I truly need an advice. Im (f22) and he’s (m29). We met up through a friend in a bar - there were 4 of us, me and my friend and he’s with a friend too. After a few weeks on a weekend I went out again and accidentally ran into them, I was alone that time. So we began drinking dancing nothing serious, after quite a few beers shots and cocktails I was really drunk, we all were. The thing is that these two man were very flirty so we all kind of flirted but very lightly… Soooo… at some point throughout the night I went to a bathroom to piss and didn’t see that he went in with me, keep in mind that I liked this dude but I respect that he has a family so I know that it’s just a crush that will have to go away after some time. Like I said, he went to the bathroom with me and well we were both smashed drunk and attracted to each other, no one could possibly see, so we hooked up. We did not plan this, well he kind of did because he sneaked it and then it happened. I felt horrible when I got sober the next day, cried a lot and felt like a really bad person. Don’t worry he didn’t SA me, we were both drunk. I thought this would never happen again however he keeps calling me when his family is not around and is trying to convince me to hook up again and spend some time together. I strictly say no everytime as it is too risky and I would feel awful for ruining his family. I really don’t know what to do and I am really attracted to him but my morality does not allow anything to ever happen again due to the reason he has a family and I know it would not be a smart thing.
I really don’t know what to do, could you share your opinions?

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TW: This discussion includes heavy topics such as sexual violence and transphobia. I also use some anatomical terms that might be uncomfortable for some trans folks.
I've seen some posts around here from trans guys looking for advice after meeting a cis dude who is interested in dating and/or having sex with them but also...

• Blatanly disrespects their gender identity, often "forgetting" to use their correct pronouncs.
• Claims to be bisexual but has only dated/had sex with people who were assigned female at birth.
• Is straight but claims to be questioning/exploring his sexuality.
• Requests his potential trans partner(s) to present as a girl for certain contexts (public outings, sex).

As a non binary transmasc who dated a guy like that and ended up being raped by him in what has a deeply traumatic relationship and experience, I think we should bring more attention to this issue. Before encountering one, I thought chasers were a problem only transfem folks had. I wasn't prepared to recognize one and I ended up finding out about the danger I was in way too late.
I don't want this to happen to any other trans person. So I decided to open this threat to share some red flags I've noticed.

(Disclaimer: I personally don't like the term "AFAB," especially when talking about non binary people. We are all non binary regardless of what gender we were assigned at birth and the need to make a distinction often comes from an attempt to misgender us or to dismiss the violence we face. But, for the purposes of this post, I will need to use that term).

What is a chaser?

A chaser, in this context, is a cis person whose attration to trans people is wholly dependent on traits associated with transness. I will focus exclusively on chasers who target trans men and AFAB non binary people. They are usually men, but some of them are women. Sexuality is a big tell: most chasers who are men are also straight, and most chasers who are women are also lesbians. But this isn't an universal truth. Chasers can be of any sexuality (bi, pan, ace, etc.).
The reasons chasers are into trans men and AFAB non binary people vary. They fetishize...

• Butch women and tomboys. And they perceive us as part of those groups.
• Femboys, but they are turned off by what they perceive to be "male" genitals. Thus, they seek us.
• The effects testosterone has on our bodies. Especially, bottom growth and increased sex drive.
• The effects surgery has on our bodies. Especially top surgery (some might say they love "flat girls").
• The idea of a man with a "bonus hole" or who is able to get pregnant.
• The idea of "fixing" us. Basically, making us into their girlfriends.

All of those reasons involve either perceiving us as women or being attracted only to parts of our bodies that they think come along with our transness.
Now, it is important to clarify that being attracted to trans men and AFAB non binary people and loving their aesthetics and bodies doesn't make one a chaser. Don't feel like a partner complimenting your bottom growth or the way you dress (whether that is super masc or super fem) that automatically means they are a chaser. The important here is intent: Do they see you as a person or only as a set of traits? Do they care about your comfort?

Who do they target?

Chasers don't try to approach every trans person they see. They usually target people they see as especially vulnerable. Their victims can be:

• Young trans people. Those who are in their late teens and early twenties.
• Non binary folks. Our gender identities are especially discriminated against. Some chasers see us as particularly "fake" or "in need of attention."
• People early in their transition. This is often a very vulnerable time. Also, chasers are transphobic assholes, so they perceive these folks are less valid and more acceptable targets of their attraction.
• Those who have a feminine gender presentation. They perceive this as us not really being trans and therefore makes it easier for them to accept they are attracted to someone who isn't a woman.

Add every trans person who is going through difficult times to this list. Mental health issues such as depression and anxiety, being socially isolated, family rejection, poverty, survival sex work, low self esteem... All of these factors make you vulnerable and there's always someone awful out there looking to exploit that. Chasers are aware of this.

How to recognize them?

Chasers sometimes are really obvious. But they can also be very hard to identify because of all the things they do to conceal their intentions. Some red flags are:
Misgendering.
Honestly, the best thing you can do for your dating life is to adopt a zero tolerance policy for misgendering. Chasers who do this think they can get away with it because you're so desperate to date and/or have sex that you won't care. Don't give them the benefit of the doubt.
Weird compliments.
Watch out for any compliment that makes you feel uncomfortable, such as those blatantly transphonic ("the best of both worlds") and the ones that focus on things that you are insecure about.
Hiding the relationship or introducing you to their friends and family as their girlfriend.
Men might try to justify this by saying they're in the closet and they aren't ready to come out. Even if this is true, you are not a dirty little secret. He has a right to stay in the closet, but not to drag you back in there with him. Introducing you as your girlfriend is especially troubling because it means that he values his comfort more than he respects your gender identity. Fuck that.
Straight men and lesbian women who are "experimenting."
Sexuality IS fluid and it can move around. Experimenting is amazing! However, some people will use that as a cover for their transphobia. Think about it. It might be that the first person who makes them question their sexuality just happens to be trans. However, it's more likely that they don't respect your gender identity and perceive you as a women. They might tell you that they're experimenting or that labels aren't meaningful. While those things on their own are valid in some contexts, take them as a red flag. They have a right to experiment, yes. They don't have a right to experiment with you.
"Bisexual" men and "bisexual" women who have only been with women.
Same logic as before. I know many bisexual people have only dated people of one gender for a variety of reasons. They do not need to justify themselves and, in general, it's shitty to question someone's sexuality. However, there are contexts in which we have to protect ourselves and avoid taking someone's word at face value. If this person says they're bisexual, ask them about other men they're been with. Be wary if they can't come up with anyone.
Something that might happen is that this person says they're bisexual and they have, in fact, been with other men before... But they all happen to be trans. Now, please understant that I am not implying trans men are lesser than cis men. What I am trying to say is that there's no reason to assume you're the first person this chaser has targetted. Therefore, there might as well be other trans men in the chaser's dating history to back up the claim that he is bisexual, but in reality all of them were being lied to.
As a side nore, be wary of people who say they're bisexual but are only attracted to women and AFAB non binary people. They could say this directly or you can find out through their dating history. Ask. Be subtle, of course, but pay attention and take notes.
Invasive questions about your transition right out of the gate.
Chasers will often ask whether you "still" have your pussy or tits. This is blatantly disrespectful and shouldn't be tolerated. Do not assume good faith. Other questions might be about whether you're on T and how much time you've been on it. Be wary of umprompted discussions on how testosterone affects your libido and also any inquiry about bottom growth.
Also, this is up to you, but I advice you to avoid bringing up any of this topics when you're starting to meet someone you're interested in dating/having sex with. They do not need to know any details about your transition. Do not volunteer information that a chaser might be waiting for.
Questioning your transition or trying to convince you to take certain decisions.
Your transition is yours and yours alone. Chasers might try to make it all about them. "Your chest is flat enough, I don't think you should get top surgery," "'Men can also wear makeup and skirts, I don't know why you are obsessed with dressing so manly all the time," "I love how horny testosterone makes you, never stop taking it." Comments such as these should be an immediate red flag.
No concerns about your comfort during sex.
A cis person that is interested in dating and/or having sex with a trans person has the responsability of being especially careful about respecting their partner's gender identity.
This includes basic things everyone should abide to, such as asking about pronouns when unsure. But it also means having respectful discussions before sex. What anatomical terms do you prefer me to use when referring to your body? Are you comfortable with me taking off your bindeunderwear, or do you prefer to have them on at all times unless otherwise specified? What parts of your body do you want me to stay away from, if any?
Of course, some well meaning cis people might not realize the importance of those conversations (and also, not all trans people like them and that's ok). But they will usually show through their actions that they respect you during sex. They will follow your lead and take iniciative slowly, always waiting for you to encourage them further or giving you the opportunity to tell them to back off. Last time I had sex with a cis guy, for example, he stayed far away from my chest even if we hadn't talked about that beforehand. He waited till I literally put his hand in there to touch it. And that's basic courtesy.
A chaser won't do any of that. They won't ask, they will assume. They will usually touch your chest and try vaginal penetration without stopping to consider whether you're ok with that or not. They will not wait for you to tell them what anatomical terms you prefer and, instead, will use words like pussy, vagina, cunt, tits and so on as if they had zero awareness of the baggage they carry for many trans men and non binary folks. Good faith mistakes happen, but you can tell when someone doesn't care about your comfort at all.
Using kink as an excuse.
Back when I hadn't realized he was a chaser, my then boyfriend casually mentioned that he would love it if I were to crosdress during sex. That made me feel uncomfortable, but I didn't confront it about it because I thought that would be shaming him for his kinks.
This is related to the last point, but chasers will often tell you they want you to try certain things in the bedroom without caring about the baggage they carry for trans people. The most obvious examples are breeding, crossdressing, sissyfication and misgendering/detrans kink. These are totally valid kinks and if you want to try them out, that's great. Just make sure you practice them in a safe environment with people you trust while taking care of your mental and physical health. However, if a cis partner suggests trying these kinks, it's a red flag. Especially if they don't preface the conversation with an acknowledgement on how they understand that those kinks might be too much for you and that's ok.
General shitty behavior.
This includes general red flags, such as dismissing your feelings, getting you drunk before making a move, ignoring safe words, groping you in public places without your explicit consent, lying, expressing excessive jealousy, and so on.

Conclusion

Trust your gut. If someone is interested in you, but you have a weird feeling about them, cut them off. You don't have to give anyone the benefit of the doubt. Don't make excuses for other people. Being trans doesn't make you unworthy of love, sex or attention and you will find those things. Never settle for someone who is using you. If any of you have noticed any other red flags, maybe share them in the comments so that other trans guys and non binary folks can see them.

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I hope you're all doing well. I'm an artificial intelligence researcher and I've been working on a startup for several months (at home). As you can imagine, I work with a lot of data and my CPU is always on 100%. I'm looking to upgrade my PC and I could really use your help.
Here's my current setup:

• Motherboard: PRIME B350-PLUS
• CPU: Ryzen 5 1600x Overclocked to 4GHz
• RAM: Corsair 2 x 32GB (64GB) 3000MHz C16
• GPU: Nvidia GTX 1080 Ti
  
• I don't need to upgrade my GPU at my current state.
  
• I'm not planning on giving this PC to any friend or family, so any component being upgraded means I'll be selling the old one.
  

I want to upgrade my CPU (which means upgrading the motherboard as well) and maybe my RAM. Theoretically, upgrading my RAM should make an impact since I'm loading and saving data all day long. However, I've heard conflicting information about RAM speed and whether it actually makes a difference. I would love to hear from people with experience whether upgrading from high speed such as 3000MHz to ultra-high speed like 4000MHz CL14 actually improved their results significantly. If the improvement is only 1%, I'm not interested in spending so much money on it.
I was initially thinking about an easy choice like the Ryzen 5 7600, but now I'm considering something more "machine"ish with many cores. However, I'm concerned that upgrading to a many-core CPU might potentially affect the single-core performance of my system, especially if the software I'm using isn't optimized for multi-core CPUs, which happens often.
I do tend to multiprocess my overnight scripts, so my CPU usage reaches 100%, but that's not always the case.
I don't have a specific budget in mind, but I'm interested in knowing what my upgrade options are and how much of an impact they will have. For example, I would like to hear about a solid deal like the Ryzen 5 7600, as well as a more expensive option for a many-core CPU.
Thank you so much for your help. I really appreciate it!

I woke up to what felt like a long tree branch in my bed. I tried to brush it off, but couldn’t. Curious, I grabbed it and tried to feel what it was in the dark. It was long, like a rope. Then I realized that one end of it was sticking to the side of my neck.
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Then, I heard: JOOF! JOOF! JOOF! JOOF! Slurp! Slurp! Slurp! Slurp!
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Frightened, I jumped and turned on the bedside lamp. What I found was this organic cord on my bed. It looked like a thick tree branch but its texture felt like a string bean. One end was attached to my neck, but I couldn’t find the other end.
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It didn’t hurt until I started tugging on it. Even more so when I tried to yank it off.
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I was scared. I followed this cord and it came from outside through a very small opening at the bottom of the sliding door to my bedroom’s balcony. I was suddenly overcome with a feeling of dread.
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You see, tonight was ‘bugs’ night’. I hurried home as soon as I saw flying ants circling lampposts at dusk, knowing that if I don’t close all the 59 openings of my house, my floor will be covered in thousands of dying insects as early as 7 PM. Unfortunately, I missed one opening.
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It was still dark outside. I turned on the balcony light and that was when I saw him.
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He appeared to be an old man with white hair sticking up. He was squatting, but if he stood up straight he would probably be 8 feet tall. His huge boney arms and legs made him look like a giant spider crab.
His eyes were in a shape of a large egg and were completely black.
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His mouth was a long tube, which started out straight but eventually became this twisted cord that squeezed its way into my bedroom and attached itself to my neck.
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I tried to process what I was seeing. Then, the old man's cheek started to puff and deflate, puff and deflate.
JOOF! JOOF! JOOF! JOOF! Slurp! Slurp! Slurp! Slurp!
I could feel my blood being drained. I then remembered a neighbor who was found dead in her home two months ago. She died due to a huge amount of blood loss and the police didn’t know what happened.
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I took out a knife from my cabinet. I slammed it hard. I knew I had to cut it off before my mind took everything in.
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The cord retreated out of my room. The tube-mouth old man scampered sideways like a crab and disappeared into the darkness.
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I sanitized my neck and watched for signs of infection. I will go to the doctor at sunrise, but, I had to do something I had put off first.
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I screamed at the top of my lungs.
Remember to close all the openings of your house on bug’s night. Something might find its way in.

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So you're a doctor. Imagine you're extremely sick and can't figure out why. What would you do? If you can figure this out and help cure me, I'll be in your debt!
I've been very sick since January 2022, primarily with debilitating nausea. I'm otherwise a healthy 30 y/o male. I do not smoke, do not take drugs and currently don't drink as my stomach can no longer tolerate it.
Symptoms: -Chronic nausea, some days worse than others. Stomach just feels very unsettled at times. -Frequent upward pressure sensation like a burp with no relief -Occasional vomiting ~once per month -Stomach feels unsettled, almost as if it's pumping and twitching at times -Occasional pain in epigastric region -Weight loss of 30 lbs due to weak appetite from nausea; I've never been overweight
I've taken countless tests without a clear explanation for the nausea.
-Celiac disease - Diagnosed in July 2022; follow up endoscopy in late March shows almost fully healed villi due to GF diet adherence
-Norovirus was detected January 2023, but no longer in my system around February 2023
-SIBO - Excess methane, remediated in February with antibiotics
-Some excess bile seen in second endoscopy, but GI is certain that some bile alone doesn't explain the duration and severity of my symptoms.
At this point, it seems none of the above explain the nausea as Celiac is in full remission.
In addition to two endoscopies: -CT scan of abdomen and head -SIBO breath test -Ultrasound of upper abdomen -Emptying study -Countless blood tests and stool tests
Medications tried: -Famitodine up to 100mg -Hyoscyamine -Onadesterone -Donnatal -Reglan -Every OTC nausea med you can think of, like emetrol, FD gard, pepto bismol, etc. -Currently 30mg Amitriptyline
I've been on amitriptyline since January, and my GI will likely keep trying up to at least 50mg, but it's not much help so far.
Conditions ruled out: -Celiac (healed) -Cancers of any kind -Abdominal migrane -Addisons disease -Chrons, UC or other IBD -Anxiety -POTS -Gastroparesis -Gall bladder (no pain on right side, greasy foods are not a trigger) -Parasites/other infections/h pylori -Nutritional deficiencies -Pancreatic insufficiency -Food allergy -Gastritis -I could go on, but you get the point, it's nothing obvious.
In addition to a GF diet, I've tried a low FODMAP diet and gastritis friendly diet, and all sorts of supplement regimens.
A concrete diagnosis to explain the duration and severity of symptoms seems elusive at this point. At first I thought it might just be some anxiety, then Celiac Disease, then gastritis, and was relieved to think I had the answer each time.
The second GI I've seen is world-renound and brilliant, but he's stumped by this just like every other doctor has been. I'm not sure what to do if I'm still sick 6 months or more from now.

He mailed ordered for them or something. Those cameras where you just dropped off the whole thing and picked up the pictures.
Thing is, instead of 36 Kodak disposable cameras, they sent 36 CASES of some knockoff (all Chinese writing) called a Kodiak. It was yellow and resembled the Kodaks and worked just like them. The pictures turned out fine. Since they worked, they used them for my stepsister’s wedding but there were over a hundred of them in my basement for years.
My mom was a big picture-taker, but she had some fancy camera with all kinds of lenses, whatever. My dad never used them and me and my buddies probably used a dozen in 3 years.
So that’s pointless enough, but the cameras become important later.
When I was about 16 (30 years ago!) I had a girlfriend named Karen (not her real name, but fitting enough) Karen wasn’t it, but she had a friend in her group named Amy that I really got along with well. Amy and I were like two peas in a pod. It wasn’t romantic - Amy was cute, definitely, but it was more like being with your best friend. We just clicked. Looking back, the situation wasn’t fair to Karen. But whatever, she was a hot chick, she got over it. She started dating a Senior with a brand new Iroc Z Camaro and there were no hard feelings.
Just before we broke up, I got a Camaro too - a 1980 in decent shape. It wasn’t THAT old at the time, remember. So a bunch of us were hanging out in my driveway after I got it and my buddy says, “grab a Kodiak and document this moment before you crash it.”
I thought it was a good call so I grabbed a few and brought them out. Amy was particularly interested and thought it was amazing I had “2400 pictures just waiting to be taken” sitting in my basement.
I’ll fast forward a little here, but Amy was a “come with” person. She rarely had anything going on herself, but she was always home and always game for whatever anyone else wanted to do. Drive two states over to pick up an engine my cousin had? Amy’s down. Trip to the beach with the crew? Count Amy in. Grocery shopping because my stepmom thinks I need to learn basic skills? Just go pick her up. Train trip across the country with 86 dollars? Just let her pack a bag.
We hung out a LOT over about 4 years. Sometimes alone, sometimes with the group. My parents gave her free reign to use the cameras, and she did. She documented everything. Eventually all of my friends were also Amy’s friends and she hung out with others without me, but generally speaking I was the connection and I was usually there.
She never really spoke of it, but it eventually dawned on me that the reason Amy was always available was because she hated staying at home. Her mom was a really sweet woman, but she had addiction and substance abuse issues. She also had some boyfriend that Amy didn’t like. Her home life sort of messed up her views of friendship and I guess life in general, but she was ok. She wasn’t what I would call weird or anything, just quiet.
Fast forward a few more years and I’m living with a few buddies in a house we were renting. Amy’s mom’s boyfriend finally got a job after 4 years but it was in a city a few hours away. I tried to get her to move in with us - the roomies were cool with her and I told her she could have the bed, I’d figure something out. She kind of seemed like she wanted to, but she she said she couldn’t leave her mom. I understood and didn’t push.
I maybe should have pushed more, but who could know?
We stayed in touch, of course, but we only saw each other a few times a year after that. She seemed happy enough. Eventually she got a boyfriend and had a baby. Strange thing is that nobody actually met the boyfriend. Not me, not her mom, nobody as far as I know. They broke up a few months before she delivered the baby and that was it. She never spoke about it and when I pressed she said, “he’s nobody. I’m not hiding anything purposely. It’s just over and I don’t want to talk about it.” I remember the exact words and how she said them.
As you may have guessed, this is the part where Amy dies. They said she walked into traffic without looking. I don’t think she did it on purpose but the guy that hit her said she was looking at him. I guess it doesn’t matter.
Fast forward again and about 3 weeks ago someone rings my doorbell. I opened the door and my heart stopped. The young woman standing there looked just like Amy. The young Amy I knew. It wasn’t a ghost, of course. It’s her daughter. I knew it before she even said anything. Before I saw the photo album. Amy’s photo album.
Amy’s mom raised her, and after Amy’s death she overcame her issues and also ditched the deadbeat boyfriend. The daughter was too young to remember Amy at all, but there were plenty of pictures.
I was the subject of more of them than Amy, but there were a lot of them of her too. The daughter knew my name from her grandmother and tracked me down because she wanted to know more about Amy.
Nothing amazing or life altering happened, but it was nice to meet her after all these years and I think she enjoyed hearing how great her mom was. Because of those cameras. Those dumb Kodiak cameras. And my dads penchant for sketchy mail order companies I guess

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Minho: Alright let's play it.
Minho plays the sparring video
Manuel: Alright only 4 rounds let's do this.
Minho: You're on and I'm not putting on headgear
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Manuel:Alright here we go.
The bell rings and Minho and Manuel take there fighting stance
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Minho throws a few jabs to Manuel but he parries them
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Minho throws a few haymakers but Manuel dodges
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Manuel: Urgh
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Alexis gives the towel to Manuel and he blows his nose on it
Minho: Is this guy the Latin Assassin for real?
Round 2 starts and Minho and Manuel leave their corners
Minho: HERE I GO!
Minho throws a few haymakers but Manuel dodges and throws a counter heavy jab
Minho: OOF this guy is strong
Manuel: Guess it's time to give him the real challenge
Manuel throws a 1-2 combo and a body blow to Minho
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Minho throws a few body blows to Manuel
Manuel: Guess I'll have to give it to him
Manuel throws. 1-2 hook and uppercut combo on Minho giving him a cut near his eye
Minho: URGH!
Minho throws a few haymakers to Manuel and it hits
Manuel: Huh this kid is pretty good!
Minho throws a straight but gets countered with a right cross from Manuel knocking him down
Minho: UGH!
Alexis comes to the ring and counts Minho but he gets up in 7
Minho: Ack...
Minho: RAHHH!
Manuel dodges Minho's hooks and hits him with a 1-2 combo along with a few jabs
Minho: Ack!!
Manuel throws a few uppercuts but Minho dodges and hits him with a body blow
Manuel: Urgh!!
Minho: This is it!! HAA!!!!
The round and ends and Minho fails to throw a straight to Manuel
Minho: panting
Manuel: You're pretty good kid!
Round 3 starts and Minho throws a 1 2 combo to Manuel hitting him
Manuel: Guess I'll gotta give it my all now
Manuel throws looping punches to Minho and throws a hard body blow to Minho's stomach
Minho: Gasps
Minho: GRRR!!
Minho returns with another body blow to Manuel
Manuel: Heh..
Manuel throws a jab,hook and uppercut to Minho but he blocks the uppercut
Minho: Grr!!
Minho throws two hooks and and a few body blows to Manuel
Manuel: Give it your all kid!!
Minho throws a barrage of jabs and straights to Manuel's face
But Manuel counters with hooks and uppercuts to Minho's face worsening his cut
Manuel and Minho go back and forth for a while till round 3 ends
Manuel:spits blood
Minho: Gosh he really is the Latin Assassin!
Round 4 starts and Minho throws hooks at Manuel but they miss
Manuel: Cmon!!
Minho throws a body blow combination to Manuel stunning him
Manuel: OOF!
Minho: HAAA!!!
Minho throws a right straight to Manuel hitting and pushing him to the ring corner
*Minho keeps on throwing combos till Manuel blocks them and moves out of the way.
Manuel: That's enough for today!
Manuel grabs Minho and throws a few body shots and the final round ends
Minho: Panting
Manuel: Sorry man you're one tough kid.. let's just go to the lockeroom and I'll give you something to patch up.
Minho: Thanks..
Manuel: You won your gym membership congrats!
Minho: Thank you sir..
The video ends and Minho closes the video
Minho: Shit this cut hurts!!!
Haesol: Atleast you weren't knocked Mr Minho..
Minho: Yeah... Thank you for that.
Haesol: You wanna train with me sir?
Minho: No I'm sorry but I don't think the coach would let me train with this cut.
Haesol: It's ok I'm gonna go after I'm finished my training visit here.
Minho: Alright see you later Haesol..
Haesol: Good bye Mr Minho see you when you're better!
Haesol leaves and goes back to his friend and gym partners
Darren: You done bro?
Haesol: Yeah Minho had a bad cut so I don't think I can train with him.
Conrad: Darn it but I'm happy you got a new gymmate Manuel.
Manuel: That's okay but for now let's train for today.
Haesol: Ok let's do this!
Darren: RIGHT!
Alexis: Alright let's do this!
Haesol and Darren train at the new gym till night comes
Haesol: Whew! That was tiring.
Darren: Yeah coughing
Conrad: Alright you guys did good but for now it's time to go back home.
Darren: Yeah see you guys later.
Haesol's phone rings and he picks it up
Haesol: Hello who is it?
Elizabeth: My Good Boy.. Haesol... are you there??
Haesol: Miss Elizabeth!!! Yeah I'm in the Rome gym around the city!!
Elizabeth: I'm gonna go there see you soon Haesol...
Haesol: Bye!!
Haesol hangs up his phone
Darren: Who's that bro?
Haesol: Someone that I love...
Darren: Ohh... Someone's got game..
Haesol: No I don't Blushes and pouts
Darren: Anyway see you around bro!
Haesol: You too Darren thank you and bye bye!
Haesol and his friends leave the gym until someone menacing arrives
Doona: Giggles That good boy is around that gym..
Wookyung: So this is the guy you've been eyeing... He's gotta be cute..
Doona and Wookyung saw Haesol in gym attire after they became stalkers to find him
Doona: Let's sneak up on him.
Wookyung: Right... He's kinda hot tho.
Doona and Wookyung sneak up to the gym and go near Haesol
Doona: Hey there pretty boy...
Haesol: Huh??
Doona: Do you remember me??
Haesol: You're.... You're that woman who interrupted Miss Elizabeth's call.
Doona: You and Elizabeth you both look like an adorable couple.
Haesol: Scared
Wookyung: Aww is the boy scared?? Well Cmon let the boy speak..
Haesol: Who are you sir??
Wookyung: Just a colleague of Byun Minho..
Haesol: Is this Minho's friend.... no it can't be!
Haesol: He feels evil..
Doona: I'm surprised to say... You and Elizabeth are getting close to each other.
Haesol: Um yes miss..
Doona: I must say... Want me to take something from you?
Haesol: No miss I have to go.. Miss Elizabeth is waiting for me..
Haesol tries to run away but Doona grabs him and seductively holds him close to herself
Doona: Why don't we talk about what I'm taking somewhere else dear..
Haesol: Wait Miss Doona I have to go to Miss Elizabeth she's waiting for me..
Wookyung: Don't be afraid she will treat you nicely..
A few meters away
Elizabeth: Now where can that angel be?
Elizabeth finds the gym and sees Haesol getting harassed by Doona and Wookyung
Elizabeth: My adorable boy!
Elizabeth: I wont let that Jezebel bitch take him away from me!!
Elizabeth jogs to Haesol and grabs him along with shoving Doona out of the way
Doona: Oh did the Queen return in order to save his Prince Charming?
Elizabeth: Of course I'm saving him from a wretched Jezebel like you.
Doona: HUHH!! AH JEZEBEL IM A QUEEN IF YOU WANNA PROVE IT FIGHT ME THEN!
Elizabeth: It's pointless to fight Doona but for now I'll let you live for another day.
Haesol: Miss Eliza..
Elizabeth: Quiet dear and come with me.
Elizabeth: I've got my eye on both of you.
Elizabeth turns around and shows small red pupil lasers coming out of her eyes while walking away with her
Doona: Well that was over..
Wookyung: Hey I have a better idea how about I hire some goons to beat up Minho and kidnap the guy as revenge to the teacher.
Doona: Huh that's a great idea I'm in..
Meanwhile Haesol and Elizabeth are riding in a Nissan R32 with Black Rims
Haesol: Who was that Miss Elizabeth?
Elizabeth: Just an annoying friend of mine don't worry I won't let her hurt you.
Haesol: Really? Thank you for saving me from her I appreciate it.
Elizabeth: No Problem.. Say wanna come to my place tonight?
Haesol: Sure! let's go I'm excited to see what's inside!
Elizabeth: Heh you're gonna love it!
Too be continued

I find it so easy i get bored. Im a solo player. Only have about 10 days played. If you dont wunna get raided. Then dont kill anyone who knows where you live. Dont go to your house when people are around. Build in a spot off the track. Its quite easy it simply requires patience and a little IQ. If you see someone and arent prepared. RUN. Dont hang about and wait till they kill you. You wunna make friends then run around naked.
Someones outside your base? Dont make a sound. Stay silent for a while. Grab some food. come back they will be gone.
Hang around talk shit roof camp, get door camped get raided.
Im solo and barely evet get raided. And when i do get raided i have so many seperate rooms filled with junk the raiders just give up and miss the good stuff. One time i lived in a raided base for a week. They went top down. Got one loot room and missed all the good shit. So i lived there till end of wipe. Who the hell gonna raid a raided base.
You just gotta be sneaky.
Yes you do get unlucky. But its nowhere near as difficult as some like to claim.
TDLR:Get gud

yá át tééh!
I'd like to go a little bit into my childhood today, and ⚠️trigger warning ⚠️ the things I talk about are traumatic and hard to read. My writing is all over the place so, yeah deal with it. I'm also in the process of figuring out my own childhood and I'm remembering as I go. You're welcome to share your stories as well if you can relate. My goal is to help others know they're not alone. I'm tired of being ashamed of this, and I just want to talk about what happened to me. Plain and simple.
For most of my childhood I grew up on the Navajo Nation reservation located in New Mexico. The Navajo Nation, also known as Navajoland, is a Native American reservation in the United States. It falls on northeastern Arizona, northwestern New Mexico, and southeastern Utah. I'm a half Navajo women, my mom's full Navajo and my father is African American and Mexican. I seen my family struggle with alcohol mainly. My whole family now that I think about it has had a problem with alcohol. My mom's dad, died from freezing to death because he passed out before he could make a fire. My grandma has been drinking since she was a child but, I believe when she was around the age of 70 she quit. I had only seen my grandma drunk once and she fractured her hand. My mom drank since she was a preteen and has been sober now for 12 years. My dad was in and out of my life. He was secenteced 7 years in prison so I never got the chance to bond with my father since it happened when I was a little girl. Maybe 4 years old? I have two older sisters and no brothers. We moved around alot from my grandma's, to my aunt's then sometimes off the reservation but we always went back. We never had a stable home life. We were poor also so alot of times it was rough going without. I grew up feeling afraid, I was afraid of what was going to happen next. I was anxious because I had no control of my life and the choices of my mother and family. Anxious about the anger that just lived in everybody and I'f it was going to be taken out on me. Seeing my mother drunk beyond help and then having to deal with her wrath. Or worse, she would leave. We'd be left with my grandma or alone for a few days or weeks.( Never left alone for weeks though) I couldn't focus in school because I was always worried about my mom. I would be 5,8,10 years old. Just wondering if my mom is drunk, sober, is she angry? Are we moving again? Will mom be home? Is grandma mad that we're still there? Why is everyone so mean to me? Just these anxious thoughts I've always had since I can remember. Now I'm an 27 year old woman and I still feel like that scared child. That's just a really basic summary of my childhood. But it is basically just alcohol, fear and family problems. Living on the rez makes you feel so isolated and it's terrifying. You think sometimes you're never getting out. Might as well just start drinking too.

i'll try to keep it to the point, but ever since i was a child, I always had that "hero" syndrome, where I wanted to find a way to save the world and become the naruto of humanity, but as a grew older, past 16, i realized the world will always be the way it is any theres nothing that can be done, I always wanted to be someones hero.
so this story begins with my girlfriend, I currently live with her, and the relationship never went amooth from the beginning, but me being the hopeless romantic that I am, I always try to find the best in people and try to fix em up and make things work out. it started out long distance, and when we met up in person, i caught her cheating on me with an old fuck buddy, she ended up sending him the same nudes she sent me while we was dating. she begged forgivness, and me being the hopless romantic simp that i am, I gave in, and forgave her, and tried to make things work. at this point in the timeline, she didn't have a job, and hasn't had one for 5 years. she lost her job at dollar tree, and losing it caused her to be afraid of losing another so she just kept shrugging it off, and the location she lived at, jobs weren't very common to find, so i decided since I live in a city, come live with me and she can find a job here. she did, and has worked there for 2.5 years, however during that time, the fact that she cheated on me, and my friends bringing it up, has haunted me, so i'd sometimes bring it up to argue, and feel heavily insecure about it, not knowing if she really wanted this to work out of if she's here to gain something from me and then leave. just living day in and day out paranoid, I kept my mind busy by working, making content, making music, to distract myself from my demons, but none the less it still haunted me.
later one, this friend i have been very close with for 5 years and i connect. and she tells me her story, from her parents abusing her, to the boyfriends abusing her, her R$)pe story, and now to combo all of this together, she's diagnosed with Auto Immune disease, a genetic disease that can't be cured, she wakes up every morning with severe flareups that are so agonizing she cries waking up, and cries herself to sleep, the only way she can live through out the day is with THC that help her contorl that pain, in her words, its like someone dipped lava on her legs and hips, the buring sensation is agonizing. just put yourself in this position, you're entire life you're told you're worthless, your parents make you feel like that, telling you that you shouldn't have been born, your interactions with people has been bitter with a few moments of kindness with some friends here and there, partners ignoring you or giving you some of the worst experiences in your highschool days, then for one of them to R#$%Pe you and to top it all off, your body begins to fail you..., at that point it seems like suicides the only option, she can't work because of this disease, she lost 2 jobs because of it, she has no health insurance to get any medical aid financially, in the state she lives in she needs paystubs even on medicare . gov to be qualitfied but can't keep the job due to the disease....
after hearing her life story and we connected in a deep emotional level, i convinced her to leave her boyfriend at the time who never helped with much, causing alot of emotional distress in the relationship, and after a bit i decided to go see her, not knowing if this disease will kill her or not, i wanted her to have her first romantic date with a beautiful view with me, since she never knew what it was like to go out, have a romantic or adventurous time with anyone, I felt really really bad that she might die not knowing how that feels like, the nice date, beautiful view, driving, experiencing life outside of her miserable household. i felt like i had to do something, but my ethical meter kicked in before this all happened, i wondered if it was even the right thing to do at all, to me in my honest opinion, once you build an emotional connection with someone that you aren't dating the deal is sealed, nothing keeps couples forever, but once the emotional connection is built you cant look at your current partner the same... but I still felt like i shouldn't do this, so what caused me to go ahead and cheat?
My Partner and I ended up going out to a BBQ with my family, and I caught her texting the fuck buddy she cheated on me with 3 years ago. keep in mind, im a very understanding person, so maybe they just caught up, besides in my eyes, if she does cheat she gotta go back home, she don't have anywhere to go where we live if we separate regardless, so its kind of like she's forced to stay even if she doesn't want to end up homeless, but regardless if she wanted to leave i would gladly send her back home, i don't believe in that kind of blackmailing... and to make it worse, instead of letting me see the texts, she deleted them to, as she says "avoid the argument' and i kind of laughed and said "if you don't want to be with me you can leave, i already have people in mind to replace you if you want to cheat again" she then explains what it was they talked about and it was just catching up, he has a kid and a wife, but that never stops anyone from doing what they wanna do with a specific person. as of now, me and her are still together for "survival reasons"
this, ontop of the fact that we really don't connect on many things besides liking to go out on adventures, sex, and a few movies, the fact that she doesn't really know how to cook, and can be financially irresponsible, spending her entire check on products on shein and fashionova that she clearly has enough of, just lead me to go and pull this trigger. my and the other person in question ended up having the romantic time of her life, we got to see the sun set on a ferriswheel together, going to a restaurant with belly dancers and the best food you could afford, and driving around in a mustang convertable, i felt like a hero, i gave her the experience she deserved and has been asking for for such a long time. but I got so emotionally attached, I really can't let her go, me and her want to be together, but currently can't We're waiting on tests for her auto immune and to see if she can get some treatment for which specific auto immune she has, her primary doctor ran tests and knows it came out positive, now we just want to see what specific kind of auto immune she has and if it can be treated enought for her to be able to work again. ontop of that, i currently don't have enough funds to find another place to go, 11k in credit debt, even with a decent job, and the medical expenses my dumbass wants to help her out with because no one else will, im kind of stuck, and it makes me fell worthless really.
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I feel like a monster, but I try to help everyone I meet, the parther im still with today, I gave her a chance to work, to gain work experience she was hiding from in her previous household, she became a manager, has manager experience, and I even made her a nice resume for her to use when things to break apart so I don't feel like i ruined her life, i spent a whole lot of money on her to help her, but the paranoia caused me to never fully trust. and now i love and trust someone else with an incurable disease, it makes me feel worthless that i've cheated... but the first trigger, has been pulled

The movie used to terrify me as a child. The unsettling haunting score that sounds animals crying in the distant woods. The low-budget/quality, grainy cinematography gives it a snuff film-realistic-you’re not supposed to see this feel, like a creep VHS you’d find somewhere with events no one has seen before but actually happened. The lack of lighting in the woods makes it feels so dark, void, and like it goes on forever. The reveal of possessed Cheryl after reading the cards, the eyes, the voice, the makeup although clearly fake it comes off so gross at the same time. And just the overall hopeless feeling the movie has once things kick into high gear. It’s a cheaply made film but that truly adds to the scare quality. Much like the original TCM. I hope I’ve been able to sum everything up I think makes the original so scary haha

Last night I was reading ' The Game of Life and How to Play It' by Florence Scovel Shinn recommended by someone on this sub.
I was reading about how some Indians greet each other by not saying hello but greeting the divine in the other including animals. And I thought about an Indian looking guy I saw in a park near me about 3 months ago... (I am in UK) who brought food for the pigeons and when they gathered he put his palms together and starting praying and bowing to them and I was wondering if this is what he was doing... I also said in my mind that I would like to see him again...
Well today walking my dog in that park, I see him again followed by his wife, he threw rice to the pigeons who gathered to eat while wife was filming it he then began praying and bowing to the pigeons who were eating the rice... If any Indians are reading this I wonder what this practice is about...
Second manifestation... while I was walking my dog same day today... I was thinking about a neighbour who lost her dog last year and I said a few time in my head and outloud: 'I wonder how J is, I want to see her today'. Well... as I was leaving the park... there she was walking her friend's dog so we had a chat and a walk together with the 2 doggies...
This was so easy... So if this was so easy big manifestations should be equally easy once the fears and doubts are ignored and left behind... like my book is saying fear is the only enemy you have between you and your manifestation.

Hi! My name is Long, I’m 27 years old and I reside in Philadelphia, PA! Here's what I look like. I’ve been looking for a LTR with someone that clicks, while I’ve met some amazing people, I haven’t met the one just yet.
Hobbies – Video games are a big one for me. Fighting games, Dead by Daylight, Wow, you name it I’ve probably played it! I used to play a few video games professionally and have been competing on and off ever since! I'm currently playing a lot of Wow and primarily do raiding and M+ content.
Outside of gaming I also workout, play D&D, and I’m a huge fan crime scene documentaries like JCS or Explore with us on youtube!
I’m also a singer! I’m a huge fan of singing Disney songs, R&B, and Nsync. While my voice may crack, you’ll still be swooned by my performance 😉
Lastly, I’m a yugioh / Pokémon / figure collector. My brother got me a PSA 6 Charizard a few years back that I still have to this day, and ever since I became hooked. I have a growing collection that I’d love to share with you.
Real life stuff- I do have a career that I’ve been blessed to have so you don’t have to worry about me not paying my side of things! It’s remote as well. I have my own apartment that I take care of with 2 beautiful cats named Sanji and Mojo. One has a permanent head tilt, while the other is cow printed and is a little..stupid..no he’s a lot of stupid. Sanji is named after my favorite one piece character and Mojo is named after the power puff girls villain Mojojojo. Pet pics for pet pics?
I have no issue relocating if we click.
Music – I listen to all sorts of music. While I listen to everything, I usually stick to 90s-2000s R&B and rap with hints of modern day stuff, metal and rock of all varieties, and any type of hyfy EDM/house/dance hall music.
Some examples of the stuff I’ve listened to are Usher, Cartel, Wu Tang Clan, T-Pain Mothica, TesseracT, Dream Theater, Slipknot, of Mice & Men, Chris Lake, Doja Cat, Black Eyed Peas (Old school and new), Salvatore Ganacci, A Tribe Called Quest, Denzel Curry, and Kendrick Lamar. As you can see it’s a lot of different genres! It just depends on my mood at that time.
Love languages – Touch is the biggest one for me, but honestly, I have all of them. I love the thought of both of us doing our own thing in our own place, and I walk past you as I go get some more coffee or go to the bathroom and give you a quick hug and kiss on the cheek and flirt with you real fast before I head back. I want you to be comfortable knowing that I’ll be there to reassure you or tell you how beautiful you are, or if you’re busy and you need something to drink I’ll go and get it for you, or if you’re looking at this brand new game that you can’t get I’ll get it for you…Or if you had a rough day and need to unwind that I’ll drop what I’m doing and take you to the movies or the arcade and have a nice chill day together, with just you and I.
Plans for the future – I’ll be frank and state that I am not looking to have kids at this time. I’m a bit selfish with my time and that time is reserved for my close friends and my future partner. I’m also looking for someone between 24-31 and I am strictly monogamous.
Okay phew that was a lot, I appreciate if you read everything and if you’re interested at all please send me a chat or message with one of your passions, something that gets you going and makes you the amazing person you are. Please also send a picture! I do think physical attraction is important, it’s not the end all be all but it does play a factor.
Alright, I hope to hear from you soon, have a great rest of your week and thank you for reading

I currently live with my best friend and her husband (we'll call him "G" here). We've all known each other for about 15 years and decided to live together about 2 yrs ago. I live with their adorable 2-yr old toddler too. I didn't realize that I'd be moving in with a literal psychopath: My best friend's husband is crazy. She always talks about divorcing "G" because "he's really a terrible person", but that's beside the point...
I have an elderly cat. She's almost 16. Last night, she had some poop stuck to her tail, which I cleaned immediately. It was a small amount and it was dealt with right away. "G" kept insisting that I make sure my cat is clean so his toddler doesn't get any cat poop on him. So far, this is reasonable. I don't want cat poop on his toddler as well.
"G" constantly demonizes my cat and refers to her as "it." After I cleaned my cat thoroughly, "G" said to me: "If it comes down to my son or your cat, I will gladly murder your cat with a smile on my face."
If what comes down to what?! Who the fuck actually says that, even if it's speculative? Under any circumstance, I don't want to hear about my cat and "murder" in the same sentence. What the fuck is wrong with this guy? I need to move ASAP. I wish his wife had an escape, but that's something she needs to figure out. I don't think "G" would literally hurt my cat, but I could be wrong. The bolded text above is a verbatim quote from him. That is NOT a normal thing to say, right?!
(If anyone reading this is wondering, I do NOT have a sexual or romantic relationship with either of these people.)

Hi! My name is Long, I’m 27 years old and I reside in Philadelphia, PA! Here's what I look like. I’ve been looking for a LTR with someone that clicks, while I’ve met some amazing people, I haven’t met the one just yet.
Hobbies – Video games are a big one for me. Fighting games, Dead by Daylight, Wow, you name it I’ve probably played it! I used to play a few video games professionally and have been competing on and off ever since! I'm currently playing a lot of Wow and primarily do raiding and M+ content.
Outside of gaming I also workout, play D&D, and I’m a huge fan crime scene documentaries like JCS or Explore with us on youtube!
I’m also a singer! I’m a huge fan of singing Disney songs, R&B, and Nsync. While my voice may crack, you’ll still be swooned by my performance 😉
Lastly, I’m a yugioh / Pokémon / figure collector. My brother got me a PSA 6 Charizard a few years back that I still have to this day, and ever since I became hooked. I have a growing collection that I’d love to share with you.
Real life stuff- I do have a career that I’ve been blessed to have so you don’t have to worry about me not paying my side of things! It’s remote as well. I have my own apartment that I take care of with 2 beautiful cats named Sanji and Mojo. One has a permanent head tilt, while the other is cow printed and is a little..stupid..no he’s a lot of stupid. Sanji is named after my favorite one piece character and Mojo is named after the power puff girls villain Mojojojo. Pet pics for pet pics?
I have no issue relocating if we click.
Music – I listen to all sorts of music. While I listen to everything, I usually stick to 90s-2000s R&B and rap with hints of modern day stuff, metal and rock of all varieties, and any type of hyfy EDM/house/dance hall music.
Some examples of the stuff I’ve listened to are Usher, Cartel, Wu Tang Clan, T-Pain Mothica, TesseracT, Dream Theater, Slipknot, of Mice & Men, Chris Lake, Doja Cat, Black Eyed Peas (Old school and new), Salvatore Ganacci, A Tribe Called Quest, Denzel Curry, and Kendrick Lamar. As you can see it’s a lot of different genres! It just depends on my mood at that time.
Love languages – Touch is the biggest one for me, but honestly, I have all of them. I love the thought of both of us doing our own thing in our own place, and I walk past you as I go get some more coffee or go to the bathroom and give you a quick hug and kiss on the cheek and flirt with you real fast before I head back. I want you to be comfortable knowing that I’ll be there to reassure you or tell you how beautiful you are, or if you’re busy and you need something to drink I’ll go and get it for you, or if you’re looking at this brand new game that you can’t get I’ll get it for you…Or if you had a rough day and need to unwind that I’ll drop what I’m doing and take you to the movies or the arcade and have a nice chill day together, with just you and I.
Plans for the future – I’ll be frank and state that I am not looking to have kids at this time. I’m a bit selfish with my time and that time is reserved for my close friends and my future partner. I’m also looking for someone between 24-31 and I am strictly monogamous.
Okay phew that was a lot, I appreciate if you read everything and if you’re interested at all please send me a chat or message with one of your passions, something that gets you going and makes you the amazing person you are. Please also send a picture! I do think physical attraction is important, it’s not the end all be all but it does play a factor.
Alright, I hope to hear from you soon, have a great rest of your week and thank you for reading