my beloved antique Mathushek piano. You can have it for the price of moving it to your place/storage. It is very heavy and would require a team of at least 4-5 to move it. Cat for scale in the pictures. submitted by timtomtomasticles to northcounty [link] [comments] It's been tough to find much info on it, but based on my research we have a Mathushek upright piano built sometime between 1890-1920. These are rare pianos, and some fully restored Mathusheks are worth tens of thousands online. Could also be worth nothing, I have no idea! Its currently out of tune, and 2-3 keys don't work because of broken internal components specific to that key's hammer assembly. I love this piano but it needs more $$$ and attention to restore than I have to devote to it. I have already sunk more $$$ solely into moving it three times than I did on my original purchase, my loss is your gain! Reply/dm me if you're interested. I would like to get it out this week if possible. Located in Oceanside near Mira Costa campus. Thanks in advance! |
2023.05.30 22:01 robmichaelfield UK - Advice for disabled father
Hi all, first time here so apologies if this post breaks any rules.
I'm nearly 30 now and have been living on my own for nearly 10 years and in that time my dad has been blighted by a disability causing him to lose the use of his legs. As tragic as it is, it was always manageable because he had the support of our mother.
It's been nearly half a year since she had a breakdown and was permanently hospitalized due to dementia. Her absence has been huge, and most noticeable in the care my father receives. For some context, my father has always been a very unclean man and that's been a contact all of my life. He's great, but he has never understood hygiene, even when he was well. My mum was always single factor keeping the house in liveable conditions.
Since she's been gone, I've been the only one in a position to really step up and help out financially. I've temporarily moved home to try and help him gain some independence but I'm just losing hope. It's important to remember here that he is, by nature, a very piggish man, even before the disability. So I try to approach the problem to tackle the accessibility issues: I'm trying to make cleaning as easy as possible for him and remove any barriers. I paid for a private occupational therapist who was great and fast-tracked some nursing which he now receives every morning - they come and make breakfast and give him a wash (he typically refuses the wash, but I'm sure as his confidence grows he'll do it more often). I've seen some real progress in the accessibility of the house and his outlook. I do not, however, see any progress in the cleanliness of the house. And please don't read this as me putting a disabled man down - this isn't just leaving things on the floor because he obviously can't reach it - it's the kind of mess which is a genuine health concern. I hired cleaners last month and they charged me double because they claimed the house was in such a dire state. I am not exaggerating, the house was almost back to an absolute state almost a whole week after the deep clean.
It's unsustainable. I'm trying my hardest but I just can't keep up. I cannot be his full-time nurse, and even if I was, he creates too much mess for me to keep up with anyway. He'll make a slice of toast and leave the opened bag of bread on the floor next to the bin and the butter will stay open without a lid for a week, with flies and mould around it as he continues to use it. This isn't just his disability but his mindset. I've typed too much and feel like I'm ranting now, and some of this was therapeutic for me, so thank you for taking the time to read because I'm really struggling stay calm and patient with him.
I think the ultimate point of this post is to ask for any advice - has anybody been in similar situations? What can I do not just to make it easier for him, but for him to want to do it? Full-time care is off the table as the nurses believe he's capable of looking after himself, which I believe is also true. I think having a large, accessible bin for the kitchen would work well too, maybe something electric. Just any advice would be great, thanks.
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I'm nearly 30 now and have been living on my own for nearly 10 years and in that time my dad has been blighted by a disability causing him to lose the use of his legs. As tragic as it is, it was always manageable because he had the support of our mother.
It's been nearly half a year since she had a breakdown and was permanently hospitalized due to dementia. Her absence has been huge, and most noticeable in the care my father receives. For some context, my father has always been a very unclean man and that's been a contact all of my life. He's great, but he has never understood hygiene, even when he was well. My mum was always single factor keeping the house in liveable conditions.
Since she's been gone, I've been the only one in a position to really step up and help out financially. I've temporarily moved home to try and help him gain some independence but I'm just losing hope. It's important to remember here that he is, by nature, a very piggish man, even before the disability. So I try to approach the problem to tackle the accessibility issues: I'm trying to make cleaning as easy as possible for him and remove any barriers. I paid for a private occupational therapist who was great and fast-tracked some nursing which he now receives every morning - they come and make breakfast and give him a wash (he typically refuses the wash, but I'm sure as his confidence grows he'll do it more often). I've seen some real progress in the accessibility of the house and his outlook. I do not, however, see any progress in the cleanliness of the house. And please don't read this as me putting a disabled man down - this isn't just leaving things on the floor because he obviously can't reach it - it's the kind of mess which is a genuine health concern. I hired cleaners last month and they charged me double because they claimed the house was in such a dire state. I am not exaggerating, the house was almost back to an absolute state almost a whole week after the deep clean.
It's unsustainable. I'm trying my hardest but I just can't keep up. I cannot be his full-time nurse, and even if I was, he creates too much mess for me to keep up with anyway. He'll make a slice of toast and leave the opened bag of bread on the floor next to the bin and the butter will stay open without a lid for a week, with flies and mould around it as he continues to use it. This isn't just his disability but his mindset. I've typed too much and feel like I'm ranting now, and some of this was therapeutic for me, so thank you for taking the time to read because I'm really struggling stay calm and patient with him.
I think the ultimate point of this post is to ask for any advice - has anybody been in similar situations? What can I do not just to make it easier for him, but for him to want to do it? Full-time care is off the table as the nurses believe he's capable of looking after himself, which I believe is also true. I think having a large, accessible bin for the kitchen would work well too, maybe something electric. Just any advice would be great, thanks.
2023.05.30 22:01 throwabaybayaway A friend’s (31F) mom died and I (32F) am invited to the funeral. I’m concerned a man (32M) I feel unsafe around will be there. What do I do?
Last year I made a post on Reddit seeking advice on how to handle a really nasty situation involving a man who sexually harassed me and my roommate.
Unfortunately, while in no way responsible for his actions the female friend who had introduced us appears to still be friends with him in some capacity. I do not want to discuss why she chose this and I do not need advice on cutting her out or not. Since her mother just died in a pretty brutal way and I still care about my friend, I don’t want to cause her more anguish by telling her I won’t be friends with her anymore. It’s complicated.
Having said that, my friend invited me to her mom’s celebration of licd a few weeks ago before I became aware that this man is still in her social circle. Needless to say, I am deeply uncomfortable with being anywhere near him, regardless of how apologetic he may be or how others might insist he’s a better person now. I genuinely don’t care if he is or isn’t, and I am not interested in any excuses.
I still want to attend her mother’s celebration of life, and missing it feels like a cruel action. Given the nature of this event, I don’t think that we can appear at different times IF he is even invited, but I am not sure. How do I handle this while balancing my own sense of safety? What do I do if I message her and ask if he’s gonna be there and she says yes? I think I can bring someone with me so I won’t be there alone, but just the thought of being around that guy makes me feel ill.
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Unfortunately, while in no way responsible for his actions the female friend who had introduced us appears to still be friends with him in some capacity. I do not want to discuss why she chose this and I do not need advice on cutting her out or not. Since her mother just died in a pretty brutal way and I still care about my friend, I don’t want to cause her more anguish by telling her I won’t be friends with her anymore. It’s complicated.
Having said that, my friend invited me to her mom’s celebration of licd a few weeks ago before I became aware that this man is still in her social circle. Needless to say, I am deeply uncomfortable with being anywhere near him, regardless of how apologetic he may be or how others might insist he’s a better person now. I genuinely don’t care if he is or isn’t, and I am not interested in any excuses.
I still want to attend her mother’s celebration of life, and missing it feels like a cruel action. Given the nature of this event, I don’t think that we can appear at different times IF he is even invited, but I am not sure. How do I handle this while balancing my own sense of safety? What do I do if I message her and ask if he’s gonna be there and she says yes? I think I can bring someone with me so I won’t be there alone, but just the thought of being around that guy makes me feel ill.
2023.05.30 21:59 Adorable_Round4056 PLEASE help me with Radomus battle (Top two are bred near perfect ivs/nature)
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2023.05.30 21:58 EamonJp How do you afford a car? (UK)
I’m (30M) looking for some advice really after a few sleepless nights. For context I’m on a very average maybe slightly below UK average salary, I can walk to work within an hour or so if I have to and have done so before. My car is really on its last legs, it’s 19 years old and has served me well for that last 5 years or so. But the repair bills have rocketed to well above the value of the car, making it near impossible to save any money along with the price of everything else, it’s doubtful to make it through MOT (soon) and it just doesn’t start first time every-time. (Added context I do basic stuff like oil changes, filter replacement and brake pad changes myself, it’s in the garage for tasks well out my skill set) I could probably live without a car if it wasn’t for my son (1), me and mom are separated and she moved half way across the UK. He stays with me on weekends and we meet halfway for drop offs but that’s a 200 mile round trip. I’ve looked at public transport to meet, it’s not my travel time I’m worried about, it’s my young lad being stuck on trains and buses for hours on end. Even at the offer of payment she wouldn’t run him both ways each weekend, not only is the mileage huge but she’s self employed and is often so busy I pick my lad up from her parents. I don’t have a great credit score to get a finance deal due to silly mistakes in my teens and early twenties that I’ve spent the last 4-5 years correcting. I surely can’t be the only one in this kind of situation with the current climate right now ? Any advice from those who have gone through similar would be greatly appreciated, I’ve never posted on Reddit before, I’ve seen some great responses to other users and I guess I can’t keep talking to myself forever, I scared myself earlier when I was sat here reasoning with those who turn to crime, I just couldn’t risk loosing my boy.
Thanks in advance
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Thanks in advance
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