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2013.02.18 06:46 Destiny 2

All about Destiny 2: The epic, online-only looter-shooter MMO from Bungie, which launched in September of 2017.

2014.12.31 00:04 Sparkatiz Destiny Sherpa

Most of us are aware that it can be difficult for a new player to find a group to do their first raid. /fireteams moves fast & can be hard to pick through at times. is full of people who require you to have experience, a specific level, or weapons and can be discouraging to new players. And some people like to play sherpa. I would like to bring raid sherpas, and raid newbies together in a clean, organized fashion. One place for both types of people to go without any run around.

2023.05.30 22:15 DarkDetectiveGames Privacy laws in Canada could get worse, Bill C-27 Digital Records Act/ Consumer Privacy Protection Act

Bill C-27 is a Bill in Canada that would replace the Personal Information Protection and Electronic Documents Act (PIPEDA) with the new so called Consumer Privacy Protection Act (CPPA). It has passed second reading. This new law is worse than PIPEDA.
1 The Protections (or lack thereof)
CPPA offers less protection than PIPEDA. Under PIPEDA organizations are required to give purposes must be stated in such a manner that the individual can reasonably understand how the information will be used or disclosed. Under CPPA organizations still must give purposes, however they do not have to give individuals an understanding of the information will be used or disclosed.
This law introduces vague new exceptions to consent. These are the new exceptions (note de-identified means pretty much nothing. You can still be identified): Business Activities
18 (1) An organization may collect or use an individual’s personal information without their knowledge or consent if the collection or use is made for the purpose of a business activity described in subsection (2) and
(a) a reasonable person would expect the collection or use for such an activity; >and
(b) the personal information is not collected or used for the purpose of influencing the individual’s behaviour or decisions.
List of activities
(2) Subject to the regulations, the following activities are business activities for the purpose of subsection (1):
(a) an activity that is necessary to provide a product or service that the individual has requested from the organization;
(b) an activity that is necessary for the organization’s information, system or network security;
(c) an activity that is necessary for the safety of a product or service that the organization provides; and
>(d) any other prescribed activity. 
Legitimate Interest
An organization may collect or use an individual’s personal information without their knowledge or consent if the collection or use is made for the purpose of an activity in which the organization has a legitimate interest that outweighs any potential adverse effect on the individual resulting from that collection or use and
(a) a reasonable person would expect the collection or use for such an activity; and
(b) the personal information is not collected or used for the purpose of influencing the individual’s behaviour or decisions. Research, analysis and development 21 An organization may use an individual’s personal information without their knowledge or consent for the organization’s internal research, analysis and development purposes, if the information is de-identified before it is used. Information produced in employment, business or profession An organization may collect, use or disclose an individual’s personal information without their knowledge or consent if it was produced by the individual in the course of their employment, business or profession and the collection, use or disclosure is consistent with the purposes for which the information was produced. Employment relationship — federal work, undertaking or business 24 An organization that operates a federal work, undertaking or business may collect, use or disclose an individual’s personal information without their consent if
(a) the collection, use or disclosure is necessary to establish, manage or terminate an employment relationship between the organization and the individual in connection with the operation of a federal work, undertaking or business; and
(b) the organization has informed the individual that the personal information will be or may be collected, used or disclosed for those purposes. Financial abuse
34 An organization may on its own initiative disclose an individual’s personal information without their knowledge or consent to a government institution, a part of a government institution or the individual’s next of kin or authorized representative if
(a) the organization has reasonable grounds to believe that the individual has been, is or may be the victim of financial abuse;
(b) the disclosure is made solely for purposes related to preventing or investigating the abuse; and
(c) it is reasonable to expect that disclosure with the knowledge or consent of the individual would compromise the ability to prevent or investigate the abuse. Statistics, study or research 35 An organization may disclose an individual’s personal information without their knowledge or consent if
(a) the disclosure is made for statistical purposes or for study or research purposes and those purposes cannot be achieved without disclosing the information;
(b) it is impracticable to obtain consent; and
(c) the organization informs the Commissioner of the disclosure before the information is disclosed. Socially beneficial purposes
39 (1) An organization may disclose an individual’s personal information without their knowledge or consent if
(a) the personal information is de-identified before the disclosure is made;
(b) the disclosure is made to
 (i) a government institution or part of a government institution in Canada, (ii) a health care institution, post-secondary educational institution or public library in Canada, 
> (iii) any organization that is mandated, under a federal or provincial law or by contract with a government institution or part of a government institution in Canada, to carry out a socially beneficial purpose, or > (iv) any other prescribed entity; and >(c) the disclosure is made for a socially beneficial purpose. 
or Prevention, detection or suppression of fraud *Debt Collection *Records of historic or archival importance *Breach of agreement or contravention *2 Enforcement** CPPA's enforcement is similar to PIPEDA's but worse. At least there are penalties. The process: 1. An individual files a complaint with the OPC. There are several reasons which can the commissioner can use to not investigate but not talking to the organization first isn't one of them. 2. The OPC investigates during which the Commissioner may attempt to resolve a complaint by means of a dispute resolution mechanism such as mediation and conciliation, unless an inquiry is being conducted in respect of the complaint or try to enter a compliance agreement. There is not time frame for this. (note under PIPEDA, a report of findings must be issued within a year see my last post)). It doesn't really say what an "investigation" is. 3. If the matter is still not resolved or the commissioner believe a compliance agreement is being breach an inquiry will start. The Commissioner must make rules respecting the conduct of an inquiry, including the procedure and rules of evidence to be followed, and must make those rules publicly available. 4. After the inquiry, the commissioner must make a decision.
>(a) the Commissioner’s findings on whether the organization has contravened this Act or has not complied with the terms of a compliance agreement; >(b) any order made under subsection (2); >(c) any decision made under subsection 94(1); and >(d) the Commissioner’s reasons for the findings, order or decision. 
"Compliance order"
(2) The Commissioner may, to the extent that is reasonably necessary to ensure compliance with this Act, order the organization to
>(a) take measures to comply with this Act; >(b) stop doing something that is in contravention of this Act; >(c) comply with the terms of a compliance agreement that has been entered into by the organization; or >(d) make public any measures taken or proposed to be taken to correct the policies, practices or procedures that the organization has put in place to fulfill its obligations under this Act. 
This must happen within 2 years of the complaint being followed, except it might not, see my last post. 5. The commissioner may recommend a penalty be imposed. This seems irrelevant because of, 6. Appeals may be made by the complainant or respondent to the tribunal with respect to a finding made by the inquiry, an order made by the commissioner or the commissioner's decision not to recommend a penalty. You only have 30 days to go to court. Under PIPEDA you have a year. 7. The tribunal may impose a penalty for all the contraventions in a recommendation taken together is the higher of $10,000,000 and 3% of the organization’s gross global revenue in its financial year before the one in which the penalty is imposed. Those numbers are the maximum. The law sets out relevant factors. 8. You may sue for damages if a finding by the commissioner or tribunal has made a finding that the respondent has violated the act. This is done in federal court or the superior court of a province. 9. An order by the tribunal may be reviewed by the Federal Court. The judgment of the federal court may be appealed to the Federal Court of Appeal. The Supreme court may also take an appeal afterwards. This is much longer than PIPEDA and although there are fines, the protections are so weak that the fines barely matter.
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2023.05.30 22:15 SunnyPsychologica I'm supporting my partner going through the craziest time ever, and I'm tired of it.

I know Reddit can be a sesspool, but I feel like I have nowhere else to turn.
My partner and I have been together for almost five years and we're still madly in love. I'm grateful for them. They're my best friend in every sense of the word. We have ebb and flow, we teach each other different things, have healthy conflict, and have a ton of fun and meaningful growth/time/conversation together. But lately...things haven't been the same. Not because they've changed or that I've changed in ways that mean we've outgrown one another, but because they're going through something so intense that's left them burnt out and is now leaving me burnt out.
For some context here, my partner is the child of a hoarder. An abusive, neglectful hoarder. I knew about this prior to us getting together as we were friends and worked with one another for three years prior to getting together. So theoretically, I knew what I was signing up for...that one day, eventually at some point, if we were to still be together, we'd both be tasked with dealing with his shit. And well, that day has finally come.
It started last May-ish when he had a stroke and ended up in the hospital. He was in there for a couple months, and during that time, my partner and their brother started working on cleaning out and organizing their dad's house. I helped a bit, but it was mostly them at the time while I supported on the sidelines. Went to hospital visits with my partner, helped occasionally at the house, that sort of thing. Unfortunately their dad came home (I say unfortunately because they can't make any progress on the board - of both things and animals - when their dad is present), and so a lot of things got put on hold for several months. It was good in terms of energy and taking a break, but during that time, my partner found out that they're the sole executor of their dad's will and that everything of his goes to them, and so, with his end being so near and not being able to make any progress on a hoarder house and four seacans worth of stuff, it was massively stressful for them and also for me.
Their dad spent the next several months wasting away in his house. He was supposed to do rehab stuff and take care of his health. None of that happened. Instead he literally ended up almost dying in his bed and eventually, after months of trying to convince him, ended up back in the hospital. He's now been there for several months and we know for sure he is never coming out. It's either he dies in the hospital or he goes to a long-term care home and dies there.
So anyway, for the past several months, it's been all hands on deck getting shit sorted for my soon-to-be father-in-law's shit. I'm talking trying to come up with money in the tens of thousands because of bills he owes, figure out government taxes because that man hadn't done taxes in over a decade (this is being sorted by an angel of a man who's been helping us thank god, but it's been so stressful), dealing with the four seacans (we finally got ONE of the four empty thank god), rehoming animals (as I said he hoarded animals, too, so over the past year we've managed to go from over 20 animals to I believe 6 who are still there now), and getting rid of shit in his house. We've also been selling cars cause he's hoarded those, too, and going to visit him when my partner feels up to doing that since it's so emotionally intensive for them. They've also been going through so much trauma healing because being around that house and their dad so much has brought so much up for them.
And while I'm their partner and I love them and I'm happy to support them through life, I'm getting so so tired. I'm feeling burnt out to a crisp. Which part of me feels crazy for! I'm not working anymore because with my partner having a job and having to deal with their dad's shit, it's not prudent for both of us to be working. Our home gets neglected and it's not feasible with everything going on rn. I'm best at cooking, cleaning, traditionally feminine gender role stuff, so I've taken on the role of being the stay-at-home partner right now. And so my brain is like well how can I be tired when I'm not even working...but I am. I am so tired...and I feel so guilty saying this that part of me doesn't wanna say this to my partner. Because they're even more tired which is even more valid! They're working forty hours a week and on top of that trying to balance their dad's shit, our relationship, yard projects we're doing together, resting, all that jazz. And here I am doing all of that minus the conventional job - although I will say as most of you probably know - keeping a house going is also a full-time job.
I just...I don't know guys. A big part of me wants to throw in the towel and say I need a fucking break. I need a month where I don't have to deal with any of your dad's shit! Where I just focus on our home and our garden and our renovations. I feel like I'm living a life I didn't sign up for even though I DID sign up for it, but it's like anything. You don't really know what it's gonna be like til you're going through it. And now that I am, I want off this ride. But I don't want off the ride that is my partner. But...selfishly, I want my old partner back.
I want my partner back who isn't just stressed 24/7 about work and dad and dad and dad and DAD. I literally don't know how to handle this anymore. Any amount of rest I get never feels like enough and it's shitty because I get more rest than my partner. Literally I feel like I'm not allowed to be tired or burnt out because they are dealing with even more than I am right now AND they have less time to rest.
But the problem is...I get the brunt of all of their emotions and stress. I mean, we both do. It's just hard cause they have more people to vent to about all of it. They have coworkers that I don't have that they talk to all of this stuff about. I have a very small amount of friends one because I'm introverted but also because a lot of friendships have been evolving and/or dying in my life lately. I've been going through a lot of growth alongside all this shit so it's honestly for the best but that doesn't mean it isn't lonely.
I just...idk. Despite us both going to therapy, I don't feel like I have the support I need right now or the boundaries or breaks that I need right now. The shitty thing is...this isn't something my partner can just walk away from. Believe me, if they could they would. But it's either we deal with shit now slowly but surely or we let it pile up, have their dad's house foreclosed on and have services turned off, have their brother and animals who are living in the house suffer, and prolong dealing with and selling the massive amount of SHIT their fucking hoarder dad has left them.
Any words of wisdom are much needed right now because I don't know where to turn other than to screaming or crying. All I know is I'm feeling like a partner who is a bit of a caregiver right now and as anyone who has experience knows, the caregiver has a rough time with shit, too, even if acknowledging that comes with a lot of guilt...
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2023.05.30 22:13 DisqualifiedPotato What did I do wrong with seasoning my new skillet

What did I do wrong with seasoning my new skillet
I'm new to cast iron pans, so excuse my lack of experience. I bough this skilled a few weaks ago and it came unseasoned. After doing some research online on how to season it, I followed the steps bellow:
  1. Washed it well and dried it 2. Liberaly smeared with oil, took off the excess and baked it the oven for around 30 mins. Afterwards, I took it out, reapplied oil and baked for another 30 minutes. 3. Let it cool completely overnight.
The next day when I took it out of the oven the coating didn't seem very good so I did the same process but this time I only applied oil once and cooked for a full hour. Afterwards I let it cool down fully in the warm oven.
The results can be seen on the pictures.
During my second use of the pan, I noticed black residue (most likely the seasoning) coming off on food (as you can see on the third picture).
What is going on?
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2023.05.30 22:12 SunnyZ606 How do I (and my neighbors) start bringing a class-action suit against a community management company?

I live in Denver, Colorado in a community of Condominiums. I pay an HOA fee every month, as does every resident of this community. The Community Management Company that collects these fees and manages the buildings is terrible.
They frequently do not maintain the outside of the building, or the landscape. Snow and ice piles up on the sidewalks in the winter, grass grows to thigh-high in the summer, etc.
At the moment, the balconies are falling apart. My unit is garden-level, and anyone walking past the loose iron fence that walls the drop to the patio in can fall right in.
The building negligence goes further. Last year, the six garden-level units on my line were flooded with sewage. Most of my neighbors have moved out, but I have to stay as I own the place. The HOA covered the damages but left me stranded with nowhere to stay for 2 months, without any reimbursement.
Now, the HOA/Community Management Company claims they cannot fix the pool (which has been closed for months) as they are using the funds to fix the sewer lines in the rest of the buildings, and to re-do the balconies. Except, there has been no work done in the year since my unit (and 5 others) flooded with sewage.
How do I organize my neighbors and bring a class-action suit against these people before they ruin more lives by ignoring the structural damages to the balconies (injury) and the sewer main damage (out of your home) under ALL of the buildings in the community?
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2023.05.30 22:12 AlecJTrevelyan Help with Running new 4" Vent through Existing Roof Boot

I need to run a Diversitech C-VENT3 concentric vent through my roof. Previous installer had the tankless unit running via "power vent" (just sucking in air from closet). This is for a Navien NPE-240a2. Navien has confirmed this specific concentric vent is compatible with the unit. I went up on the roof and was surprised by what I found. It appears to be a TPO/rubber flat roof. Previous installer used the existing hole from a double walled metal vent for traditional water heater. I can't cut this thing open to figure out what I'm dealing with before I start working on it. Instead, I'm trying my best to just plan accordingly. The new concentric vent I need to run through the hole has a 4" PVC pipe, so 4 1/2" OD. From inside the attic, the remnants of the existing metal vent is 4 1/2" diameter.
Photo Album Here:
  1. Any issues you guys see with me cutting out the existing setup and running the new vent through the same hole?
  2. At the base of the boot, there seems to be some kind of thick tape. I'm not a roofer - but I have seen that thick rubber "self bonding" tape used on boots before. I believe that is what this is covered in Henry's wet patch or similar product.
  3. I cannot tell from just looking at it if the vertical part of the vent coming out of the roof is PVC or the original metal vent. Any tips on how I could check without puncturing holes? My initial thought was to turn the gas off, turn the off, and take a tiny drill bit to it and see if the shavings were white plastic for PVC or metal. Don't want to do that unless I absolutely have to though.
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2023.05.30 22:12 Afraid_Nerve2564 Best Way to Pay for Towson?

Hello, I was wondering if anyone knows the best way to go about paying for Towson given my circumstances. To start off with, I'm in a financial grey area where I'm currently living with my parents and my parents do make a lot of money however the cost of living in my area is high enough that my parents cannot afford to put me through college. My parent's income is high enough that I cannot get grants. So I'm left with either scholarships and/or student loans.
The degree I plan on applying for is a bachelor's in Information Technology and I plan on applying as a transfer student from Howard Community College for the Spring of 2024. My GPA currently is 3.71 and I'm on my last class needed to graduate with an associate's degree that I hopefully will pass over the summer. I plan on coming in with an associate's degree in General Studies since the last few classes that are required for my initial degree that I was working towards won't transfer to Towson. The associate degree that I was initially taking was in Application Development.
I have spoken to Towson's financial aid, disability services (I have autism and ulcerative colitis), housing, and admissions offices as well about my interest in applying for the Spring term of 2024 at Towson. The admissions counselor said that I shouldn't be too worried about getting accepted and that if I transfer with an associate's degree and a GPA above 2.0 then admission to Towson is guaranteed. I don't know how true that is since I wasn't able to find anything on the Towson site that details anything about guaranteed admission but it did come from an admission counselor so I'm assuming it's a thing.
So far when it comes to paying for Towson I've been looking at student loans and scholarships as a way to help pay for Tuition but I'm unsure which ones I should be looking at and what's right for me. I estimated that in the worst-case scenario, tuition would cost around $77,000. Given the information above are there any scholarships for students in the Information Technology field or student loans with a low fixed interest rate that you guys would recommend?
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2023.05.30 22:12 lukipedia New Rule for Outbound Links and Crossposting, and Introducing AutoModerator

Hi all.
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Posts that do not contain a comment connecting the shared content to wilderness medicine are subject to removal.
This new rule also pertains to content crossposted from other subreddits. This policy does not apply to comments on existing posts.
In order to help remind people of this change in policy, we're in the process of adding u/AutoModerator to wildernessmedicine. The AutoMod will automatically comment on new posts containing links reminding users of this policy. If you experience any wonkiness with the AutoMod in the days to come, please let the mod team know.
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2023.05.30 22:12 Dependent_Post_2776 Reason of losing faith in God = OCD.

For 3 days I literally lose my faith in God, I start to lose my religion, but not in my heart, but in my brain. I feel like I've lost my faith, okay, let's see how long, I literally only need 15 minutes and I can't live without God anymore because he's calling me. Everything I do seems to distance me from God, I feel like a bad person, I have intrusive thoughts (I have been suffering from severe OCD for 2 years) and compulsions that distance me from God. I feel dirt in my body like there's a heavy pile of mud sitting on my chest never felt like this until I started getting intrusive thoughts about everything I do has to do with Satan no matter what I do I still have intrusive thoughts thinks saying: I am a Christian, then I have a thought: I am not a Christian, or you know that I am in a religion that is totally against God, you know what I'm talking about. It tires me a lot, because unfortunately I know that this is my disease, I can recognize it very well, but the best thing is that my heart, deeply filled with faith in God, tells me that it's not me, but the brain. OCD makes me think about things I would never think of in my life, the answer would be obvious, however when OCD attacks me I literally feel like I am everything OCD tells me I am.
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2023.05.30 22:11 Mereszk How to deal with family problems as a stoic?

I'm a 18 years old guy, attending a university from september, so I will have to leave my hometown. I live in a middle class family, I have a brother who is one year younger than me, my parents are together, but the relationship between them and my brother worsens each day, because he is the most ungrateful child in the world and my parents do not know how to be strict.
I would like to explain the problems a little bit more:
  1. My brother has everything on the world, but it's still not enough for him. My grandmothers gave us a car (which only he uses), my parents give him money for clothings, fuel, even for cigarette, but it's not enough for him so he works in McDonalds on weekends. My mom cooks everyday but he rarely eats his (instead he buys some shit at McDonalds or KFC). His grades are bad in school, so my parents sent him to private teachers in mathematics and english, but he didn't show up at math classes, because he thought it's useless (he will stop going to the english classes soon, because his teacher said it's pointless if he doesn't put in any effort). You would assume that at least he is not an asshole, but on top of all that he talks in the most disrespectful manner with my parents. Even his friends aren't that bad guys, I know some of them. He always had his flaws, but didn't use to be this big trash of a person. He was kinder and had good hobbies, like working out. He got his driving license in March and the situation has been this bad ever since.
  2. My parents cannot handle him. I do not want to trashtalk on my parents, because then I would not differ from my brother, but I have to tell the truth to show a clear picture. My father is overweight, has a bad job but earns good money, he dropped out of school (which my brother uses as an excuse for his lack of academic skills), but he is a really kind person and worked really hard to bring up his children and I respect him for that very much (our family didn't use to live in wellfare, my father learned skills by his own, while working in 3 shifts). Unfortunatelly, my brother doesn't see any of this.
  3. Finally, my mother. She always thought that the best way of rearing a child is to give him/her love, because she had a lot of troubles in her family (alcoholic father, her mother died early). Because of that, she can't punish her children really (I never was). She also doesn't have the best job in the world. She wants to give us everything and my brother takes advantage of her. It is also terrible to see that they can't team up against him, because they are weak.
I also have my fair share. I was a troublesome kid, I have changed (I've been practicing stoicism for 2 years now), but I set a bad example. I think the situation has been like this for a year now. Deep inside, I feel like my inaction contributed very much to this miserable situation. I'm often viewed the smartest in the family, but I wasn't capable to teach anything to my younger brother. Today, my brother wanted to attack my father (only with bare hand), because they had an argument again (it happens much more nowadays).
Despite all that, I belive I can do something (stoicism teaches that we can only control actions). Before I make up my mind on anything, I would like to ask for advices from you, dear stoics:
How could I improve the my family's state? How can I use stoicism the most efficiently here? What would a stoic do?
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2023.05.30 22:11 AdMore2091 have your families changed?

so i was at a family gathering tonight and all the aunts and uncles were discussing about their childhoods and it made me think of how things have changed. this might be specific to my family but I think people are a lot less afraid of their parents in my generation than they were in my aunts' time. Also how women were treated is also very different I feel but that's kind of obvious, despite that one change I think has happened is that earlier women, like my aunts, were taught to do both all the housework, and childcare along with having quite successful careers, like even the one who is a doctor does all the childcare while her husband, who has the exact same job does not to nearly as much. My extended family is a bit less conservative than the ones I'm used to so I was wondering what the general experience is like, in regards to how your family's teachings and values have changed from earlier generations.
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2023.05.30 22:10 neotericwizard Let's get over it.

Everybody's high on emotions after the prelims paper. I , as an aspirant am kind of lost after the answer key. But honestly, i made a few silly and foolish mistakes that's keeping me on the edge. Although, the nature of questions , due to the kind of options and not the theme are uncertain. There have been unknown and irrelevant themes in the past but we tackled it because of the option arrangement. Considering all this and knowing that I might or might not cross the cut off and might get lot of hate for saying out this loud. 1) UPSC needs to innovate to eliminate aspirants. 2) Our distress would not change anything and people who will clear will start preparing for mains anyway and the cycle will continue as usual. 3) There was element of luck in upsc cse all along its history.
I wish you all luck and good health. Cheers!
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2023.05.30 22:10 08lizziegrant16 (Ex?)boyfriend (26M) and I (22F) are in relationship limbo. What do I do?

To preface: Him (26M) and I (22F) met off a app strictly for hook ups and spent about 8 or so nights together before he returned overseas to the military. We thought it would be a fling, but ending up connecting on a deeper level and started dating a few weeks later. So our whole relationship has been long distance, 9 hour time difference, struggling to find time to FT and chat. But we’ve ultimately made it work for 5 months and it has truly been a life changing connection.
In the past month (out of the 5 months together), I was picking small and petty fights as I was becoming frustrated over him not knowing when he could come back to the US. I started to have doubts about if I was really cut out for long distance, but would always come back to the conclusion that he would be more than worth it (he moves back to our city end of March 2024, so not impossible). One night, however, we got into a bigger fight than usual (from both sides) and ended up coming to the conclusion: “Let’s just end it, it’s not worth it.” We’re both so hot headed and irrational with some decisions and I felt like this was definitely one of them. I started to try and find more reasons why we weren’t a good match, as a way to get over it/cope, and then made the impulsive decision to sleep with my ex hook up from before my current relationship. I am aware this was a bad decision and I instantly felt regret, sadness, etc. (I also have a lot of trauma with sexual addiction/abuse that my current boyfriend has helped me navigate so much.) So in going back to this person I felt it was a method of self-harm/destruction, as I was so upset and confused by what was going on in my relationship (not that it’s an excuse - just simply how my traumatized brain worked in that moment). I ended up telling my boyfriend what had happened which naturally felt like a betrayal as the two events happened so close together.
Now, him and I are in a state of limbo and I feel like I selfishly need an answer from him. I hate how I hurt him as I know, had the roles been reversed, I too would be shocked. He definitely regards our intimacy as such an important part of our relationship and was disappointed I allowed that with another person. We have both been through our own relationship traumas and I know we both deserve happiness and peace. I feel as though our connection is strong enough to move past this and that the life we’d have together when he moves back would be really fulfilling. But is it fair of me to essentially “demand” an answer of whether or not he can continue the relationship? I offered two weeks of no contact, so he can fully examine everything at a distance - but he is even unsure about that. As much as he is worth waiting for, I also think an answer for the both of us would help us heal and move forward - either together or separately. Any advice or comments are welcomed, thank you!
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2023.05.30 22:10 AutoModerator Casey Zander - Masculinity Blueprint (Complete Program)

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2023.05.30 22:09 Furrykc (Curseforge) (Java) How to change java version??

I'm playing minecraft through the "curseforge" launcher and there is a small problem, I can't change the java version!!! sometimes when i try to change the java version "Curseforge" launcher installs its java "1.8.2 51" because of this my game is not working!! How to fix this?? is it better to switch to another launcher??📷
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2023.05.30 22:08 JBealzebub Should I do the test?

My psychiatrist thinks I should be tested for autism. My therapist says she doesn't know if i am autistic or just have some big trauma symptoms. The test is $600, but I would like to know how a diagnosis changed the way you live. I don't want to pay for a billing code that doesn't change anything.
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2023.05.30 22:06 hurryUPshrimp77 Changing Text of Footage

Hi everyone, I want to start by apologizing for my poor description + question that's about to follow. I just started editing and know my lingo is way out there.
I have an animated clip I want to edit that involves characters texting each other. The texts are already seen on their cell phones (so image is hands holding phones, text message is on the screen) and the text isn't animated, like popping up or anything.
My question is: how can I change what that text says on the different cell phones?
I know from previous work that editors and graphics teams have built stuff like that out from scratch, sometimes frame-by-frame, but those involved moving images/elements as well.
Any pointers on this? Every video or article I've come across so far involves editing the text in captions or chyrons, but not editing what's actually already on the footage, and I know I'm just not asking the right thing.
Thanks so much in advance! Let me know if you need more clarity.
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2023.05.30 22:06 knudlen Since it seems to be 'Help me with my roster' day....

Since it seems to be 'Help me with my roster' day....
Hey all! Hoping to get some feedback on where I should be taking my roster. I started about 10 days ago and I've gotten to the point where I'm at the top of all the non big spenders in Arena each day, so I want to start looking at long term development.

Currently I've been focused on eternity since about level 40, but I haven't spent any rare resources on any heroes outside of Aurora's dodge skin with a lucky early scroll. I'd like to get Isis for Eternity and Fafnir for FART and have those be 2 of my 3 teams moving forwards, but beyond that I'm a little unsure what to do.

- Would using Eternity as my 'main' team keep me ahead of the F2P curve? Or should I switch my focus to FART once Fafnir appears?
- If I start spending skins/higher glyphs and gifts on my Eternity team, which ones will give me the biggest bang for my buck in terms of a starting point?
- Based on what I have now, am I close to a 3rd team that can punch a bit above its weight class with minimal resource investment?

I'm not really a spender, but I have a decent amount of gems from this 4x weekend and not many resources invested in anyone, so I have no problems changing if presented with a compelling argument. I'm also not fully free to play, but I'm already looking at purchasing Fafnir and Isis when they came along so I'd prefer for it to be an unlockable character if I'm adding someone else.

Thanks so much to everyone who took the time to read this and anyone who is willing to share their thoughts.
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2023.05.30 22:05 Alarmed-Explanation8 Can't get Homekit detections or Recordings to work

I can't seem to get Homekit detections or recordings to working. This is a a new setup on Debian using the preferred Docker installation method. I have a single Unifi G5 Bullet and Cloudkey Gen2. I have followed all of the instruction I believe, but I can't get 'proper' notifications working or recording working.
I can get a live view at all 3 streaming qualities. I have verified motion and "person" and "car" events are being received by Scrypted. However, I can only get basic "motion" detected notifications via Homekit. I have tried enabling "camera ai" in unifi protect and the additional object detection in Scrypted, but I never get anything other than "movement" detections in Homekit. I thought I had read you should disable everything but motion detection in Unifi Protect, and allow Homekit to process detections, but I can't find any specifics on how this is achieved.
Also nothing records. I never see " [HomeKit]: Camera recording session starting"
Following the troubleshooting recommendations I have:
- Rebooted all 11 possible home hubs
- Verified an Apple TV is the active hub
- Signed in and out of iCloud on my phone.
- Readopted the camera.
- I have only a single subnet (excluding the interface docker sets up).
- I have tried disabling all firewalls on the Debian server
- I have verified home hubs are connection into Scrypted via the Homekit console:
linux x64 #1 SMP Debian 5.10.179-1 (2023-05-12) server version: 0.23.0 plugin version: @scrypted/homekit 1.2.27 full ######################## 5/30/2023, 5:45:33 PM ######################## node modules /servevolume/plugins/@scrypted/homekit/node18-linux-x64-20230329 plugin loaded adding G5 Bullet [G5 Bullet] Device is in accessory mode and is online. HomeKit services are being published. Removed Recordings: 0: 0 bytes. Retained Recordings: 0: 0 bytes. mdns bind address [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection ######################## 5/30/2023, 6:00:29 PM ######################## [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection ######################## 5/30/2023, 6:17:42 PM ######################## [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection ######################## 5/30/2023, 7:57:48 PM ######################## [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection [G5 Bullet] HomeKit Connection 
I have another native HKSV camera, and it works fine. So I think my iCloud and other Apple settings are good. What other steps can be taken to debug the issue?
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2023.05.30 22:05 Jolly_Assumption_244 Why is it so difficult to feel good about myself

I F(25) have always suffered from body image issues. It all started when I was a kid. I was born a little over 2 kilos and for the first three years of my life I was on the smaller side. From the time I gained consciousness, I have seen myself to be this extremely big kid who got made fun of the way she looked. I also wore glasses and had short, curly hair. But eventually, as I grew up, I shed that weight and by the time I was 16/17, I became extremely thin. At 14 I also had a bout of anorexia but thankfully, I recovered from it and started eating again after I lost a lot of hair and missed my periods for 3 months. I should also note that by the time I turned 15, I started getting a lot of attention from boys and for the past ten years that has continued.
Even though, I haven't had any eating disorders since I was 14 or haven't become obese either, I find it difficult to accept the way I look. My weight keeps fluctuating and I keep gaining and losing 5-6 kilos. I have a dream physique in my head but idk how to achieve that and most importantly, I don't know if I will be happy post after I ave achieved that.
I did well in high school and now I am a doctoral student. I was under a lot pressure to perform well throughout my academic life because my entire family consists of over-achievers and me being a humanities student had to work doubly hard to prove my worth to my family. Currently, however not a day passes when I am not questioning my self-worth. I have had boyfriends who've loved the way I looked and am currently with someone who has never been critical of my body or face and is incredibly supportive but I feel like a piece of shit on most days.
I should also note that I have an elder sister who is extremely beautiful. My mother has always openly said how beautiful she is and she has always been somewhat critical of the way I look. Even when outsiders have called me pretty in front of my mother, she has made it a point to harp on my sister's beauty.
I also live in the constant fear that if I cannot live up to be a beautiful, highly educated woman, I will be socially ostracized. I have realised it's an irrational fear but I can't over it.
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2023.05.30 22:04 random-thr0waway Would this email be an appropriate way to ask about working remotely?

New college grad here, in the middle of my first job search and still sort of learning how to speak “corporate-ese.” I just received my first offer and would love to accept the job, but want to ask about possibly doing it remote, so I’d be very grateful for feedback on this email! This is what I have so far:
“Dear [Recruiter’s Name],
I’m thrilled to have received this offer and would absolutely love to be a part of the team at [Company]. I do have a few final questions before I accept formally; primarily, I was wondering if there would be any possibility of fulfilling this position remotely? I have a disability that makes finding transportation somewhat difficult, and after learning more about the role and its responsibilities during the interview, I feel confident that I could fill this position from home. Is there someone I should reach out to in order to discuss whether this might be an option?
Thank you very much for your help thus far! I look forward to being a part of [Company].
-[My Name]”
Again, I’m very new to this so just wanting to make sure I’m covering all my bases. Anything I should add/change?
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2023.05.30 22:04 Asshai How to install stuff on metal siding, fascia, and cap

Hi! I grew up in Europe, where the construction standards are very different (wood structures are quite rare, so of course, siding is too). So unfortunately, I can't call my dad and ask for advice! But I now live in NA, bought a condo with a nice patio, unfortunately I never did much to make it look cozy, mainly because I don't know shit about the best ways to attach / mount things on the siding or the fascia or the cap.
Just to be clear: I took the time to watch videos on how roofs and sidings are installed, etc. My main issues are as follows :
Here are a few pictures of the patio.
Thanks for any tips and suggestions you may have, that'll be super useful!
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