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2023.06.07 10:35 Basic-Ad5314 I give up
I'm tired of the stubbornness and refusal to accept what you're being told and shown thus far. If you can't accept what has been conveyed by this point, you're probably not going to accept anything else. I give up.
The images in the video are not made up, they are not a lie. They are the result of weeks of work and money spent to use AI programs for image enhancement. The ignorance here is overwhelming, the blatant refusal to accept what you see as real when there can be no other explanation for its existence, is disturbing and frustrating. Communicating with this forum is worthless. Anyone that pursues the matter by actually going to Panama shouldn't be surprised if they eventually discover they've been following the wrong story. Does what you're being told closely fit the evidence? You have to ask yourself that question. If they girls had returned even just to Mirador, their phones would have been pinged by the local network. If they story you believe is that the girls were anywhere close to town, but if the cell phones don't correspond with that idea, then you're just chasing a ghost to nowhere. The Panamanians have come up with a story that might be two different girls, but not Kris and Lisanne. They blame the deaths of Kris and Lisanne on people that are now dead and cannot speak for themselves. If Feliciano or Henry were guilty, why would Hans, Roelie, and Martijn use him as a guide for their own walks on the trail? Do your own research and put it together. It has taken me nearly two years to do just that and now I know what happened. I have tried to share some of it with you, but all I get in return is resistance. Fine, I give up.
BTW, the woman's face can't be fake when you can enhance her corneas and see what she's looking at. That cannot be faked.
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2023.06.07 10:34 Distinct_Dog9659 Players got an easy way to get in touch with Strahd
So, I'm a first time DM and we're having lots of fun so far. My players entered Barovia (I used the Vistani messenger as a hook) and after discovering the real letter decided to carry out the last will of this unfortunate soul (one of my players is a Minotaur which has 2 homebrew abilities and one of them is to once a day discover the last will of the dead creature).
They carried the letter back to the gate. After putting it down near the gate, they had a brilliant idea to also write a note and hang it in front of the gate too, to warn any other adventurers of the danger inside....for some reason they decided to write the note in blood of one of the players. As soon as they hung it up and looked away for a moment, it disappeared (I was just going for spooks, but hey, that's a pretty handy thing for Strahd/anyone else to be scrying on them)
Some time later they are going through the Death House. At this point they hate evil Devil Strahd (they only heard the opinion of the Barovian people about him so...) but have no clue as to how he looks apart from him being a vampire.
They got into the House's dungeon and had an encounter with the Statue. They decided to burn it down, fought 3 shades, after which the Statue snuffed out all of the flames. They are creeper out with it.
And in this situation my Minotaur player decides it'll be an amazing idea to impersonate the statue with his newfound wolf companion.
He stands up in the exact same way, his hand on the wolf's head while the other is reaching out.
I'm thinking "Hey, that's neat, I should do something fun with it". I describe how as he does so, he sees something shine under the Statues cloak.
Our Wizzard hands him his sphere to make the impersonation even more successful.
The shining intensifies.
Our Paladin puts his cloak onto the Minotaur, completing the image.
The shining disappears. A second later the Minotaur notices he now has a ring with blood-red gem in it on his hand. Whenever he tries to remove it, he succeeds, only to find it back on his hand a second later.
He decides to use his other homebrew ability - touch his ancestors necklace to seek their wisdom about this precarious situation. Yet this time instead of a mighty Minotaur in his peak form he sees the person looking exactly like a statue appear. That person scans the group with his gaze, looks at the minotaur (still in a cloak and with a wolf and a sphere), smiles and disappears.
That player can "seek guidance" with his necklace only once a day. And I'm thinking Strahd could be interested in someone trying to impersonate him so hard. Besides, that sounds fun as hell!
So, I'd like to ask for YOUR wisdom, o mighty spirits of Reddit, what would be an interesting way to handle this ability from now on? I was planning to make it a way for me to provide party with tips on how to best some monsters without breaking immersion, but now... Well, I could still do that, but asking for Strahds help? That should never be a trivial thing or a mere "tip". I want his presence to be intimidating and powerful.
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2023.06.07 10:33 dogdog18376 Tooth filling has been painfully sensitive for nearly year, and has suddenly stopped, should I be worried or is google scaring me?
I had two dental filling’s nearly a year ago, top one hurt super bad (was over filled) and kept telling the dentist but he kept acting like I was over reacting and that I wasn’t waiting long enough that I need to give it months, I felt like something was wrong, so I went to another dentist after about 3 months and he was kinda shocked and redid just the bottom one because some decay was left behind.
The top one he DIDNT do started to break away and started to have more bad sensitivity that I just honestly kept ignoring it. Since he didn’t see any decay, redid one bottom tooth, I just thought maybe I was the problem and was over reacting. Now they’ve both broken away (top broke itself and bottom more) and are sensitive, but the top one I’ve had the longest has been worse in sensitivity and pain.
It’s like 4am right now, and I noticed my top one has pain/sensitivity that seems to stopped rather randomly. I even kept swishing around ice cold water because that used to hurt so bad I couldn’t take it, but now there’s 0 pain.
I’m worried to call my dentist because I had this EXACT issue before on the exact same tooth, but he just told me it’s gingivitis and the pain I’m experiencing probably isn’t anything else. I don’t want to “keep crying wolf” and they don’t take me seriously. I doubt they’ll even do an X-ray, I asked both dentist to give one but they keep refusing saying I don’t really need it. It’s been about a year or more since my last full mouth x-ray. I have had bite-wings, that DIDNT show decay about 6-9 months ago.
I had none of these issues until the first dentist claimed I needed fillings, and since then after so much $$ and pain I still can barely eat and drink on the left side of my mouth. I’m so afraid of the dentist but I’m more afraid of decay.
What do I say to my dentist? Should I say I have pain that stopped, do I say it’s an emergency, so I just make a normal appointment? What’s the longest I should wait? Am I actually over reacting?
Ask any questions and I’ll answer. Thanks for helping me.
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2023.06.07 10:33 NoticeCautious3899 Offering: French🇫🇷, seeking: Russian
Hey, I'm a 28y/o French guy living near Paris, I'm learning Russian and I'm looking for some Russian speaking friends to practice the language or just talk in English (or French) about any topics. If you're not a Russian speaker but interested in talking to a French guy, you're also welcome :)
About myself: I love discovering new music and going to concerts, visit museums, traveling when I can, science fiction books and movies, football (and other sports in general), running, cycling, etc.
Please write me directly instead of leaving a comment, if you're interested in chatting
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2023.06.07 10:33 GalerionTheAnnoyed Anyone else using outposts to farm plague samples while looting an area?
Whenever I'm looting a populated area, I create an outpost there and activate the mines. Lets you kill hordes easily, especially juggernaut hordes. And I frequently get lots of plague samples from them which is well worth the cost.
The new outposts are just so darn good, I feel like a capitalist god. Zombies getting annoying while looting? Watch me create this outpost in a few seconds and blow everything up.
What's more, I love seeing screamers near my outposts now. They scream and invite all their friends who die in the mines. Free plague samples!
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2023.06.07 10:32 No_Resident_6823 Australia VS Netherlands
I (an international student) recently got an opportunity to pursue my undergrad in both of these countries and i’m having difficulty in choosing. id like to know what you’d choose if you were me based on standard of living, quality of life, education, future prospects etc,
Australia: bachelor in business administration from a group of eight uni in the national capital. course starts in july.
Netherlands: Bsc business administration from a research uni near Arnhem. course starts in august.
Both have great courses and specializations offered but Australia has more variety and flexibility. Duration is 3 years for both.
I require a study visa for both countries but haven’t applied yet.
Netherlands: thankfully i have housing for the first year. what worries me is if i’ll be able to find accommodation for the next two years and further given the housing crisis.
Australia: haven’t started looking for accommodation yet but im sure i’ll get one on campus.
i propose to get work experience in the respective country after bachelors and earn a decent amount of money. i hope to return to my home country in 3-4 years. no plans of settling in a country abroad as of now.
haven’t started learning dutch yet. i propose to learn it during my stay.
the tuition fee for both unis is almost the same. i plan to work part time to cover my living expenses or even tuition fee (if that’s even possible)
i’m a shy person but willing to socialize in order to get by 👍🏻.
PS: being vague with the details so i don’t doxx myself
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2023.06.07 10:31 Swimming-Quit2927 Tips for neutralising cat aggression?
My whippet (male, 18 months old) absolutely HATES cats. He never shows any aggression under any other circumstances but when he sees a cat he turns into a different dog. Hackles up, tail straight as an arrow, barks aggressively (he never barks EVER unless there’s a cat).
I introduced him to friend’s and family’s cats as a puppy and he was quite happy to meet them, but he has never had any up close interactions with cats ever since. The only cats he ever sees are our neighbours cats, who sometimes sit in our garden or drive way. If he spots them, he goes crazy! I’m worried one day he’ll catch one due to his speed.
There’s a big fat farm cat that we often see on our daily walk and he goes crazy when he sees that too. This cat isn’t scared of him at all and will come right up to us (I used to fuss over the cat before I got my dog so it likes me). I’ve tried sitting down near the farm cat to get him used to being in its presence and reward him for being calm, but he only gets more wound up the longer we’re around it. I think he thinks we’re staking it out, rather than trying to be it’s friend.
I know this is pretty typical of sighthounds, but is there anything I can feasibly do to safely neutralise his aggression towards cats or is it just a case of managing the circumstances? Any advice welcome :)
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2023.06.07 10:30 burntbroccoliass Dulcolax
Just wanting to vent, I suppose. A couple of months ago, I got a 200 pack of Dulcolax from Costco. I take 5 of them every 3 days. Tonight I realized that I only have 25 left. Now I’m just here like, wtf is wrong with me? I’ve been abusing laxatives and vomiting for 18 years. My esophagus is damaged and I’m frequently worried about colon cancer due to the guilt I feel about my laxative abuse. I feel like it’s impossible to stop because I’m in too deep. Even though I don’t purge or take laxatives every day, I still can’t go a week without doing either. I can’t even tell my therapist about this shit because I don’t want anyone to know how bad it’s gotten.
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2023.06.07 10:26 adambrookes999 Sleeping in problem
I have this problem where my alarm will go off in the morning and I subconsciously press snooze and go back to sleep about 5 times in a row. As a result of this, I’ve been nearly late to work for a while and today I was late. I’ve tried sleeping with the blinds open to let sunlight in and I’ve tried using 2 alarms on 2 devices but I still press snooze. Any advice for me to get out of this habit?
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2023.06.07 10:25 stiffyness 33 m4f westchase. Neglected dad in need of some sensual care
Im 33 in a co parent / divorcing marriage. I havnt been touched or anything near sensual intimacy in close to four years. Looking for a lonely or bored woman who would like to snuggle and caress..maybe more if the mood strikes us but definitely not required. My ex-ish isnt going anywhere due to obvious and im not looking to change things rn so i can still be with kid. Looking for now or we can schedule. Im 6ft 160lbs with athletic build. Dont have to be fit or even small just proportional. Dm me with a picture and a small explanation of yourself.
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2023.06.07 10:25 DrunkCapricorn Background in Criminal Law/Case Management Leaving Work to be a Stay At Home Mom - What Career Should I Move To When My Child Starts School?
As the title states, I (38F) have a background in criminal law (I was a criminal defense investigator, not an attorney) and am currently working as a case manager at a mental health non-profit (I work with clients long term who have persistent mental health disorders, I do not have a Masters degree). I was an investigator at various law offices around the country for a few years over a decade and have been in my case management job for almost a year. My B.A. is in Sociology. I'm currently pregnant with my husband and I's first child, at about 22 weeks (!!!) and plan to leave my job to become a Stay At Home Mom until our child starts preschool or kindergarten. My goal is to return to work at that time but I need a break from jobs that are so emotionally draining. I figure l'll have a few years to prep for the career change and am hoping I can squeeze in some classes, volunteering, interning, etc to get ready. That's where you all come in! I have some ideas about what I'd enjoy and what I don't want, however, getting into the mental health non-profit was my attempt at breaking away from my need to work in a helping profession. Unfortunately, that has failed and I am back to the burnout levels I had towards the end of my career as an investigator. So...I think I lack insight and knowledge of the job market outside of these helping professions and would like assistance.
Some things about me that might be helpful for making suggestions:
I am definitely an introvert. Being around people drains me, doubly so dealing with those who live in chaos with mental health issues. I have major league compassion fatigue and what they call "secondary trauma" in the helping industries.
Prefer a job working from home or where I could control my schedule to some degree, mostly so I can move forward keeping my family as a priority.
I have mostly worked jobs that are severely underpaid for what you deal with. I think the most I made as an investigator was around $25/hour. Currently I make around $17. I'm sick of that.
I am currently in a larger city in the western USA. Not sure if we are staying here or moving somewhere relatively rural out east. We should know for sure within two years.
I LOVE birds, especially parrots. Originally I dreamed of a career working at a rescue/sanctuary. I do also really like all other animals as well. I am truly happy when surrounded by birds and caring for them. I tried the vet tech route a few years back but I washed out of the program due to some personal struggles I was going through at the time plus the financial limitations of the careestress.
My husband and I are working on a list of transferable skills. To give you an idea: critical thinking, attention to detail, de-escalation, verbal communication, ability to get alo g with nearly anyone, conflict management, written communication, persistent and persuasive, familiarity with criminal justice system and to a lesser extent social welfare programs. There are many more with more detail that I can post too if it would be helpful.
My husband makes enough money to support us three but in a large city cash is pretty tight. Point is, I'm not in a huge rush to get working again when I can but it would be very helpful for our financial situation.
Some jobs I have considered: radiology tech, phlembotomist, dental hygienist, vet tech, data analyst/tech (except I have no background or education in this field and suck at straight up programming), donations manager for a non-profit (more interacting with donors than accounting), any remote variation on my former careers (remote case management, investigation). I'm not opposed to pursuing more education but I'd rather not go deeply into debt or have to start from scratch pursing another bachelor's degree.
I'm sure there is something I'm forgetting for this post but it is plenty long enough as it is. Any advice, guidance, encouragement, etc would be very much appreciated. I'm posting this is the dead of night - in no small part because this question often keeps me up at night.
Thank you all in advance and have a lovely day! :)
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2023.06.07 10:25 Dynasty__93 How would you interpret a conversation I had with a city cop?
So I am sure many will read the title but not the body. I will say I have my opinions of cops, prisons, etc and it is mostly a progressive view but not entirely. I believe the entire United States has a lot of roots still tied to slavery and segregation. To look at the big picture we have made slavery and segregation illegal on paper but we just hoped over time the reproductions of slavery and segregation would go away... And they have not. Black people make up approximately 12% of the US population is black. Yet nowhere near 12% of large corporate CEOs or founders are black. So I get that the entire system is still rigged against racial minorities.
Now on to my recent conversation with a cop. I will just summarize by saying I asked their opinion of the social unrest in 2020 after the murder of George Floyd. They quickly answered what happened to Floyd was a murder, the cops deserve the prison time they got, but that did not like they did not like having to work 14 hour shifts 7 days in a row during social unrest in their city cop job because of people looting, along with people throwing bricks at the cops. Mind you this cop is a city cop in a city in the east coast. In their exact words they said people should be more upset with not law enforcement but instead be upset with the people who maintain the status quo: Politicians, CEOs of corporations, banks, etc. In their view the ideas that became popular in 2020 like defunding the police are things the white supremacists, the ultra rich, etc all want because that means less cops, which will then lead to more crime and will disproportionately affect the poor, minorities, etc.
So basically this cop gave me some perspective. They are a friend of a friend I met in college and just casually did a 10 minute FaceTime with them. They said they fear not enough people will want to go into law enforcement because the news reports every time a cop does or does not do something wrong. For example they explained that the chief of their city has said but not put in writing to not pull people over for traffic violations. This eventually gets discovered and speeding/street racing/etc rise and leads to injuries = People then get up and arms about "where are the cops"? At the end they summarized their beliefs with an example from 2021 where they responded to a person breaking into someone's car parked on the street at night. A lady called it in because it was her SUV that got the window broken, and the thieves stole her AirPods from the center console. It took this cop 9 minutes to get there because of critical vacancies and when they got to the residence the woman was yelling it took so long... The icing on the cake in their opinion was that she had a "defund the police" bumper sticker on her car. Their last comment to me was that prior to George Floyd's murder police departments were already running short staffed. Many cops quit within the month of the Floyd murder and now mandatory overtime is constant.
How would you interpret what this cop said? It definitely gave me some perspective and I agree mostly that people throwing things at police during protests is wrong. I do completely agree that a lot of people who want to defund the police seem to just give a pass to corporations, the judges, politicians, etc who are the ones who delegate funds/actually make the laws to keep institutional racism going. Cops are needed because even in a clean, progressive, educated society there will still be home invasions, carjackings and murders. I myself will close by saying that there are probably few jobs out there that suck as much as being a cop. You are hated by many people on the left because they think you are a pig, a racist, etc. You are hated by many on the right, just for different reasons. Take a look at January 6 and how the Trump GQP assholes treated capitol police.
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2023.06.07 10:25 Ok-Relief-723 Hey, I started a coffee plantation with little experience with farming so looking for some answers and guidance!
How can I improve my coffee crops? As you can see, they appear discolored. We water them regularly, but they still have issues. What type of compost or treatment should I use? I currently use banana trees for shading, but they are still small. What can I do in the meantime? I'm new to coffee farming and would appreciate any advice.
Are there any improvements I can make to my medium-scale coffee field? The coffee trees are affected by rust disease, and I don't know how to resolve it. Some leaves also have a black, soot-like coloration, and there is a yellow discoloration issue. I'm seeking solutions for these problems. How should I address shading? The banana trees are not providing sufficient shading yet. Are there other shading methods that might be more effective? Is my planting density correct? What is the ideal density of coffee trees per acre? Currently, we have a spacing of 60cm between the coffee trees. What is the most suitable irrigation system for coffee plants? Water access is not a problem due to the nearby lake, but the current manual watering method is laborious and not scalable. We've recently tried using a water pump with a hose, which is less tiring but still not efficient. Considering our limited resources, which irrigation system (drip or sprinkler) would be better suited to our situation? Should we rely solely on chemical fertilizers like Ammonium sulfate, Blaukorn, DAP, and dolomite? I watched a YouTube video suggesting that these fertilizers can be detrimental to the soil, trees, and surrounding water sources in the long run. How frequently should we water the coffee plants? Is there an online community for coffee planters? Perhaps a subreddit or a Discord group where I can connect with experienced coffee farmers? As a complete beginner in agriculture and coffee cultivation, how can I expand my knowledge in this field?
What we have done so far:
We have applied "MadaSul Ammonium Sulfate Fertilizer" in combination with Blaukorn fertilizer. We conducted controlled experiments with varying ratios of Ammonium sulfate and Blaukorn (50/50, 90/10, 75/25), and we also used a mixture of DAP, Ammonium Sulfate, and Blaukorn for a few dozen trees. Additionally, we have added Dolomite to all the coffee trees. We have used a fungicide called Fongicure due to a suspected infection in the plants. However, we are still awaiting results. We have experimented with a mixture of dish soap, olive oil, and water to address the issue of black rot, but we have yet to see results. Any advice you can provide would be greatly appreciated. I am located in a remote area of Madagascar near a lake, where there is no electricity or running water apart from the lake as a water source. The area is very isolated, and although I do not reside there, I have field workers who report to me.
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2023.06.07 10:23 Gorepriest Is it only me? Am i wrong?
Made a comment and wanted to see opinion of others in here. Maybe i am just completly wrong
Dunno at which state of the game you are but i have so many hours in this game (4k+ with lots of afk hours) but just let you know...
RNG Systems ingame:
Runes Some runes drop from Worldboss and people complain that they dont have everything after playing multiple month.
Island Souls Vertical content but it took me around 4 month to get 91 island souls and newer player will have to invest more time cause some island are just dead. No people are doing that stuff and you have to hit a breakpoint of ppl to get events done/starting.
Secret Maps Also vertical content but you have to do it, atleast to get some runes done. Takes forever and for example oblivion island, i am doing that adventure island for more then 5 month and still dont have the secret map.
WorldTree Leafes Totally RNG based. I am at 69/73 leafes and farming for more then 3 weeks for the last ones with no luck. Spend for green pouches from punika merchant more then 11 platinum field tickets and still dont have the leaf out of the pouches. Currently at ~21 days for buying for 3000 gathering powder the pouches. Also Mining/Chopping the last 2 weeks and got nothing....
Cards I have LOS 30 and LWC 30. Done Card runs to yorn+, Argos and Oreah abyss on all my chars for about 10 month. Addionally i bought 2x the 3+1 Pack for 80 € and multiple weeks of maris card pack (gold to BC). For the new set (Dark Damage), i am missing so many cards. Done valtan for more then a year and clown since release on 6 chars, i have of both cards only 4 of each and you need 15 each to get it fully awaken.
CardEXP Once you reached the point ingame where you need it. You are missing a lot of that. With the new cube you get nearly no card xp.
Quality Upgrades Its just a gold burn. Some a really lucky and some have no luck at all. Got on my destroyer after 3 taps 97 quality and on my artillerist i have burned more the 80k gold to get 79 quali on the weapon.
Honing Tapping is just pain. Main is at 1580+ and had luck on most parts but for example both of my supports had to pity weapon from 1540-1550 and my bard also from 1550-1560. It just lets you feel like a piece of sh** and expenses are increasing more and more. Game decreases the fusion mats just by every tier. Currently we are at 20 fusion mats from crafting and next tier we only get 15 fusion mats. Gold for tapping get also more and more required.
Tripods I play my main 6 for more then 12 month and am still missing a lot of level 5 tripods. Once i get stuff from chaos dungeon i always use the powder to increase my chance to 20% for the tripod exchange. It feels more like 3-5% of getting a tripod done. Such a bad system espacally for classes which released later. Why should you be punished by a rng system to do less damage. Some builds feel just bad if you dont have the right tripod levels
Ability Stones RNG, RNG, RNG and Pheons. As a owner of 9/7 and multiple 7/7+ stones. Calculators do nothing for you. Game decides if you are lucky or not. Miss 6x 75% and hit 6x 25% is normal...
Income.. Since we have 3 legion raid the income per char did not increase. Maybe +- 1000 gold per week. Currently running vkyas hm 4500g, clown 4500g, brel hm (10500g) or Brell NM (8500g) . So per Char around 17500g to 19500g. For 6 Gold earner 105.000g to 117.000g
Biggest complain is just, there is no cap system for failing. Well only for honing. Doing valtan on 12 chars for 3 weeks and get no card, just feels bad. Spending a big bunch of your resources to get a world tree leaf and still dont get is the same. Over and over getting pi**** by not hitting a qualitiy upgrade. Getting tripods in CD to miss stuff again...
I am playing this game only, because i found some friends in it. Otherwise i could just go into a casino and have the same fun.
Chars.. Main 1580+, Main Alts 5x 1550+, Others 6x 1460+
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2023.06.07 10:22 ConfusionBest357 AITAH for getting mad at my brother for dating my ex?
Hello everybody I’m gonna try to make this short so here it goes I M18 found out a couple weeks ago my brother was dating my ex Ik I probably sound like a bitch but please just listen The ex F18 me and her where dating almost two years ago for about 3 months which is not a lot but it’s what she did to me is why I’m so upset about it She ræped me and had forced me to do things I didn’t want to do or where uncomfortable with Like how she forced me into a poly relationship and made me have sex with her or just touching me out of no where even when I asked to stop and it was making me uncomfortable. After I broke up with her I told my brother (M19) about all the she did to me and he was one of the only ones who believed me at the time He and friends knew how I felt about ppl I knew talking to interacting with her as she is the reason I can’t handle it when ppl touch me or even get near me. A couple weeks ago I overheard my brother talking on the phone with her (I knew it was her because once I walked in his room they where on video call) I got extremely upset and yelled at him and he yelled back at me saying I should just let him do what he wants, and what he wants to do is date my ex (that’s when he told me he was dating her for about 4 months) I got extremely upset and told family members about it and all they said was to just get over it. I don’t know what to do and I feel like I am an asshole Idk So yeah I’m sorry if I didn’t explain that well This has been on my mind for days, to the point i can’t even sleep Help?
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2023.06.07 10:21 Zen-Paladin Do any of you have ADHD as well? Does meds/treatment help you with your job?
Hey everyone. So not a nurse myself, but am an 23M EMT(working special events currently). I was about to call it quits with EMS in general and even my long term goal of being a police officer due to failing 3 911 jobs due to not passing probabtion(failing to memorize protocols/georgraphy, too fast or slow, noted being out of it at times, etc) but then after talking to an elementary classmate with ADHD and wondering about ''developmental academic disorder'' that was in my ongoing conditions list, I sought a diagnosis.
Long story short, hit damn near all the criteria, like I was being asked rhetorical questions about my life story. Diagnosed in late February with ADHD combined presentation, moderate severity. But after the LMFT was finished with the assessment, I asked for clarification that I really had it. She said yes, and that also it was because my records said I was diagnosed as a child for the same issues that followed me into adulthood(procrastination, difficulty paying attention, failure to finish tasks, very disorganized, impulsive behavior, etc). Turns out my mom(a registered nurse my whole life) declined treatment i.e. medication, apparently more than once during the process as it said ''continues to decline''.
When I confronted her about this, she legitimately didn't seem to remember, but also said she and my dad(dead for two years now) weren't gonna put me on meds because:
-They would have made me a drug addict or given me Parkinson's/dementia later in life.
-You don't need to take psych meds unless you have something like bipolar disorder or schizophrenia(this may be due to my sister having a bad experience with anti depressants when she once tried them).
-Since I am vegetarian I shouldn't put synthetic chemicals into my body since I should be about consuming only all natural stuff. She said I would be fine with only therapy and that's the only thing she would change looking back.
-She doesn't stop me from taking them(now at least), but she has said I should try homeopathic/holistic medicine instead. I asked my psychiatrist and she said I can try it for myself, but she can't endorse it as it isn't FDA approved or regulated. I told my mom this and she said I needed to do the research and that they always push medication for profit.
Also it's ironic because all the things she criticized me for(aloofness, forgetfulness, poor school performance and not sticking with college) are due to a condition she didn't get me treated for, instead of my just being undisciplined or lazy. I truly feel a difference in the first time in my life and while I still got bad habits to break I don't feel trapped, but still feel the grief/regret/anger over the lost time and feeling let down because we are taught our parents always know better, but then things like this happen. As a note I have no drug/food allergies or heart issues.
Anyway, it does make me wonder if any of you in other parts of healthcare deal with ADHD and what it's like. Were you re/diagnosed as an adult too? Do you take meds or just self manage? did you ever deal with people like my mom yourselves or their opinions?
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2023.06.07 10:21 happyfeethappyfeet My (28F) husband (29M) doesn't consider me his wife
We were together for 5 years in a loving relationship (met at college). I had to change countries because of a job I got in Europe. He knew all along I was in search for this, and supported me. It would be good for his career as well once he comes on spousal visa and gets a job here. He didn't believe in marriage much and always said he wants to marry late (after 30). I too wasn't too keen on marrying early. But once this opportunity came, there was no other option in my eyes other than marrying as it is nearly impossible to get a job directly from my country to Europe without at least coming here for Masters (I was extremely lucky). I wanted him to marry and then come here as spouse and then search for a job while I supported us. He didn't agree at first, because his parents didn't agree at all as my country is conservative and doesn't accept easily. They didn't know about us until then. But when I told him our relationship won't last long if we are going to do long distance for years, and throw away what's within our reach, he agreed to marry. It's been 7 months I have come to EU, and now I'm getting to know through him that he doesn't believe in marriage at all, he doesn't consider me his wife, but just a partner. He still loves me the same way. He has always been good towards me, and very trustworthy. I have been cheated on before by someone else, so I know my husband is truly a good guy. But I'm unable to accept that he doesn't consider me his wife. He never made it clear at the time of marriage that he was forced into this. That he doesn't believe in marriage at all. I was also not dying to marry him. I wanted to marry him someday. But at that point when our circumstances changed, I wanted to marry because I didn't want to stay away from him. I have never ever stayed away from him. And I thought 5 years is enough time for someone to committ. What do I do now? I wouldn't have married him if I knew about his beliefs. He never made it clear. He always said he wanted to marry after 30. But that meant he believes in marriage right? But now he is saying the opposite. And that too after getting married.
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2023.06.07 10:16 WireyWhenWet AITA for being pissed that my ex came and took my daughter for the day whilst - was asleep, and didn't give me the chance to say morning or goodbye?
Sorry its a long one
Context: Me and ex split, She lives with her new BF, I live at home with my daughter. Trying to be amicable. [Additionally, Ex still has a key for my house]
Arrangement is- Mon & Weds, Ex picks her up from mine as they're her non-working days, so I can head in to my office instead of working from home.
Usually I'm up for about 7:45, she's at mine for around 8-8:15ish, as luckily work is flexible with my start times to accommodate.
This morning I stirred, hearing kiddo crying downstairs at about 7:17 long before my alarm, and sounding like she's getting her hair done but crying at her mum - I sort of woke to that, but being that it was early and I was still in that 10 secs of confusion that you get when you're disoriented sometimes when you first wake up. I laid there a moment trying to deduce if I was dreaming or if something was actually wrong.
I gave it another few secs, notice my door was still closed, hear nothing and put my head back in my pillow. I then hear the front door go.
I got up, saw that kiddos bed was empty. I ran and looked out the window to see the Ex's car outside, and got a message to say:
'Right weve gone. Let me know what time your picking kiddo up thnx'
...I always see kiddo every morning to say hey, get hugs, etc. Regardless of what day it is.
I sent a clip over WhatsApp saying morning to my daughter, have a nice day and Daddy loves you.
As I did that, I saw that I had a message to me at 06:27 from the Ex saying she is heading my way in 10 mins, because she isn't feeling well and doesn't want to sit in morning traffic..
Of course, at this time I'm usually asleep, so in any regard didn't and wouldn't have normally seen that, but regardless of that message still feel like I've basically had my child taken from me, and had no idea or being anywhere near aware of what's going on.
So my question is..
AITA for essentially losing my shit about this? And at essentially being dismissed for how I felt about things?
Ex: You heard her up, you could have opened door. Dont get arsey with me for no reason. You want to say bye then come say bye if not i want to go home
Me: NO REASON?? You basically just pretty much kidnapped her and didn't give her or me a chance to say hi or bye, I heard her but thought you'd have at least let her see me, tell me you actually aren't that stupid to not get why I'm pissed off??
Ex: What the fuck...Either come say bye or dont. Im not waiting all day. Stop been fucking arsey. You coule have opened door. I didnt know you wanted me to open your door. Im not a mind reader. Stop been like this. Apologies we didnt barge into your room. Next time we will make sure we will There was no need to continue this conversation. Weve said our parts. Ive apologised. End of.
Me: NO YOU FUCKING HAVEN'T
Ex: Dunno if you can read let me say it again!.... APOLOGIES THAT WE DIDNT COME IN TO YOU! NEXT TIME WE WILL MAKE SURE WE DO.
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2023.06.07 10:16 prohomes3 🔥🔥Zero Deposit 🔥🔥 Puchong, walking distance to IOI mall (near LRT station)
2023.06.07 10:15 bloodchylde Pokemon TCG Pack from Kmart
I just went to Kmart and bought a few pack, ive some luck with them recently and scored a few nice pulls, today though, there were 5 packs near the card section and i thought "hmmm 5 packs, exactly what i was after" when i grabbed them and walked off i thought to myself "maybe there was a reason those 5 packs were separated from the rest?" i looked at the packs in their cardboard holders and i though "nah, they seem fine" when i got home and opened them i was sorely disappointed, not one good pull :(
are the luck gods not with me today?
or were those 5 packs somehow knowingly unwanted, as if there is a 'tell' with the cardboard sleeves?
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