I’m a college student, so I’m currently living with my parents. I was wondering if it’s possible for me to DNA without my parents finding out. Is there anyway the owner of the house would be alerted to something like this? I have a job, so they wouldn’t question me being able to afford anything I order. I’m planning to do it through Amazon, and Amazon delivers through their own Amazon trucks in my neighborhood. They also upload pictures of the package at the door (I have my own Amazon account however, I’ve had it for a few years now).

So my neighbors (rental property) has been running a generator for 4 days continuously (day and night). My guess is they are powering appliances in a house that is NOT under construction (but couldn't care less). Its annoying to say the least.
Anyone know of bylaws that prohibit them from doing this?

I (38F) have three kids from a previous marriage and my fiancé (40M) has one child from a previous relationship. I’ve already done all my estate planning to make sure my assets gets distributed to my kids in the event of my death.
Now with a second marriage on the horizon, I’d need to get a pre-nup to make sure my assets still goes to my children in the event of death/divorce. I want to structure it in such a way where if we were to split down the road, we each walk away with the assets and liabilities that we came into the marriage with. To give you a bit of context, I’m a high earner and stocking a way quite a bit for retirement and have a good amount of equity in my house. My fiancé is also a high earner in his own right but has a different philosophy when it comes to financial planning and does not have anything saved for retirement (as well as a huge IRS debt). His net worth is still $100K’s positive (some real estate) but my NW far exceeds his and the disparity will be even wider as time goes on with future contribution/growth to my retirement portfolio.
I wouldn’t be opposed to buying a new house jointly 50/50 but it’s not a possibility for him due to not having the cash for the down payment. So the only option is for he and his son to move into my house. I understand the pre-nup in the event of a divorce. But what about in the event of my untimely death? My kids would be going to their biological father, but what about my house? He’d either take over the home and continue living here possibly forever, or he and my (future)stepson would have to move out of the house so the proceeds from the sale would go to the estate to be divided out to my children, as I intended? Both of these scenarios just don’t seem right…
How do others manage through this type of financial planning when it comes to blending a family?

I am actively suicidal. I have reasons not to do it (My family would be destroyed, and hell of course) but those reasons are susceptible to crumbling at any given moment when you've been so depressed for so long. You begin to justify both as not being "that bad" and "temporary consequences". I work from home and did absolutely nothing today and stared at the wall for hours contemplating how nothing I do in the next few hours would matter if I was just going to kill myself later tonight. Today is another day out of months and months and months of convincing myself that killing myself is not an option. I beg Allah to kill me in my sleep, give me terminal cancer, etc. This is how depressed I am, and have been pretty much since I was a child. The ease has never arrived. I was promised ease after hardship but I cannot for the life of me get a break. I cannot wait around for ease in the afterlife, I need it now; I am on the verge of committing. I've prayed hours upon hours, woken up for tahajjud, cried to Allah, taken medications, tried to put myself out there socially, seen therapists, etc; I am still suffering. Tawakkul is putting in the work while also putting trust in Allah. I put in the work, and I am trying so hard to reach out to Allah to no avail. I am in a dangerous state of mind. I don't know what to do. I've been this bad for 5 years now, but I've been depressed my whole life. I have dealt with severe social anxiety , depression and OCD since I was a child. Literally the moment I hit puberty it all hit me like a truck. I did things that are horribly wrong in an effort to cope growing up, and I've asked for forgiveness since. I never got a chance to develop properly. Maybe I am being punished in this life for what I did to cope. The problem is, I will eventually lose it and justify killing myself. I've tried everything - I've tried so hard. I am trying not to ruin my family's lives - they already have a horrible life. As much as my brain convinces me they will get over it and be better off, I know I could literally end up killing my dad from the grief of losing me. I know he will blame himself. My mom has already lost a daughter due to physical illnesses. My sister is autistic (Independent but still, sensitive) and has no one besides me and my parents. I wasn't nice to my sister growing up because I resented her for not being a "normal" sister to befriend after being excluded and ostracized at school, and I have since tried to show her love every day. I don't want to retraumatize her with my death. She will be left in a house of ruin. I think my grandma might drop dead if I do it. With that being said, I don't want to have to suffer to this extent for the rest of my life. With that being said, none of this is stopping my brain from contemplating suicide. I don't know of a single girl in my entire community who suffers to the extent that I do. I know everyone has their challenges, but mine are soo horrifically unique that I am completely isolated in my grief.
I am SCARED. I am so so so so scared of what I will do or what I will have to endure in this life if I don't. I literally see the rest of my life being severe depression, severe contemplation of death, never getting married, never managing to make genuine friends, growing old, losing my parents, growing ill, and dying in a nursing home.
I don't know what to do.

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i hope everyone is having a good start to their week and had a good weekend!
i’ve deleted most of my social media so i’m usually on reddit to have a chat or youtube to have a laugh when i’m on my phone. i’ve been playing pokemon violet and fortnite a bit so if anyone wants to play together in the future let me know!
facts about me:

• i’m Jay (a nickname), 21 years old, 5’7, on the thick side
• i was born and raised in Ohio. i live with my mom and i’m currently not in school or working but hope to find a part time job soon.
• i enjoy the outdoors and everything about nature so i make it a goal most days to get out a take a walk or hike at the park
• • i’ve struggled with mental health a lot regarding depression and anxiety as at times it has gotten severe and still can
• my biggest dream is to be pregnant and eventually be a mother as well as a wife
• i adore cat have grown to love them very much. i’m okay with dogs but i dont necessarily like being around them.
• i’m a HSP so finding the right job can be hard for me and i can be sensitive
• i’m a picky eater so i enjoy the basics, cheese, french fries, veggies like cucumbers and bell peppers, a light meat and a great sauce
• i’m a romantic but also with a sense of reality
• i can be pretty reserved and dont have any friends besides my mom being my best one.

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We are in contract on a house. It's in a nice location and has nice layout but needed some obvious TLC from the get go (new flooring, outdated kitchen/bathrooms, etc.). We decided it may be fun to do some updates on our own and would rather have an older house (1974) with a good layout than a flipped home so went for it. We're in a highly competitive area and have lost out on 5+ other offers over the last couple of years. Finally our offer was accepted on this one 21k over, contingent on inspections and no repairs asked under 2500$. Seller was also throwing in a new roof to add context.
Low and behold there were some pretty major issues. The previous owners have passed on and it was inherited by someone. When we inspected the crawl space there was an active leak spraying up into the insulation which had caused significant mold on beams and dampness. They obviously agreed to fix this and insurance handled having it mitigated, insulation replaced, and condition of wood assessed as good after dried. They even agreed to replace all the galvanized plumbing in house to PEX. There was an old high water stain in crawl space which was explained as a previous leak from neighbors drainage issue which was resolved in 2018 (there is some documentation to document some work done). There were many other smaller issues on inspection we didn't bother to try and have repaired (dishwasher, no chimney cap, irrigation leak, etc. etc., mostly do it yourself stuff but still probably a few thousand all together). The only other big one we added to repairs addendum was the sewer..
Had initial scope by general inspector identify "standing wastewater and root intrusion at 7-13 ft mark. Low to no slope up until about 50 ft. mark. Sellers agreed to rooter and rescope and follow recommendations but a rooter only company of course recommended to just recheck in a couple years and the line was "in good condition." I took the liberty of showing the video to a plumber with good reputation who said they would absolutely replace the line. May be able to get by a few more years with frequent rooters but it'll need to be replaced and could cause major issues. Could be a 9-12k job.
Our problem now is the sellers seem to be done with repairs and say they have a backup offer or would consider putting it back on the market. I get they have done a lot of work already, we may do one last ditch effort of trying to get some closing costs to cover the work, but part of me is worried with so many issues maybe we should just let it go to someone else to deal with. I know there are always issues with houses but this one seems to have had a lot of them. Then again another part of me thinks we're probably just lucky for getting an offer accepted and a seller to do ANY work. Ugh, turns out this process has been anything but fun, any perspective or thoughts on the matter welcome.

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My wife (HL, 30F) and I (LL, 34M) (married for 8 years) have been having a rough time for the last year or so. A lot of fights, and zero sex for the last 6 months. A lot of our issues stem from being the classic emotionally unavailable husband. We've talked, I've listened, and I've been working on it consistently for the last 7-8 months. I'm going to therapy, reading books, watching videos, audiobooks, podcast, etc. I've learned attachment styles, personality types, and how to validate feelings. I've done a lot of work and our relationship is improving a lot. However, our sex life is non-existent. She says she finds me attractive but not in a sexual way. She's always told me our sex was great, and that she was satisfied. During one of our talks to work through things she tells me it's always been bad and she didn't want to hurt my feelings. She's the only person I've ever slept with, so I lack a lot of experience. She's communicated some of the ways it was bad, and that it just wasn't the type of sex she wants. She's told me what's she does want and like everything else I've been doing the work to try and get better and to understand what she wants and how to give her that. It's really the only thing that's keeping our relationship from being repaired, but the few times I've tried to initiate sex she's been quick to dismiss it. Can a dead bedroom like this even be fixed or am I. Just wasting my time with this relationship? It's been roughly a year, I've worked on myself emotionally, and physically, I've improved my hygiene, my style, my body, and nothing seems to help. I've stayed at a families house for a little while but she always wants me to come stay with her and to cuddle, and idk anymore. I think it's probably getting close to the end because I dk what else I can do to save it. I guess im hoping someone has some kind of advice because I really don't want to lose my family.

Hi, any type of feedback back would be great!
So I wanted to get a dog for me and my family and before doing so I asked my landlord if I could get a dog and they said no because they had a jack Russell and it teared up the house.
I explained where the dog will be each day and about if any damages occurred we would pay etc etc I explained the training we are doing.
So they said no then I filled out a vCat form and sent it to my agent and I haven’t heard anything since the landlord said no.
Where do I go from here?
Ps I got the dog (but it’s in secret I really wanted to do the right thing)
What should I do?

For context. There's a guy I'm talking to online. We've spoken a lot and have known each other for almost two years off and on. I love him. I do and can't shake the feelings it seems. He says he loves me back and wants to meet up. He promises to give me a life I deserve, he even sent me houses to look at for our future.
The problem is we fight every now and then. We stop talking to each other for days on end. He likes other females posts on Tiktok that show major cleavage and are just thirst traps in general. I have no idea if he's being genuine with me or if he's stringing me along and telling other women the exact same thing.
I can't shake these feelings for him, but I can't trust that he's being truthful with me either. Any advice is welcome please.

I haven't posted on this thread yet because my dad isn't at the level as a lot of ndads mentioned here (my heart goes out to all those who have suffered from emotional or physcial abuse by their parent). My main issues with him have been that he is extremely emotionally immature and treats me like the "parent"...he uses me as a therapist, expresses little to no interest in my life (just calls to talk for hours about his interests), constantly complains about my mom to me and generally expects me to fix/do things for him.
I have managed to maintain a relationship with boundaries but have reached a breaking point since becoming pregnant.
Not once during my pregnancy has he asked how I am doing or feeling. He calls me to talk about all things he is interested in and them just concludes the call with..so that is what is going on with me. No questions about my health or well being. His birthday is early July (when my baby is due) and he wanted to plan a visit to celebrate HIS birthday. I had to remind him that I will likely be in labor at that time and therefore cannot entertain him, and he just said..."oh ok I didnt realize the baby was due then"...even though I have mentioned multiple times when I am due.
He also has been trying to drag me in the middle of his arguments with my mom. For example, he complained that she "didn't appreciate" the mothers day cards that he bought her and then told me he is depressed because of it and it's my mom's fault. He also proceeded to send me the "rejected" cards in the mail. I asked him why he sent me the cards and he didn't give me a straight forward answer, but it was clear that he was being petty and wanted me to see how much "effort" he had put into mothers day and and thought I would be on his side upon seeing the three cards he picked out for her. Instead it just made me resent him for being so passive aggressive and childish.
Today, I heard from a cousin of mine who checked in to see how I am feeling. She mentioned that my dad invited her to come visit and stay with me in the fall...so now he is treating this like a fun party where people can come crash at my house when I have an INFANT to take care of. At NO point did he ask me if this was what I wanted or if I would be OK with extended family visiting. So basically my dad is expecting me to host others so they can meet his grandson. My cousin is thankfully a practical and empathetic person and said she would be happy to fly up if that's what I wanted / needed, but that she would understand if I needed space to take care of the baby.
At this stage (I am 36 weeks), I have stopped answering calls and have been responding to his texts very selectively. I don't have the energy to be his therapist, marriage counselor, etc. while taking care of myself and prepping for the baby. Some days I feel guilty and like I am the bad guy, but his lack of care and concern for me is really stressing me out so I just decided I need to put myself first and limit communications. Wondering if anyone else can relate.

I've never bothered before. I've always been successful, but it's always such a stressful pain in the ass. I'm to old and busy and just don't care enough to try and fight anymore.
I got 3 kids who have been dying to go since my oldest joined me in 2017. I joined TA for the pre sale. Is it really all that much easier?

So funny story. Did a 3 hour drive to make a dealer trade so we can sell this truck tomorrow. I have never done a dealer trade before. My manager comes up to me and essentially spoonfed the deal which is besides the point but i had no idea what this deal was or what the moving parts were. He just said I’m going to trade the truck for a deal tomorrow. It was a 80 mile drive. I go to the dealer, I go inside and tell the sales manager I got a dealer trade. He says ok cool let me see what truck. I hand him the paperwork and after they look over the truck i brought and they hand me the keys to the trade truck. So now im driving back in the traded truck and I go to the wrong dealer first because siri fucked up. Tell my manager i wont be back in time before close and he said its fine ur an idiot but its fine, bring the truck to the dealer tomorrow. Ok I get home 30 min ago and im double checking i got the key for the trade truck and then I feel an extra set of keys. Its the keys for the truck i left.
you think they’ll crucify me? Ive been at this dealer for 2 1/2 weeks, my first time doing a dealer trade and it was a total shit show. If you were a manager what would you do? Was I suppose to leave the keys in the car? Were they suppose to ask because I was told they shouldn’t have to ask for the keys. Now I just feel like an idiot sandwich. Pls help me guys hahaha

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- Onboarding Clients
- Managing Client Communication...
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